"Most empathetic and compassionate people have a soft heart. Most people with this mentality are always on the defensive when they are defeated.
People who can be bullied tend to bully more. Humane and compassionate people are empathetic people. Being full of sympathy and feeling that people should feel the same as you do, and patiently not talking to the other person, becomes a stupid thing for some people who have a big ego.
That's why people who are vulnerable are always vulnerable. If there are people around you who use weakness as your weakness, that is a big danger for you. If something is wrong, stop your bad behavior and ask for help. You will interfere with your personal interests until you lose your personal rights. "What do we have to say..." "What do we do, he doesn't say anything....keep calm" "We can decide as we like...we can bully him" your freedom, They break your own right to think and force them to put their wishes first. As for myself, "I'm sorry....I won't deny it clearly..." In such a situation, the person who tramples on his own weakness often takes advantage of him.
Finally, because of the pain, the wishes of others become a priority, and you may lose all your personal freedom. Because you know that you are vulnerable, the other person may consider you possessive. "If you do... I have to say....” With that kind of thinking, I can become like a toy in their hands. In that case, if you become a victim of human egoists, it can cause a lot of damage to your life. If you confide in other people because you have already been hurt, they say, "Why don't you deny it outright?" Be patient." With words like that, even I will be seen as guilty again by the environment.
Therefore, if you have a habit of being overly sensitive, correct your overly sensitive mind.
Take care where you need to. Something that will hurt you, Don't worry if you start manipulating your life. Refuse flatly. You don't have to suffer if he hates you for such a clear refusal and won't deal with you anymore. Being free from human egos that only look at one's own ego is what makes you happy. Refusing what you should refuse is your right, It is your choice.
I encourage you to remember that if you don't refuse, it will harm your life."