"When I was young, if I was happy, I would be very happy. If I was sad, I would feel pain in my heart. If I hated someone, I would carry that hatred inside me, and I would not want to see, meet, or touch the person I hated.
When I get old enough, the lessons I've been taught by the people I've met have become normal, so I don't feel much anymore.

When I was young, I was hurt a lot. I don't need to explain a lot about the joys, but the most tiring feeling among the feelings is the pain of loved ones. The thing that burns me the most is the anger from people I hate. The feelings that make you feel bad are actually because, if you think about it, you are holding on to those feelings. The more I hold on to the feelings of the people I love, the more I feel pain. The more I thought about the feeling of hatred, the more I realized that I was holding on to myself without realizing it. At that time, the other person didn't know anything, but when he started to feel it, he started to burn. Hate is a very burning thing. You want to quench the hot heat outside with something, but the hot heat inside will cool down only when it is quenched. You have to know it yourself.

Either the heat caused by such hatred, Whether you feel it because of the pain or forget it, it's medicine. As Rita Mae Brown said, "The key to happiness is the memory of forgetting." Learn to forget about it. If you hurt someone enough to hate, don't hold it in your heart for too long. I make it heavy for myself, So let it go, in other words, forget it. Instead, focus on trying to create the best possible situation that they can't imagine. For example. If your boyfriend left you because of your lack of income, instead of sitting around and being heartbroken, focus on trying harder to double your income. Decide that the next time he meets you, he must be surprised to see you leave him because you have no income. You try twice as hard for the person who once put you down as being too poor. When you meet him again in the future, try to be the person who is far superior to him. For that to happen, nothing can happen just by adding pain and hatred for a long time and spreading drama. If you always put it inside yourself and always feel it, you will lose the job you are currently doing. That's why those who are bad to you don't deserve to be forgiven, but you are cold, We deserve peace. So forgive and forget them. hate them Instead of spending your life in pain, try twice as hard to make your life better than they think, and when you meet again in the future, there will be no pain. Please try to greet me with a big smile as a successful person without any hatred."