English
မြန်မာ
Behaviors of victims of verbal abuse in childhood
"1) Low self-esteem When you were bullied and heard harsh words in your childhood, it tends to stick...
"1) Low self-esteem
When you were bullied and heard harsh words in your childhood, it tends to stick in your inner mind. You are useless... When you are always hearing things that bother you, such as nothing useful anywhere, you tend to think of those things as truth. I really believe it.
If you talk about positive things and positive things, If you hear it a lot, you tend to think that the topic is real. As a child, depending on what your family and parents say about you, you always remember those words. That's why if you were abused with harsh words and bad words in your childhood, you will lose confidence in yourself, Doubts about you, Whether you love or dislike you, You may feel some kind of dislike. Because of how a person with low self-esteem can feel
- Self-blame
People who are always verbally abused are always blamed. That's why, what about the other person? Almost everyone wants to blame. They cannot be held responsible for their mistakes. He often blames and criticizes other people's fault. Having grown up like that, when they grow up, they can't help but blame themselves. They don't feel comfortable with everything they do. Always feel that something is wrong.
- Difficulty in making decisions•
When that person becomes an adult, it is often difficult for them to make their own decisions. What they want to choose They are always confused about what they want and good ideas. I don't know what to choose. Because they are always afraid and are subjected to cruel choices by family members and parents, when they grow up, they become weak in their ability to make decisions for themselves.
- Seeing yourself in a bad light
Since they have been talked about in a bad way since they were young, they are always addicted to that bad talk about themselves. In their inner mind, they tend to see themselves as bad.
- Not feeling important
Victims of verbal abuse are sometimes neglected. Being constantly ignored in your childhood, whether it's when you tell us what you need or what you want, when you're an adult, others don't care about you. It makes you feel insignificant to others.
2) Bad mood
The normalization of emotions is also related to the development of health. A person who has been verbally abused often feels that his hope is lost. They feel fear and sadness more easily. It makes the emotional feelings more intense. The following emotional reactions may occur.
- Being oppressed
Feeling oppressed is a childhood experience of being pushed and hurt. It is related to bullying. Trying to control their emotions makes things worse. If you have experienced oppression, the consequences can have a profound effect on your entire life.
- Too much empathy or no empathy at all
People who have been verbally abused tend to feel more sympathetic than others. This is because they are more sensitive than others because of their pre-existing trauma. If not, he might be someone who has no sympathy at all. Kindness is a good thing, but if you feel like it's too much, it's probably because the person has some emotional feelings.
- Not wanting to receive compassion
This is another one. A child who grew up being bullied, others feel sorry for him, Sympathy I don't like showing kindness. I mean, they don't want others to see them as pitiful people in their minds.
- Rapid mood swings
Mood changes quickly. Especially easily depressed. Most likely depression. Suddenly being so happy that I can't jump from being happy to immediately being sad.
3) Wanting attention
People who are verbally abusive tend to be ignored, so they want the attention of others. whether it is good or not Whether it's bad or not, everyone just wants to pay attention to him and be aware of him. That behavior can continue into adulthood. Instead of wanting attention from the good side, it becomes more cautious to do bad things and want attention.
4) Anxiety and fear of making mistakes
Victims of verbal abuse tend to be anxious when they grow up. always being blamed; Being talked about Punishment They are also afraid that something will go wrong due to luck. Always afraid of missing out. He works very carefully and always wants to be perfect.
5) Having problems with social relationships
Those who were treated like this when they were young had friends, They often become people who have problems between their girlfriends. Poor understanding. I don't understand how to build a good relationship.
- Make believe.
People with normal emotions have a normal feeling of overflowing, without forcing them to believe in each other's relationships. Live to believe, I don't feel that trust too much. However, those who have been violently treated in childhood are forced to believe in the relationship. Because they always have the feeling that they believe in everything they do. Ignored by my parents when I was young. It's because they are constantly being asked with a sense of disbelief that everything a child does is true...or is it a lie.... Because they themselves were promised by their parents when they were young and were often broken.
- They end up paying too much.
Whenever those people feel hurt, there is no one around them to encourage them. Or they always feel insecure because they are not there to protect them. Friends around them because of insecurity They tend to want their friends to be on their side. That's why I can give, own, You end up attracting another person by giving everything you have. In their minds, giving the other person what they want is because of their sense of security that they can become their side. That's why sometimes they get bullied a lot. They only encounter people who come close to them with a desire for everything they have
- Often rely on others too much.
In social relationships, there is always a tendency to rely on others rather than oneself. It could be because you are always afraid and feel insecure emotionally. He is comfortable with someone else helping him. I feel like I can't accomplish anything by myself. There may be no problem in a relationship that understands you, but you may end up being abused again because you are always dependent on others.
Being verbally abused in childhood can influence a child's adult life and lead to feelings of emotional weakness. It can affect the whole life of the child. That is depression, Not being able to rely on myself Lack of self-confidence A lack of self-love is directly related to a child's success in life and can affect a child's personality.
https://www.powerofpositivity.com/adult-behaviors-someone…/?
When you were bullied and heard harsh words in your childhood, it tends to stick in your inner mind. You are useless... When you are always hearing things that bother you, such as nothing useful anywhere, you tend to think of those things as truth. I really believe it.
If you talk about positive things and positive things, If you hear it a lot, you tend to think that the topic is real. As a child, depending on what your family and parents say about you, you always remember those words. That's why if you were abused with harsh words and bad words in your childhood, you will lose confidence in yourself, Doubts about you, Whether you love or dislike you, You may feel some kind of dislike. Because of how a person with low self-esteem can feel
- Self-blame
People who are always verbally abused are always blamed. That's why, what about the other person? Almost everyone wants to blame. They cannot be held responsible for their mistakes. He often blames and criticizes other people's fault. Having grown up like that, when they grow up, they can't help but blame themselves. They don't feel comfortable with everything they do. Always feel that something is wrong.
- Difficulty in making decisions•
When that person becomes an adult, it is often difficult for them to make their own decisions. What they want to choose They are always confused about what they want and good ideas. I don't know what to choose. Because they are always afraid and are subjected to cruel choices by family members and parents, when they grow up, they become weak in their ability to make decisions for themselves.
- Seeing yourself in a bad light
Since they have been talked about in a bad way since they were young, they are always addicted to that bad talk about themselves. In their inner mind, they tend to see themselves as bad.
- Not feeling important
Victims of verbal abuse are sometimes neglected. Being constantly ignored in your childhood, whether it's when you tell us what you need or what you want, when you're an adult, others don't care about you. It makes you feel insignificant to others.
2) Bad mood
The normalization of emotions is also related to the development of health. A person who has been verbally abused often feels that his hope is lost. They feel fear and sadness more easily. It makes the emotional feelings more intense. The following emotional reactions may occur.
- Being oppressed
Feeling oppressed is a childhood experience of being pushed and hurt. It is related to bullying. Trying to control their emotions makes things worse. If you have experienced oppression, the consequences can have a profound effect on your entire life.
- Too much empathy or no empathy at all
People who have been verbally abused tend to feel more sympathetic than others. This is because they are more sensitive than others because of their pre-existing trauma. If not, he might be someone who has no sympathy at all. Kindness is a good thing, but if you feel like it's too much, it's probably because the person has some emotional feelings.
- Not wanting to receive compassion
This is another one. A child who grew up being bullied, others feel sorry for him, Sympathy I don't like showing kindness. I mean, they don't want others to see them as pitiful people in their minds.
- Rapid mood swings
Mood changes quickly. Especially easily depressed. Most likely depression. Suddenly being so happy that I can't jump from being happy to immediately being sad.
3) Wanting attention
People who are verbally abusive tend to be ignored, so they want the attention of others. whether it is good or not Whether it's bad or not, everyone just wants to pay attention to him and be aware of him. That behavior can continue into adulthood. Instead of wanting attention from the good side, it becomes more cautious to do bad things and want attention.
4) Anxiety and fear of making mistakes
Victims of verbal abuse tend to be anxious when they grow up. always being blamed; Being talked about Punishment They are also afraid that something will go wrong due to luck. Always afraid of missing out. He works very carefully and always wants to be perfect.
5) Having problems with social relationships
Those who were treated like this when they were young had friends, They often become people who have problems between their girlfriends. Poor understanding. I don't understand how to build a good relationship.
- Make believe.
People with normal emotions have a normal feeling of overflowing, without forcing them to believe in each other's relationships. Live to believe, I don't feel that trust too much. However, those who have been violently treated in childhood are forced to believe in the relationship. Because they always have the feeling that they believe in everything they do. Ignored by my parents when I was young. It's because they are constantly being asked with a sense of disbelief that everything a child does is true...or is it a lie.... Because they themselves were promised by their parents when they were young and were often broken.
- They end up paying too much.
Whenever those people feel hurt, there is no one around them to encourage them. Or they always feel insecure because they are not there to protect them. Friends around them because of insecurity They tend to want their friends to be on their side. That's why I can give, own, You end up attracting another person by giving everything you have. In their minds, giving the other person what they want is because of their sense of security that they can become their side. That's why sometimes they get bullied a lot. They only encounter people who come close to them with a desire for everything they have
- Often rely on others too much.
In social relationships, there is always a tendency to rely on others rather than oneself. It could be because you are always afraid and feel insecure emotionally. He is comfortable with someone else helping him. I feel like I can't accomplish anything by myself. There may be no problem in a relationship that understands you, but you may end up being abused again because you are always dependent on others.
Being verbally abused in childhood can influence a child's adult life and lead to feelings of emotional weakness. It can affect the whole life of the child. That is depression, Not being able to rely on myself Lack of self-confidence A lack of self-love is directly related to a child's success in life and can affect a child's personality.
https://www.powerofpositivity.com/adult-behaviors-someone…/?
