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How does being stuck in a toxic marriage affect children?
For those people, it's not good if men fix it but women don't fix it. If the female worker fixes it,...
For those people, it's not good if men fix it but women don't fix it. If the female worker fixes it, but the male worker does not, then such a marriage should be said to be a marriage that cannot be hypnotized. In such an unreconcilable marriage, the children are suffering from the fear that their fathers will be separated from their mothers.
Continuing to torture each other, the children often end up in a more oppressed life. That toxic marriage will always hurt like wearing the wrong shoes. There are many negative consequences for children living in such a marriage. Those negative effects will no longer be possible when the children reach adulthood. For the children, every time they think about it, they will feel like a nightmare and be afraid. Read what the negative effects are.
1) I tend to imitate my parents
Children are those who follow their parents as models. There are only (2) things that can happen to a child who sees an adulterous parent. "Even my father still takes many women." It's not unusual for my son to commit adultery.'' "My father's adultery caused my mother to cry. If it is the son's turn, he will never commit adultery. I don't want my children to be hurt like I used to be.'' There, depending on the child's reasoning ability, it becomes one of those 2 types of people. When the guardian became uncontrollable and thoughtless due to his weak intellect and suffering from his childhood, the father, They will become the kind of children who will follow after their mother. The generation that will be born from that kind of children will also face pain again.
2) It can cause emotional harm
It's easy to say. Being emotionally hurt is so naive that it doesn't end. As an adult, I feel pain every time I think about it. When I saw my father beating my mother, I felt sad on behalf of my mother. The fear of the terrible father, When I see my mother's tears, I don't know why, I feel sad. A child who knows nothing about the pain will suffer for a long time. That's why, when we tolerate a dysfunctional marriage so that our children don't become separated from each other, in the long run, the more we face such problems every day, the more miserable our children will be every day. In fact, saying to look at the children's faces in marriage does not mean that the children are miserable because they have a different father and a different mother. It is asked to think about the daily struggle of father and mother and the crying faces of their children who will suffer every day.
3) I can no longer be comfortable in social relationships
Children who experience adversity in childhood are usually vulnerable. But showing sadness in public is also a fear of being considered pathetic. That's why in front of people, they become people who pretend to be firm and strong as if they don't feel anything. She can no longer be sociable. I don't dare to open my feelings. You can also become suspicious of everyone.
4) Makes bad habits easy
When children with weak reasoning skills lack proper parenting, they tend to seek an outlet to relieve their distress. Then, if you find a good friend, you will be on the right path, but if you have a bad friend, you will easily be on the wrong path. They only consider their friends to be true and don't respect their parents, so they don't listen to their parents' words. Because of this, some children of parents who are fighting full-time without proper supervision are prone to bad behavior. When you want to forget about domestic misery, you tend to focus on something else, so if you are good, you will become the best person, or if you are bad, you will become the worst person. For example. A child who just scrolls through schoolwork as a distraction because of the pain of parents fighting at home can become the top student in the class. Not like that, a child who likes to play games and forget everything without writing to distract his parents from fighting becomes addicted to playing games.
5) They tend to be private and lonely
Such children do not trust the people around them, so they do not reveal their true feelings to anyone. At home, everyone becomes more pessimistic. at school In the course, etc., it is often private. In other words, if you don't have friends, you are often alone. Everyone suspects that their feelings will be mocked. They are often shy about expressing their feelings openly. In this way, they can become lonely children.
In fact, a person marries because of love, but at that time, one can see the other's bad behavior openly. When you see the truth like that, you realize your own mistakes, Both parties will try not to break up the marriage that has already been fixed and established. Not like that, one will correct his mistakes, but the other will do what he wants to do, Dissolution of marriage The future of children happiness If you don't think about things like that and don't correct the mistakes, then that marriage becomes a neutral marriage and becomes a toxic marriage. The best way to break up such a toxic marriage is to break it up outright. Separation of father and mother for the sake of the child only leads to constant fighting, Sadness and pain You will be able to avoid heartbreak and feel better. Not like that, neither broken nor broken, I am reminded that continuing an unhealthy marriage is, in other words, destroying the mental health and future of the children.
Continuing to torture each other, the children often end up in a more oppressed life. That toxic marriage will always hurt like wearing the wrong shoes. There are many negative consequences for children living in such a marriage. Those negative effects will no longer be possible when the children reach adulthood. For the children, every time they think about it, they will feel like a nightmare and be afraid. Read what the negative effects are.
1) I tend to imitate my parents
Children are those who follow their parents as models. There are only (2) things that can happen to a child who sees an adulterous parent. "Even my father still takes many women." It's not unusual for my son to commit adultery.'' "My father's adultery caused my mother to cry. If it is the son's turn, he will never commit adultery. I don't want my children to be hurt like I used to be.'' There, depending on the child's reasoning ability, it becomes one of those 2 types of people. When the guardian became uncontrollable and thoughtless due to his weak intellect and suffering from his childhood, the father, They will become the kind of children who will follow after their mother. The generation that will be born from that kind of children will also face pain again.
2) It can cause emotional harm
It's easy to say. Being emotionally hurt is so naive that it doesn't end. As an adult, I feel pain every time I think about it. When I saw my father beating my mother, I felt sad on behalf of my mother. The fear of the terrible father, When I see my mother's tears, I don't know why, I feel sad. A child who knows nothing about the pain will suffer for a long time. That's why, when we tolerate a dysfunctional marriage so that our children don't become separated from each other, in the long run, the more we face such problems every day, the more miserable our children will be every day. In fact, saying to look at the children's faces in marriage does not mean that the children are miserable because they have a different father and a different mother. It is asked to think about the daily struggle of father and mother and the crying faces of their children who will suffer every day.
3) I can no longer be comfortable in social relationships
Children who experience adversity in childhood are usually vulnerable. But showing sadness in public is also a fear of being considered pathetic. That's why in front of people, they become people who pretend to be firm and strong as if they don't feel anything. She can no longer be sociable. I don't dare to open my feelings. You can also become suspicious of everyone.
4) Makes bad habits easy
When children with weak reasoning skills lack proper parenting, they tend to seek an outlet to relieve their distress. Then, if you find a good friend, you will be on the right path, but if you have a bad friend, you will easily be on the wrong path. They only consider their friends to be true and don't respect their parents, so they don't listen to their parents' words. Because of this, some children of parents who are fighting full-time without proper supervision are prone to bad behavior. When you want to forget about domestic misery, you tend to focus on something else, so if you are good, you will become the best person, or if you are bad, you will become the worst person. For example. A child who just scrolls through schoolwork as a distraction because of the pain of parents fighting at home can become the top student in the class. Not like that, a child who likes to play games and forget everything without writing to distract his parents from fighting becomes addicted to playing games.
5) They tend to be private and lonely
Such children do not trust the people around them, so they do not reveal their true feelings to anyone. At home, everyone becomes more pessimistic. at school In the course, etc., it is often private. In other words, if you don't have friends, you are often alone. Everyone suspects that their feelings will be mocked. They are often shy about expressing their feelings openly. In this way, they can become lonely children.
In fact, a person marries because of love, but at that time, one can see the other's bad behavior openly. When you see the truth like that, you realize your own mistakes, Both parties will try not to break up the marriage that has already been fixed and established. Not like that, one will correct his mistakes, but the other will do what he wants to do, Dissolution of marriage The future of children happiness If you don't think about things like that and don't correct the mistakes, then that marriage becomes a neutral marriage and becomes a toxic marriage. The best way to break up such a toxic marriage is to break it up outright. Separation of father and mother for the sake of the child only leads to constant fighting, Sadness and pain You will be able to avoid heartbreak and feel better. Not like that, neither broken nor broken, I am reminded that continuing an unhealthy marriage is, in other words, destroying the mental health and future of the children.
