Good for being an only child; Bad things

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In fact, it was good to be an only child. The bad points depend on the parents who teach them. Good...


In fact, it was good to be an only child. The bad points depend on the parents who teach them. Good and bad always coexist anywhere. Parents are the leaders for their children, right? Here are the pros and cons of being an only child compared to a child with many siblings.
1) There is full parental love. Parents love every child. But when there are many children, the parents who have to take care of them have many responsibilities. When there are many responsibilities, it becomes difficult to try to fulfill everyone's responsibilities. When you have a single child, you are only responsible for this child, so you can try to fulfill your responsibility. It can also show full love. Can also provide full care.
The negative effect of having a large family is, "The mother only cares about the eldest... but she doesn't care about the younger one." "My father loves the little one more...I don't love the big one" etc. If the parents are not able to fulfill their needs, disagreements are common. An only child cannot have such a negative effect.
2) Financially affordable. In a family with many children, parents have a lot of financial responsibilities, so they try to balance everything. In terms of money, it could be speedometers. For an only child, the parent can afford it. Financially, you can't be in too much of a hurry, and you can afford to provide everything you need.
3) The child also has more self-confidence because he can get full love from his parents.
The negative effect is that if the parents do not teach you, the child may become selfish. For example. If you are the only child in the hands of parents who want you everywhere because you are the only child, because you are the first to get anywhere. Being given priority can lead to a desire to win. That's why it's a good thing for a child to develop self-confidence. But the child should be taught to share (shring) when playing with other children or when meeting adults. Parents should teach children not to be selfish.
4) As an only child, when playing alone, he will learn to play with his own imaginary creations. (I need to ask him to play when there are companions.) When he is alone, he wants a companion, but he learns to play by himself. Drawing alone, Colors are painted, With 2 dolls and 3 dolls, one of them speaks in the form of the other, so the child's imagination often gets excited. More stable.
The negative side effect is that when you meet your partner, you become very friendly and start dreaming about your partner. Then the parent's teaching becomes necessary again. If the parent gives the child a companion to play with as a friend, even if there is no companion, the parent will no longer desire a companion too much, knowing that the parent has made time for him. Not like that, if the parent leaves the child to play with toys alone, the child will have friends from outside, such as If you are playing with a team, you will become eager to play and become friends with geeks.
5) There is more time for the child. Today, as parents of children, it is no longer possible to go to work as a normal person without taking modern courses or anything. At that time, either the child's mother or For fathers or modern technologies. You will have to attend various courses for work requirements or for yourself. Since the child is born alone, it is only one person who is responsible for it, so the parents can also spend time with the child. You can also give yourself back time. Time can be divided into small sections and used in a valuable way. Because the child can have some of the parents' time alone, it is better for the child as well as for the parents to have beneficial learning opportunities. That's good for parents of only children.
6) On the part of parents, if they have to pay attention to a lot of children, they may even become neglectful. But an only child can only give time to one child. Less neglect. A child also cares about the older ones....not caring about the younger ones.
That's why being an only child can have its pros and cons. As guardian parents, we can spend more time on an only child and give more care to them, so we can nurture them to become a more intelligent and understanding child.
But being alone can be more carefully controlled. Children are the stars of the future. Whether you raise your child to be a star in the future...or not to shine in the future is not related to the number of children, but only depends on the parents who will take the time to take care of them, so it is best to bear the burden that you can.

All of them Let them grow bright like the stars of the future. #Bawa101

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