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Shouldn't we stop beating children or not?
"When I was a child, I really hated the person who hit me. In addition, I was too old to say that he...
"When I was a child, I really hated the person who hit me. In addition, I was too old to say that he hit me, so when I was an adult, he wouldn't dare to hit me anymore. I often have such rude thoughts. I don't think that I love the person who hit me when I was a child. I just saw that he hit me as a child. I used to think like that when I was a child When it comes, how will it be controlled, how will it be effective, and how will it be tactful? I really wanted to know how to understand everything. Then I realized that it is very difficult to manage.
Consequences of spanking a child
If you can take care of a child without beating it, it is the community of parents who have taken care of the child. It is not very convenient to control the child without hitting it. Yes, then the shooting must not be finished. There are many physical consequences. The main thing is that when the beating is not finished, it causes the child's skin pain as well as the child's emotional trauma. Parents have the mindset that if their child does this kind of behavior or something wrong, they won't do it again. That thought is wrong. Even if you shoot when you're young, you don't do it for a while, don't you? Ask yourself again. Then the child is like that. It's not that I'm afraid I hit it and I'll never do it again. I'm afraid of shooting, I was still shooting because I was afraid of shooting. I stopped while still being beaten. When you don't know, you will do it again. That's why shooting is useless. baby's skin I feel like I'm being bullied in my child's mind, hurt, When parents grow up, they will want to be naughty. That's the negative effects. When a child who becomes like that becomes an adult, it is forced to react to everything that was taken from him when he was a child, so it will be more difficult to control him when he becomes an adult. Then you should not beat the child.
If you want to discipline without hitting, the first thing you should know
Some parents may argue with that. If you don't hit the child again, you won't be able to control it again. One thing to be aware of is that the child has acquired some intelligence since leaving the mother's womb. Since then, I want the child to be the way I want it to be. Correcting the discipline to become the style you want to discipline, To be taken care of. I can't do it until I'm 16 years old. to change form It is no longer easy to teach the way you want. That's why we have to be careful when the baby is 6 months old. Correct the child since about a year. (Even if it is controlled at that age, even if it is modeled, it can still change according to the style of its friends when it reaches adolescence) Therefore, if you want your child to be clever, If you don't want to be taught easily, practice from childhood. Another bad thing is that the child is disciplined. It is forbidden not to do it; The adults themselves don't fall. That is very bad. A man who behaves like that can be modeled with a stick when he is still a child. As an adult, you can't control it at all. What some adults don't realize is that if you want your child's behavior to be good, you have to be good yourself. Children imitate their behavior. Your child will become like you. That's why before you stop the child, ask yourself. Do I stop the child and do it in front of him? Fix it immediately. Whatever you don't want the child to do, the person who will discipline the child should not do it at all. Then the child should be disciplined. Don't do it behind the child's back either. Don't forget that if your child sees you sneaking behind his back, he will also become a child who sneaks what he wants to do behind your back.
That is the first thing that adults should do if they want to discipline the child without hitting them. If you can practice this, you can discipline the child without hitting.
How to discipline a child without hitting him.
Children are a lot of unknowns that came into the world yesterday. As mentioned above, There are many things I don't know yet, so I do it out of curiosity. Then, if the child explores something, gently call the child to the side. For example. The child will try to play with fire. Gently call the child to the side. Fire is hot, When it's hot, my skin will hurt. Besides that, if that fire burns other things, how can it continue? It should not be played at all. I explained that I was worried about harming my son. Ask him who he thinks is hurt because he doesn't listen to his son. Let him think. ask him If you want to hold it without listening to what I'm saying, you can hold it. Ask who do you think is sick, not mom. When he found out that he was going to be sick In front of you, she started to hold it, She doesn't hold back behind you.
The main thing is to explain your reasons. When you explain the reason to the child, choose words that the child will understand and explain. When the child understands, the child does not even do it. One thing is that if you make a rule that you do not scold your child, it is important that you do not scold yourself in front of your child. If it's a dangerous case, explain it once before the end. For example. If you stop going out of the balcony because it is dangerous, you will die if you fall. Make sure to explain that if you don't die, you may have a badly broken arm and leg.
Explain the consequences to the child carefully. Tell the child firmly that if he repeats something that has already been explained to him, he will not be forgiven, but punished. If you see him doing it again, call the child over. Ask with a calm face and cool tone. Do it again or not? Explained or not? Ask the reason why you are doing it again.
Is the child doing what the adult forbids, not because he wants to do it, but because of the reason? Is it because of the environment? If the child wants to explain, let him explain. Calmly listen to what the child wants to say about why. Don't scream in anger and refuse to accept an explanation at all. It is possible that the child is explaining the truth, but it should be accepted respectfully. But this time say it's a warning.
Whatever the reason, I have forgiven you exactly 2 times as I said. That's why tell me about the punishment this time. If you have to take the stick, take it. If you see the stick at the first warning rather than telling you to hit it, you will hesitate to do it a second time. (As a deterrent) Don't always hold a stick and show off. It can make things worse if you know you're not hitting.
If the child is effective with some punishments, you can use other punishments instead of the stick. For example. I can no longer buy the toy that I will buy at the end of the month because of my own fault. Or give advance warning that you won't buy a sketchbook and colored pencils at all. Don't do it in front or behind. It should be taught from an age when you can understand the negative consequences of becoming a liar that doing something behind the scenes is a liar. (You should tell stories and examples from the age when you understand what a liar, a right person, a bad person, and a fool are.)
And many parents listen to their parents and say that they are clever people. It's wrong to say that if you don't listen, you won't love me anymore. When a child grows up, he will do what he thinks is good. He listens to you and doesn't care if he's smart or not. That's why parents love their children the most. Therefore, punishing now will be a matter of harm to the child, so explain why punishment is prohibited. Because parents love their children the most, they will forbid anything that is bad for their children. Don't listen and ask.
Each child's style is different, so it is convenient according to the child's situation. You can learn what you should learn, read more, and teach.
I would like to tell the parents of children that raising a child to be a good person is the most precious gift for a child's whole life. That the world is born to become good people and cultured children, Bringing good to the future world. It is only in the hands of the parents to produce and teach good people like that, so they need to be nurtured in the best way possible.
A child can have many forms, so the person who will discipline the child must first understand the child's type, and not the method of beating, but the method of discipline that will be convenient. You have to choose the method of discipline. #BAWA101"
Consequences of spanking a child
If you can take care of a child without beating it, it is the community of parents who have taken care of the child. It is not very convenient to control the child without hitting it. Yes, then the shooting must not be finished. There are many physical consequences. The main thing is that when the beating is not finished, it causes the child's skin pain as well as the child's emotional trauma. Parents have the mindset that if their child does this kind of behavior or something wrong, they won't do it again. That thought is wrong. Even if you shoot when you're young, you don't do it for a while, don't you? Ask yourself again. Then the child is like that. It's not that I'm afraid I hit it and I'll never do it again. I'm afraid of shooting, I was still shooting because I was afraid of shooting. I stopped while still being beaten. When you don't know, you will do it again. That's why shooting is useless. baby's skin I feel like I'm being bullied in my child's mind, hurt, When parents grow up, they will want to be naughty. That's the negative effects. When a child who becomes like that becomes an adult, it is forced to react to everything that was taken from him when he was a child, so it will be more difficult to control him when he becomes an adult. Then you should not beat the child.
If you want to discipline without hitting, the first thing you should know
Some parents may argue with that. If you don't hit the child again, you won't be able to control it again. One thing to be aware of is that the child has acquired some intelligence since leaving the mother's womb. Since then, I want the child to be the way I want it to be. Correcting the discipline to become the style you want to discipline, To be taken care of. I can't do it until I'm 16 years old. to change form It is no longer easy to teach the way you want. That's why we have to be careful when the baby is 6 months old. Correct the child since about a year. (Even if it is controlled at that age, even if it is modeled, it can still change according to the style of its friends when it reaches adolescence) Therefore, if you want your child to be clever, If you don't want to be taught easily, practice from childhood. Another bad thing is that the child is disciplined. It is forbidden not to do it; The adults themselves don't fall. That is very bad. A man who behaves like that can be modeled with a stick when he is still a child. As an adult, you can't control it at all. What some adults don't realize is that if you want your child's behavior to be good, you have to be good yourself. Children imitate their behavior. Your child will become like you. That's why before you stop the child, ask yourself. Do I stop the child and do it in front of him? Fix it immediately. Whatever you don't want the child to do, the person who will discipline the child should not do it at all. Then the child should be disciplined. Don't do it behind the child's back either. Don't forget that if your child sees you sneaking behind his back, he will also become a child who sneaks what he wants to do behind your back.
That is the first thing that adults should do if they want to discipline the child without hitting them. If you can practice this, you can discipline the child without hitting.
How to discipline a child without hitting him.
Children are a lot of unknowns that came into the world yesterday. As mentioned above, There are many things I don't know yet, so I do it out of curiosity. Then, if the child explores something, gently call the child to the side. For example. The child will try to play with fire. Gently call the child to the side. Fire is hot, When it's hot, my skin will hurt. Besides that, if that fire burns other things, how can it continue? It should not be played at all. I explained that I was worried about harming my son. Ask him who he thinks is hurt because he doesn't listen to his son. Let him think. ask him If you want to hold it without listening to what I'm saying, you can hold it. Ask who do you think is sick, not mom. When he found out that he was going to be sick In front of you, she started to hold it, She doesn't hold back behind you.
The main thing is to explain your reasons. When you explain the reason to the child, choose words that the child will understand and explain. When the child understands, the child does not even do it. One thing is that if you make a rule that you do not scold your child, it is important that you do not scold yourself in front of your child. If it's a dangerous case, explain it once before the end. For example. If you stop going out of the balcony because it is dangerous, you will die if you fall. Make sure to explain that if you don't die, you may have a badly broken arm and leg.
Explain the consequences to the child carefully. Tell the child firmly that if he repeats something that has already been explained to him, he will not be forgiven, but punished. If you see him doing it again, call the child over. Ask with a calm face and cool tone. Do it again or not? Explained or not? Ask the reason why you are doing it again.
Is the child doing what the adult forbids, not because he wants to do it, but because of the reason? Is it because of the environment? If the child wants to explain, let him explain. Calmly listen to what the child wants to say about why. Don't scream in anger and refuse to accept an explanation at all. It is possible that the child is explaining the truth, but it should be accepted respectfully. But this time say it's a warning.
Whatever the reason, I have forgiven you exactly 2 times as I said. That's why tell me about the punishment this time. If you have to take the stick, take it. If you see the stick at the first warning rather than telling you to hit it, you will hesitate to do it a second time. (As a deterrent) Don't always hold a stick and show off. It can make things worse if you know you're not hitting.
If the child is effective with some punishments, you can use other punishments instead of the stick. For example. I can no longer buy the toy that I will buy at the end of the month because of my own fault. Or give advance warning that you won't buy a sketchbook and colored pencils at all. Don't do it in front or behind. It should be taught from an age when you can understand the negative consequences of becoming a liar that doing something behind the scenes is a liar. (You should tell stories and examples from the age when you understand what a liar, a right person, a bad person, and a fool are.)
And many parents listen to their parents and say that they are clever people. It's wrong to say that if you don't listen, you won't love me anymore. When a child grows up, he will do what he thinks is good. He listens to you and doesn't care if he's smart or not. That's why parents love their children the most. Therefore, punishing now will be a matter of harm to the child, so explain why punishment is prohibited. Because parents love their children the most, they will forbid anything that is bad for their children. Don't listen and ask.
Each child's style is different, so it is convenient according to the child's situation. You can learn what you should learn, read more, and teach.
I would like to tell the parents of children that raising a child to be a good person is the most precious gift for a child's whole life. That the world is born to become good people and cultured children, Bringing good to the future world. It is only in the hands of the parents to produce and teach good people like that, so they need to be nurtured in the best way possible.
A child can have many forms, so the person who will discipline the child must first understand the child's type, and not the method of beating, but the method of discipline that will be convenient. You have to choose the method of discipline. #BAWA101"
