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How to raise a mature child?
1) Be responsible The mistakes of Burmese adults are saying, "I'm a child, so I don't know what to d...
1) Be responsible
The mistakes of Burmese adults are saying, "I'm a child, so I don't know what to do." Because the child doesn't know anything yet, we have to let the child know. I have to explain Good behavior must be taught. Among the things that should be taught like that, children should be taught to take on small responsibilities that come with their age. If you don't know how to do it because you're a child, ask them to do what they should be able to do at a child's age. For example. If the child is 5 years old, they will be asked to take back the child's toys, I will be asked to take back the story books and so on. By assigning responsibilities to the child according to the age of the child, the child will begin to take responsibility as he grows older, so he is no longer afraid to take responsibility. Don't just be green with responsibility. In some Burmese families, the child is 16, 17, Even though they are about 18, there are some children who don't even know how to wash their own dishes. At that age, he did not sweep the broom. Not being able to wash the dishes is because children should be asked to do it according to their age since they were young. Because of this, when the child becomes an adult, he no longer takes responsibility for himself. A child who doesn't take responsibility for himself will grow up depending on his parents wherever he is.... He cannot become a mature child. That's why I ask the child to take classes according to their age. Give responsibility. Then, as you grow older, you will learn to take on bigger responsibilities.
2) Learn to distinguish between right and wrong
Learning to distinguish between right and wrong helps the child to make decisions like an adult. What's wrong....what's true.... witches You can set an example with villains and tell them that villains make mistakes. It's like that....that a good person only does the right thing. I will be able to tell you what the truth is. Such truth, When you learn to distinguish between wrong and right, just explain the things that children shouldn't do. When the child learns that it should not be done, it will not be done again. Because she doesn't like the big bad guys from the stories she's been told in her mind. As a child, he does not know right from wrong and should not be taught. When a child is taught to distinguish between right and wrong from an early age, even though he is still a child, he will not make the mistake again. Even if you do, you learn a lesson. It makes a mature child.
3) Let them read
The main basis for distinguishing between right and wrong is to practice reading. A child who reads is a child, but he can touch all kinds of life from the book. I can sympathize. Become compassionate. Such a child has the potential to become a good person. He can consider the feelings of others and become a mature child.
4) Be able to decide for yourself
As a child, from choosing clothes to what mom wears, Acting like mom feeds him when he wants to eat doesn't make the child feel important anymore. In other words, when a child feels that he or she is not important, his or her self-confidence decreases. It makes him love himself less. A child who has little love for himself does not love others. the choice of others; I can't understand the right to decide. Therefore, give the child the opportunity to choose. Respect his decision. For example. If you ask what kind of dish to eat rice with, the child will be healthy. Without realizing the inconsistency, he will only say what he wants to eat. In such a place, the child should not be forced to make such a choice. Parents need to be smart. 3 or 4 kinds of healthy foods are set aside for children to eat and they are asked to choose what they like. "Leather...Would you like to eat your lunch with onions, or with corn flakes, or with quail eggs?" I want to choose, "Mommy will do it" should be allowed to choose from the framework that is beneficial for the child. The choice of the child must be respected and emphasized. That way, the child will learn to care about the adult's choice. So ask the child to choose. When he feels for himself whether his choice is right or wrong, he will learn to distinguish between right and wrong. A child who learns to decide for himself like this, for his life or He will learn to choose the right thing with his own decision.
5) Learn to discipline yourself
If you think it's funny for a child to learn to discipline himself, you're probably thinking it. In fact, if the child is empowered, the child will no longer need to be forced by adults to set rules. Work with the child to give him or her authority in a safe environment. For example. If the child wants to buy a toy at the toy store... before entering the toy store, adjust the child in advance. Before adjusting, the adult also commits. If an adult keeps his promise, the child will keep his promise. I will allow you to enter the toy store, I have the right to see what my son likes... but I will choose one of the toys and buy it, so I have to make sure to choose the one that my son likes and buy it. I will fall If there is a riot, I won't be able to buy a doll for my mother. If you agree, we will visit the toy store together. If that is the case, then that child also learns to set his own rules.
6) Learn to control yourself
"What happens if you do something....Mom has already told me, If you make a son, you will have to be a son.When the child tries to do it himself, he will know whether the parent's words are correct or not. Then he will learn to discipline himself. When they find out on their own, they will think about listening to their parents next time. That's why I ordered the child and said, "You mustn't do this at all." Try to do it and I will encourage you to die." Governing with power and discipline is not effective. The fact that he learns the mistakes from doing it himself and corrects it immediately makes it stick in the child's brain. That's why I learn to listen to my parents more. He also learns to control himself.
The mistakes of Burmese adults are saying, "I'm a child, so I don't know what to do." Because the child doesn't know anything yet, we have to let the child know. I have to explain Good behavior must be taught. Among the things that should be taught like that, children should be taught to take on small responsibilities that come with their age. If you don't know how to do it because you're a child, ask them to do what they should be able to do at a child's age. For example. If the child is 5 years old, they will be asked to take back the child's toys, I will be asked to take back the story books and so on. By assigning responsibilities to the child according to the age of the child, the child will begin to take responsibility as he grows older, so he is no longer afraid to take responsibility. Don't just be green with responsibility. In some Burmese families, the child is 16, 17, Even though they are about 18, there are some children who don't even know how to wash their own dishes. At that age, he did not sweep the broom. Not being able to wash the dishes is because children should be asked to do it according to their age since they were young. Because of this, when the child becomes an adult, he no longer takes responsibility for himself. A child who doesn't take responsibility for himself will grow up depending on his parents wherever he is.... He cannot become a mature child. That's why I ask the child to take classes according to their age. Give responsibility. Then, as you grow older, you will learn to take on bigger responsibilities.
2) Learn to distinguish between right and wrong
Learning to distinguish between right and wrong helps the child to make decisions like an adult. What's wrong....what's true.... witches You can set an example with villains and tell them that villains make mistakes. It's like that....that a good person only does the right thing. I will be able to tell you what the truth is. Such truth, When you learn to distinguish between wrong and right, just explain the things that children shouldn't do. When the child learns that it should not be done, it will not be done again. Because she doesn't like the big bad guys from the stories she's been told in her mind. As a child, he does not know right from wrong and should not be taught. When a child is taught to distinguish between right and wrong from an early age, even though he is still a child, he will not make the mistake again. Even if you do, you learn a lesson. It makes a mature child.
3) Let them read
The main basis for distinguishing between right and wrong is to practice reading. A child who reads is a child, but he can touch all kinds of life from the book. I can sympathize. Become compassionate. Such a child has the potential to become a good person. He can consider the feelings of others and become a mature child.
4) Be able to decide for yourself
As a child, from choosing clothes to what mom wears, Acting like mom feeds him when he wants to eat doesn't make the child feel important anymore. In other words, when a child feels that he or she is not important, his or her self-confidence decreases. It makes him love himself less. A child who has little love for himself does not love others. the choice of others; I can't understand the right to decide. Therefore, give the child the opportunity to choose. Respect his decision. For example. If you ask what kind of dish to eat rice with, the child will be healthy. Without realizing the inconsistency, he will only say what he wants to eat. In such a place, the child should not be forced to make such a choice. Parents need to be smart. 3 or 4 kinds of healthy foods are set aside for children to eat and they are asked to choose what they like. "Leather...Would you like to eat your lunch with onions, or with corn flakes, or with quail eggs?" I want to choose, "Mommy will do it" should be allowed to choose from the framework that is beneficial for the child. The choice of the child must be respected and emphasized. That way, the child will learn to care about the adult's choice. So ask the child to choose. When he feels for himself whether his choice is right or wrong, he will learn to distinguish between right and wrong. A child who learns to decide for himself like this, for his life or He will learn to choose the right thing with his own decision.
5) Learn to discipline yourself
If you think it's funny for a child to learn to discipline himself, you're probably thinking it. In fact, if the child is empowered, the child will no longer need to be forced by adults to set rules. Work with the child to give him or her authority in a safe environment. For example. If the child wants to buy a toy at the toy store... before entering the toy store, adjust the child in advance. Before adjusting, the adult also commits. If an adult keeps his promise, the child will keep his promise. I will allow you to enter the toy store, I have the right to see what my son likes... but I will choose one of the toys and buy it, so I have to make sure to choose the one that my son likes and buy it. I will fall If there is a riot, I won't be able to buy a doll for my mother. If you agree, we will visit the toy store together. If that is the case, then that child also learns to set his own rules.
6) Learn to control yourself
"What happens if you do something....Mom has already told me, If you make a son, you will have to be a son.When the child tries to do it himself, he will know whether the parent's words are correct or not. Then he will learn to discipline himself. When they find out on their own, they will think about listening to their parents next time. That's why I ordered the child and said, "You mustn't do this at all." Try to do it and I will encourage you to die." Governing with power and discipline is not effective. The fact that he learns the mistakes from doing it himself and corrects it immediately makes it stick in the child's brain. That's why I learn to listen to my parents more. He also learns to control himself.
