If that is the case, they will say that those who are not clear are the most worthless people in life. Because if it hurts you, Because I can't remove those who hurt me from my life knowing that they are bad people. That's why for such people, the short human life is rarely happy. I'm always angry because of people who give me all kinds of trouble. Confused Once the problems are solved, they always live in the midst of sixteen thousand troubles.
In fact, human life is not too complicated. People are too complicated. The problem is mostly created by people. People are getting involved in the problems. For example. In an adulterous family, the male is an adulterer. If the woman divorces the man, the problem is over. But usually they are not like that, and they forcefully get back together because they don't want to let go of the adulterer or because they have children. In that case, the man who is prone to adultery is secretly cheating because he doesn't care about the other person. In this kind of problem, the one who can let go most decisively will be the first to calm down and get the peace of mind first. But the more people's feelings are unattainable, the more they yearn and stretch.
It is the children who get caught in the middle because of such indecisive adults. Divorce is better for the children. It also reduces the heat for the hostess. Because of the family that is always trying to study, it hurts the children.
It's the same thing when you wake up one day and stay with your partner who is bad to you. It's the same thing, when you want to get over yourself, you know that you will not have any friends who come to visit you. I can't escape from the environment where I always blame myself and I'm traumatized like that. If you don't dare or can't do something that you have to immediately turn away from, such as a toxic environment or a workplace where you always bully yourself, the final consequences are felt by yourself.
In the same way, I continue to be in a relationship with a person who knows that he is lying to me. If it's related, it's like I'm looking for the problem myself. How do you avoid harming yourself from the time you know that someone is completely bad for you? You have to think with your brain and make a clear decision on how best to protect yourself. That's not a big ego, but a long-term problem that can affect you. Trying to avoid long-term risk.
Being clear is because the brain works more, and being unclear is because the heart is more of a priority. Sometimes, for some people, there are human poisons in life that are not possible because they think a lot with their hearts. For example. A pawn shop that exploits you asks for your help to borrow a large amount of money in your name and in your neighborhood. What should you do? What do you think you should do if it's a lot of money for you, but he doesn't even have a single bill, and he has a lot of debt that you already know?
You are not clear about that kind of problem, If you accept it because of the pain, you may be adding to the problem. Or, if you flatly refuse once saying, "I don't want to do financial matters...it's not possible", you will immediately have no heat, Won't you be cold?
In fact, people only create the problem and add to the problem with indecisiveness. That's why you give up what you should give up. It is natural to avoid things that are harmful to you in the long run. Anyone in the world tends to avoid things that will hurt them. It's not ego and selfishness, it's self-respect.
When you know that you should let go of something like that, letting it go will free you from stress. Because it makes you feel good, you can do more of what is right for you. It will make you both physically and mentally healthy as it will reduce stress. A little problem in life It will make life hassle-free and fun.
That's why you should be clear. Give up boldly what you should give up. I urge you that the beautiful days of your life can emerge only after a clear surrender.