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What should you do with a child who does not want to study?
1) Teach the child that education is important for life. Children are those who learn everything thr...
1) Teach the child that education is important for life.
Children are those who learn everything through their parents' teachings. That's why parents need to teach good behavior as much as possible. The same is true for not wanting to study. Children need to learn knowledge rather than reading. Knowledge is thinking intelligence, In other words, the ability to distinguish between right and wrong can be instilled in the child from the age of 3 years old by telling stories about people who get into trouble because of lack of education. In the child's unconscious mind, knowledge is necessary; If the child is not educated, the child's ability to achieve what they want should be told in words that the child can understand. That consequence will have an effect when the child goes to school and learns. That's why there should be education in advance to make the child want to study. Understand that no one can steal knowledge more than money.
2) Understand the child.
Parents need to understand the child. Usually many parents think "I gave birth...we know" the child. In fact, understanding is the child's attitude, The child's behavior The nature of the child, How to lure the child in? How to coax the child, I want to say how to say it. From that, the child will be able to shape as needed.
3) Learn to be happy.
When teaching a child, it is necessary to understand the child's mind as something fun. That way, if the child works hard, he will be eager to learn. How to teach the child to be happy, the parent's character, the child's nature, You will have to understand the way the child likes it. That's why it's important to understand the child like number two. For example. Let's say the child is studying Burmese. "If the water pot leaves...that's a big deal. At the end of the day, close the eyes, Big deal,” etc., the parents are making gestures. If the child doesn't think that he is studying, and shows it to the child, he will remember Lung Gyi Tin, saying, "The Lung Gyi Tin from the poem that is being sung is the one who wrote this kind of poem." The child will also remember how to write the poem. When I was learning English, when I was buying bread for the children to eat, if there was a banana, I would say, "Do you know that a leather banana is called a banana?" Tell me" and teach. If you are bored, try to ask again. When teaching the subject, tell the child, "If there are two loaves of bread in my hand, mommy, I will take one. Ask the child to think about which two will be left in the child's hand.
Set a study time and memorize the lesson from that time.... Forced to calculate....All day long rather than being forced to answer. Whether it's when the child and the parent are together, While talking with the child, while telling a story for the child, interrupting and teaching. Interruption makes children think that learning is more fun. The main thing to keep in mind as a parent is that learning should not be a situation that pushes you into an unpleasant situation.
4) Compromise if necessary.
It is used if necessary. A permanent compromise is effective for a while, but it is bad if it becomes a permanent habit. Teaching while playing with children, Interrupting while talking to the child is a very light teaching method for the child. When you warm up with a book that you have learned like that, class time is no longer a boring time for your child. But actually, the kinds of texts that children have to memorize, for example. English spelling, If you have to learn Burmese spellings, you will have to ask the child to memorize them. Then feed with the child. For example. p-l-a-t-e (plague) If the child recites the plate, I will follow along while holding the small plate and chanting the plague. When the child is angry, say that the parents want a child and will compromise with a toy or a key chain or something that is convenient for their income. (If it's something that's expensive, you'll have to pay for it every time you make a compromise. In such small deals, make compromises with things that are low in value and the child really wants. For example, a Spider-Man eraser, key chain, car keys, etc., something that the child is strong for.)
5) Make compromises.
You compromise. Be sure to understand from the beginning of the deal. "If you can answer the question correctly without making any mistakes, I will buy it for you." I'll come when I'm sure. If she doesn't come, my mother will be angry. I can't get a toy" etc. Tell them to make sure they understand.
The child does not know exactly what you are going to ask at the specified time and stutters. If you forget, do not fatten the child. Don't shout. Repeat the bargain. "For now, I'll forgive you. Let's go back and study... Next time, I'm going to be really angry," etc. Give the child less time. Shouting forcefully, "You can't even do this...you idiot, Stupid" etc. Don't fatten the child with expressions that lower his self-confidence. When the child is angry with such shouting, he is angry to do the next lesson, I don't mind, It often becomes boring.
The main thing is to teach the child about the need for education from preschool age. Knowledge is about being able to distinguish between right and wrong. If you can distinguish between truth and error, you will be able to avoid making mistakes. Children should not be told that they can avoid bad people by not associating with them. Make the child interested during the lesson. Learning to be happy is the best way for a child.
Children are those who learn everything through their parents' teachings. That's why parents need to teach good behavior as much as possible. The same is true for not wanting to study. Children need to learn knowledge rather than reading. Knowledge is thinking intelligence, In other words, the ability to distinguish between right and wrong can be instilled in the child from the age of 3 years old by telling stories about people who get into trouble because of lack of education. In the child's unconscious mind, knowledge is necessary; If the child is not educated, the child's ability to achieve what they want should be told in words that the child can understand. That consequence will have an effect when the child goes to school and learns. That's why there should be education in advance to make the child want to study. Understand that no one can steal knowledge more than money.
2) Understand the child.
Parents need to understand the child. Usually many parents think "I gave birth...we know" the child. In fact, understanding is the child's attitude, The child's behavior The nature of the child, How to lure the child in? How to coax the child, I want to say how to say it. From that, the child will be able to shape as needed.
3) Learn to be happy.
When teaching a child, it is necessary to understand the child's mind as something fun. That way, if the child works hard, he will be eager to learn. How to teach the child to be happy, the parent's character, the child's nature, You will have to understand the way the child likes it. That's why it's important to understand the child like number two. For example. Let's say the child is studying Burmese. "If the water pot leaves...that's a big deal. At the end of the day, close the eyes, Big deal,” etc., the parents are making gestures. If the child doesn't think that he is studying, and shows it to the child, he will remember Lung Gyi Tin, saying, "The Lung Gyi Tin from the poem that is being sung is the one who wrote this kind of poem." The child will also remember how to write the poem. When I was learning English, when I was buying bread for the children to eat, if there was a banana, I would say, "Do you know that a leather banana is called a banana?" Tell me" and teach. If you are bored, try to ask again. When teaching the subject, tell the child, "If there are two loaves of bread in my hand, mommy, I will take one. Ask the child to think about which two will be left in the child's hand.
Set a study time and memorize the lesson from that time.... Forced to calculate....All day long rather than being forced to answer. Whether it's when the child and the parent are together, While talking with the child, while telling a story for the child, interrupting and teaching. Interruption makes children think that learning is more fun. The main thing to keep in mind as a parent is that learning should not be a situation that pushes you into an unpleasant situation.
4) Compromise if necessary.
It is used if necessary. A permanent compromise is effective for a while, but it is bad if it becomes a permanent habit. Teaching while playing with children, Interrupting while talking to the child is a very light teaching method for the child. When you warm up with a book that you have learned like that, class time is no longer a boring time for your child. But actually, the kinds of texts that children have to memorize, for example. English spelling, If you have to learn Burmese spellings, you will have to ask the child to memorize them. Then feed with the child. For example. p-l-a-t-e (plague) If the child recites the plate, I will follow along while holding the small plate and chanting the plague. When the child is angry, say that the parents want a child and will compromise with a toy or a key chain or something that is convenient for their income. (If it's something that's expensive, you'll have to pay for it every time you make a compromise. In such small deals, make compromises with things that are low in value and the child really wants. For example, a Spider-Man eraser, key chain, car keys, etc., something that the child is strong for.)
5) Make compromises.
You compromise. Be sure to understand from the beginning of the deal. "If you can answer the question correctly without making any mistakes, I will buy it for you." I'll come when I'm sure. If she doesn't come, my mother will be angry. I can't get a toy" etc. Tell them to make sure they understand.
The child does not know exactly what you are going to ask at the specified time and stutters. If you forget, do not fatten the child. Don't shout. Repeat the bargain. "For now, I'll forgive you. Let's go back and study... Next time, I'm going to be really angry," etc. Give the child less time. Shouting forcefully, "You can't even do this...you idiot, Stupid" etc. Don't fatten the child with expressions that lower his self-confidence. When the child is angry with such shouting, he is angry to do the next lesson, I don't mind, It often becomes boring.
The main thing is to teach the child about the need for education from preschool age. Knowledge is about being able to distinguish between right and wrong. If you can distinguish between truth and error, you will be able to avoid making mistakes. Children should not be told that they can avoid bad people by not associating with them. Make the child interested during the lesson. Learning to be happy is the best way for a child.
