"I think it will be a short story. In the novel, a housewife goes to the market and sees a fruit she wants to buy. She sits down and chooses a bunch of fruit. At that time, another woman stopped next to the female protagonist and said, "I want some of them too... Please pick a bunch of fruit for me." I thought to myself, ``This is what she's sitting and picking,'' but I didn't want to talk too much, so I picked a bunch of medium-sized leaves and put them in the hands of the woman asking for help. Only then did he start looking at the woman who asked for help because she was blind.
Just like that, I have read the same in an English translation. While riding the train, the father was telling his son every detail of the scenery he saw from the window. The son-in-law turned the window and looked at the scenery and nodded his head. People who see from the side think. "My father is doing extra work... I don't need to explain the scenery one by one. My son can see from the window..." They thought. In fact, only the father knows that his son is blind. People around don't know.

What I want to say is that what I think is one side of what I think, but on the other side, it may be because of something that I don't think. Sometimes it is very easy to criticize a person. As easy as it is to criticize, it is difficult to fill in the other side's opinion. That's why there are more people who criticize one side and less people who think about the other side. It's even more obvious in this age where almost everyone uses Facebook. When something happens, it becomes more obvious that they are the ones who come in and criticize without realizing it. I have also written in an article. When you criticize without knowing for sure what the other side of a person is, when the subject you are criticizing has something else that you don't know, like the examples above, the criticism itself can't be good. Criticized people can't be bad. In addition to that, when you spend your time criticizing yourself, you spend time doing something beneficial for yourself.

As soon as I get into a topic I don't know for sure and criticize, I start to get annoyed. And then I ran out of time. The mood is no longer good, and I started to suffer only for myself. For example. Suppose you call a friend of yours. The other side calls you from time to time, but never picks up the phone. You don't know why the person on the other side doesn't pick up the phone. But when you don't think about the other side, your mind starts to interfere. "I'm not picking up my phone on purpose..." "I'll call you if you need me and see you." I don't even know."
etc. When you don't know for sure why the other person doesn't pick up the phone and don't think about filling in the other person's mind, that's the first thing that bothers you.

Actually, "Oh... I don't know if it's because she's in the middle of nowhere." I'll call you back in an hour or so." "Oh... is he busy? Or is it because you're away from the phone?" If you fill the other person's thoughts like this, can't you feel bad in your heart? This is just the little things in everyday life. When it comes to your whole life, you have to think about what you should think about for the other person as well. I can't criticize the lives of other people I don't know. I can't know everything about other people's lives.
"There's a story behind every person. There's a reason why they're the way they are. Think about that before you judge someone.” In everyone's life, things that I don't know like background stories, There may be a side that I can't see. Before criticizing someone, think about it first. Think about what Mother Teresa said. "If you judge people you have no time to love them." If you only criticize and blame everyone, you won't even have time to love them. It's really... If you only look at things from your own side and blame everyone, sure. I already know that I am a narrow-minded person. If you can try to find out what the other person's side of the story is. If you can't try, I urge you if you can think like, "Oh, what kinds of things he has that I don't know about." It's best for both parties."