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Common behavior problems in children and solutions (1)
1) Lying There are only 3 reasons why children lie. Because they want their parents' attention. prob...
1) Lying
There are only 3 reasons why children lie. Because they want their parents' attention. problems, They lie for reasons such as to avoid being fat, to gain more confidence in themselves, or to feel good about being praised by their parents.
The parent must think about which of these factors will lie, and pay attention to the child. retold, You will have to teach.
Since you have experienced your child lying…. “Did this really happen or did you want it to happen? If you tell mom the truth, mom won't be mad." etc. Show your face that you are not really upset. Praise your child when he tells the truth. Especially in situations where it is difficult for a child to tell the truth, praise should be given if the child tells the truth. For example, "My mother told me not to eat cake, but my son told me the truth that he was playing, so I didn't hit him. I dare to answer honestly. But if you tell a lie the next day, your son won't be able to play the game for the rest of the day. If I tell the truth, I will play the game with time. Yes?" In such a way, re-teach the child to speak the truth.
2) Answering
Your child will ignore what you say, For example, pick up the toys, girl, pretending not to know. I don't want to pick it up. It's true that it's hard for you to accept, but it's normal behavior for children to react like that. If he behaves like that, take your child alone. Try saying something like, "If my daughter doesn't pick up her toys now, if my daughter's favorite cartoon is on TV today, she won't let me watch it."
If the child does not follow your warning, punish him as you have warned him. The child will remember that. Then the next time you are asked to do something, you will be careful to do it immediately.
3) Too much screen time
Another problem today is too much screen time. It's not unusual for children to learn artificial intelligence while even adults are affected by the influence of this material. Even if you tell your child to turn off the TV, I asked him to stop playing the game, but I can't. Too much screen time can be unhealthy. That's why screen time should be limited. Ask them to follow you to see the screen during the time you set. Save once you've set the time. When you break the rules, make them use it all day. Everyone in the house should do a digital detox and limit screen time.
4) Food related issues
Help your child learn about food health. Instead, it acts as fuel for your baby's body.
No desire to eat instead I don't want to eat vegetables. For example, if you eat less food, instead of saying, "If you eat vegetables, you are healthy," say, "Green leaves become strong animals in your child's body." When bad germs come in from the outside, the good guys in the body that eat the green leaves will put those bad guys down again. Instead, if the child eats the leaves, the bad boys can walk inside the child and make the child sick.
5) Showing disrespectful behavior
Calling the old man by name, Throwing things, etc. are disrespectful behaviors. If your child has a problem like this, it can get worse if left untreated.
If your child is behaving that way because they want your attention, it's best to pretend you don't know. Pretending that you don't want to know that he is doing such behavior, He will only stop when he doesn't make any strange gestures. Only when the child has calmed down, do you show the child a gentle behavior. Instead, if he throws things and you immediately respond to him with something, his purpose is accomplished. The main thing is that you think that you are ignoring him, so you do something inappropriate to make him care. You have to be careful, if your child is showing such behavior, you should treat your child warmly and love him. care, I should tell you about the emphasis. You should take care.
Children's behavior problems tell us it's time to teach them self-control. When the child does these behaviors, instead of punishing them, keep it in your mind that "this is just a normal development problem of the child." Children's vocabulary begins to change around the age of 8.
But your child's behavior does not improve; Your rules don't affect those general issues. If the child's behavior interferes with the child's education, the relevant doctor should be consulted.
https://www.verywellfamily.com/common-child-behavior-problems-and-their-solutions-1094944
There are only 3 reasons why children lie. Because they want their parents' attention. problems, They lie for reasons such as to avoid being fat, to gain more confidence in themselves, or to feel good about being praised by their parents.
The parent must think about which of these factors will lie, and pay attention to the child. retold, You will have to teach.
Since you have experienced your child lying…. “Did this really happen or did you want it to happen? If you tell mom the truth, mom won't be mad." etc. Show your face that you are not really upset. Praise your child when he tells the truth. Especially in situations where it is difficult for a child to tell the truth, praise should be given if the child tells the truth. For example, "My mother told me not to eat cake, but my son told me the truth that he was playing, so I didn't hit him. I dare to answer honestly. But if you tell a lie the next day, your son won't be able to play the game for the rest of the day. If I tell the truth, I will play the game with time. Yes?" In such a way, re-teach the child to speak the truth.
2) Answering
Your child will ignore what you say, For example, pick up the toys, girl, pretending not to know. I don't want to pick it up. It's true that it's hard for you to accept, but it's normal behavior for children to react like that. If he behaves like that, take your child alone. Try saying something like, "If my daughter doesn't pick up her toys now, if my daughter's favorite cartoon is on TV today, she won't let me watch it."
If the child does not follow your warning, punish him as you have warned him. The child will remember that. Then the next time you are asked to do something, you will be careful to do it immediately.
3) Too much screen time
Another problem today is too much screen time. It's not unusual for children to learn artificial intelligence while even adults are affected by the influence of this material. Even if you tell your child to turn off the TV, I asked him to stop playing the game, but I can't. Too much screen time can be unhealthy. That's why screen time should be limited. Ask them to follow you to see the screen during the time you set. Save once you've set the time. When you break the rules, make them use it all day. Everyone in the house should do a digital detox and limit screen time.
4) Food related issues
Help your child learn about food health. Instead, it acts as fuel for your baby's body.
No desire to eat instead I don't want to eat vegetables. For example, if you eat less food, instead of saying, "If you eat vegetables, you are healthy," say, "Green leaves become strong animals in your child's body." When bad germs come in from the outside, the good guys in the body that eat the green leaves will put those bad guys down again. Instead, if the child eats the leaves, the bad boys can walk inside the child and make the child sick.
5) Showing disrespectful behavior
Calling the old man by name, Throwing things, etc. are disrespectful behaviors. If your child has a problem like this, it can get worse if left untreated.
If your child is behaving that way because they want your attention, it's best to pretend you don't know. Pretending that you don't want to know that he is doing such behavior, He will only stop when he doesn't make any strange gestures. Only when the child has calmed down, do you show the child a gentle behavior. Instead, if he throws things and you immediately respond to him with something, his purpose is accomplished. The main thing is that you think that you are ignoring him, so you do something inappropriate to make him care. You have to be careful, if your child is showing such behavior, you should treat your child warmly and love him. care, I should tell you about the emphasis. You should take care.
Children's behavior problems tell us it's time to teach them self-control. When the child does these behaviors, instead of punishing them, keep it in your mind that "this is just a normal development problem of the child." Children's vocabulary begins to change around the age of 8.
But your child's behavior does not improve; Your rules don't affect those general issues. If the child's behavior interferes with the child's education, the relevant doctor should be consulted.
https://www.verywellfamily.com/common-child-behavior-problems-and-their-solutions-1094944
