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What should one do to become a gentle but strong-willed woman?
1) Try to be self-sufficient. Usually, after marriage, women are free from the view that they have t...
1) Try to be self-sufficient.
Usually, after marriage, women are free from the view that they have to rely only on men, and they are already trying to compete with men. But there are still a few. That's why women need to constantly improve their skills even after marriage. The woman laughed. Not a man, The ability to relate to yourself in a community where you have to survive on a regular basis, You should always try to improve your skills in one way or another. A person who is trying to increase self-confidence, The mood is stable. I can no longer focus on other distractions, and I can see my own progress in life more and more clearly.
2) accept it as it is; If you can't accept it, give it up.
Another thing is that women hold on to the proverb about their boyfriend or spouse, "Don't carry your insides outside." I don't know who started it. At that time, I did not dare to face all my anxiety and fear. I don't dare to solve it anymore, I spend my whole life feeling crushed, There are women whose futures are lost. That's why in order to be a strong and competent woman, if you should accept the situation you have as it is, try to think about "what you can do for yourself from that situation". It's not like that.....If it's an unacceptable situation, make a clear choice to give it up without accepting it at all. The earlier you decide, the sooner you have time to do what you should do with your life. This is the same not only for women but also for men. Everyone should act this way if they are faced with a dangerous situation.
3) Always rely on yourself.
As I usually set, I'm tired, shy Don't take what you hear everywhere, As a Burmese girl, be shy where you should be shy. But where you should be bold, you must be bold. For example, You don't need to keep quiet because you are ashamed of being treated inappropriately on the bus. This is a matter that only the perpetrator should be ashamed of, so it should be solved boldly. If you don't sound your belt before passing the bus stop, you should shout out loud and stop because you're shy and don't shout. I have to shout at the station where I'm going to get off, so I don't need to be ashamed. And so on. It's best to try to understand what you should be ashamed of and what you shouldn't be ashamed of, and rely on yourself. A self-reliant person becomes more capable over time. That's why always rely on yourself.
4) Don't lose sight of the times.
"Because I am a mother of children, As I am married, I don't need to work outside anymore. What has progressed without ever losing sight of the times? What should I learn more? In order to improve my skills, I also need to keep abreast of the times.
5) Learn to master a science.
The main thing is that I don't have to work outside. Being married, We need to not lose ourselves in the excuses of becoming a mother. In order not to lose yourself, you should learn to master a science for yourself. That science can become a strength for yourself, It can also become food for yourself. That's why learning to sew, flower arrangement, beauty course Always learn and master any science that is relevant to you, such as language.
Holding onto the points above, being a girl, accept it gently. But mentally, I urge you to prepare yourself to be a strong woman who does not give up. The above points are not only for women, but also for men, as they are points that should be adopted in order to be a mentally strong person without always relying on others.
Usually, after marriage, women are free from the view that they have to rely only on men, and they are already trying to compete with men. But there are still a few. That's why women need to constantly improve their skills even after marriage. The woman laughed. Not a man, The ability to relate to yourself in a community where you have to survive on a regular basis, You should always try to improve your skills in one way or another. A person who is trying to increase self-confidence, The mood is stable. I can no longer focus on other distractions, and I can see my own progress in life more and more clearly.
2) accept it as it is; If you can't accept it, give it up.
Another thing is that women hold on to the proverb about their boyfriend or spouse, "Don't carry your insides outside." I don't know who started it. At that time, I did not dare to face all my anxiety and fear. I don't dare to solve it anymore, I spend my whole life feeling crushed, There are women whose futures are lost. That's why in order to be a strong and competent woman, if you should accept the situation you have as it is, try to think about "what you can do for yourself from that situation". It's not like that.....If it's an unacceptable situation, make a clear choice to give it up without accepting it at all. The earlier you decide, the sooner you have time to do what you should do with your life. This is the same not only for women but also for men. Everyone should act this way if they are faced with a dangerous situation.
3) Always rely on yourself.
As I usually set, I'm tired, shy Don't take what you hear everywhere, As a Burmese girl, be shy where you should be shy. But where you should be bold, you must be bold. For example, You don't need to keep quiet because you are ashamed of being treated inappropriately on the bus. This is a matter that only the perpetrator should be ashamed of, so it should be solved boldly. If you don't sound your belt before passing the bus stop, you should shout out loud and stop because you're shy and don't shout. I have to shout at the station where I'm going to get off, so I don't need to be ashamed. And so on. It's best to try to understand what you should be ashamed of and what you shouldn't be ashamed of, and rely on yourself. A self-reliant person becomes more capable over time. That's why always rely on yourself.
4) Don't lose sight of the times.
"Because I am a mother of children, As I am married, I don't need to work outside anymore. What has progressed without ever losing sight of the times? What should I learn more? In order to improve my skills, I also need to keep abreast of the times.
5) Learn to master a science.
The main thing is that I don't have to work outside. Being married, We need to not lose ourselves in the excuses of becoming a mother. In order not to lose yourself, you should learn to master a science for yourself. That science can become a strength for yourself, It can also become food for yourself. That's why learning to sew, flower arrangement, beauty course Always learn and master any science that is relevant to you, such as language.
Holding onto the points above, being a girl, accept it gently. But mentally, I urge you to prepare yourself to be a strong woman who does not give up. The above points are not only for women, but also for men, as they are points that should be adopted in order to be a mentally strong person without always relying on others.
