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What should you ask your child to do to boost their morale?
1) Give praise for good behavior. Children's resilience is linked to their self-confidence. In order...
1) Give praise for good behavior.
Children's resilience is linked to their self-confidence. In order to have self-confidence, they can overcome difficulties in themselves. You need to think about yourself with the thought that you can succeed. Only when you think like that and become a person who can act effectively will you increase your self-confidence. For that to happen, it depends on the parent who nurtures the child. When the child is still unable to distinguish between right and wrong and the parent scolds him for doing what he wants to do, and reacts with negative thoughts, the child does not dare to express everything that is on his mind. For that reason, the child's actions, manners, About the practices, the child is startled and does not dare to speak again. Parents must be careful not to tell lies because they will be scolded when they make a mistake. If the child makes a mistake, you must look the child in the eye and explain in a gentle voice what is wrong and what could happen. When the child stops making the same mistake and can do the right thing, the parent should note and praise the child. This encourages the child to repeat the good behavior. When you remember more good deeds, good deeds will increase. A child who is praised a lot will also increase his self-confidence.
2) Ask him to take responsibility for what he can.
As mentioned above, to build self-confidence, ask the child to do some age-appropriate tasks so that he thinks he can do it himself. If you can do it on those activities, please praise it. If you make a mistake, explain it carefully. When you get it right, be happy to praise it. Then the child will think that he can do it, and the parents will correct him if he makes a mistake, so he will tell the mistake openly.
3) words of love Show behavior every day.
Another fundamental factor in a child's strong will is the parents. Love of guardians. I love you... It's not love when you don't let your child cry. Treating the child kindly, Showing love to the child telling of love, Playing with children Behaviors such as explaining the child's mistakes not by scolding or beating them, but by making sure they understand, also help to strengthen the child's spirit. Love fully means the behavior above. When the baby cries, do what the baby likes, Ignoring the child the rest of the time is not loving the child. A child who is constantly criticized and blamed is anxious and fearful. That's why in his mind, what he did, he thought that he would be fat as an adult. dynamic, Without joy, even in public, the child often looks scared. That is the cause of the child's weakness. The main thing is that no one loves him in the child's mind. Because the thought of what he does will be blamed and yelled at, his mind is dominated by fear, and he tends to lose sight of the joy and excitement of a child.
4) Learn to accept defeat and try to win again.
When you play with your child, at first, you beat the child to make him happy. Give an example of accepting the loss with satisfaction. Let the child experience loss at times. Embrace and comfort the child who doesn't want to accept the loss they face while playing. In playing together, there is a turn you can take. Tell me that there may be a losing turn. Please tell me that similar events can happen in life. If you face a loss, it doesn't matter, the child should accept the loss and be happy for the person who wins. From your losses, explain why you lost and how you can try to win back. Only then will you learn to understand and accept the wins and losses in life, and if you face a loss, you will know that you can try again and win again.
5) Don't scold every time you make a mistake. Explain your reasons.
Like number one. When you do something wrong, you are scolded. Still screaming, Spanking does not deter the child from doing the wrong thing again. Parents will have to understand that. If you think, "I'm afraid that I'll get hit, then I won't dare to make the same mistake again" is wrong. I am afraid of being beaten in the sense of a child. But until the child knows the reason why this mistake is wrong, the child will repeat the same mistake without the parents knowing. If the matchstick is played with and struck, the child who is interested in the flame that comes out from scratching the hole will be curious about why this flame came out from the parents. Because of the child's desire to explore. There, parents can't tell the child about the benefit and tell them, "Don't touch this...". The parent said, "This is called a match." A match means that if you scratch it, a flame comes out. The flame is hot, When you touch your son's flesh It becomes hot and sore, If it touches other things, it can burn. Then I told him not to touch my son because he is prone to pain.......Do you understand what I am saying?'' That's the only way he won't touch it next time, and he won't touch it again because he knows the danger in front of his parents. That's why a child who makes a mistake is exploring something they don't know, and explaining the mistake is the right answer. Scary and dry, hot, Yelling or hitting can stifle a child's curiosity and force the child to be quiet behind the scenes. Learning to lie can also happen. In addition to that, when the child is often scolded, the child may become fat and become a worse and poorer child. It can also become a fearful and fear-dominated child.
6) Give me a chance to correct the truth.
In addition to preventing the child from getting angry when they make a mistake, a warning should also be given that the child will not be corrected in the next barking. For example. I'll forgive you for what I did because I was born once. Now that mom has explained, do you understand? If you don't understand, I will explain again. If you understand, you won't have to do it again next time. I'll see if I do it again or not. You should have told the child in advance that if you do it again with my son, I will punish my son. Only then, when the child starts to make the same mistake, if the parent does not do it again, praise the child for correcting it. The child will also be motivated to do more good behavior. If the mistake is repeated, effective punishment, not beatings, eg. I can't eat a food that I used to like today... It's a punishment. Punish in such a way. That will prevent you from making the same mistakes next time.
7) Give time to talk with the child.
To listen to the inner voice of the child during the day. Take the time to talk to your child to find out what his day is like. When you talk to a child, you should adjust your understanding according to the child's age. For example. "My son's friend eats a lot of candy, mom..." If the child says, "Oh....yes....he must be because he likes it." Don't you like it, too?" Say it like you would a child's peers. Instead of saying, "Hey...did I tell you that he eats a lot of sugar, and you can't eat it?" "It's free to tell my mother, You never know what's going on inside her when she's like, "Mommy's going to make me fat." Talking to such a child like a friend of the same age as a child will be beneficial until the child becomes an adult. You can also get a glimpse of the child's day and learn about the child's state of mind. Apart from that, if you tell your parents, you can guide the child who is open to the right path. A child who is accepted by his parents will also increase his self-confidence.
A child who grows in self-confidence also becomes more resilient to the effects of life's ups and downs. Instead of wanting to do something when you are depressed, if you tell your parents, when you open up, you can tell your parents and ask for advice, so even if you are upset, it will only be temporary.
Children's resilience is linked to their self-confidence. In order to have self-confidence, they can overcome difficulties in themselves. You need to think about yourself with the thought that you can succeed. Only when you think like that and become a person who can act effectively will you increase your self-confidence. For that to happen, it depends on the parent who nurtures the child. When the child is still unable to distinguish between right and wrong and the parent scolds him for doing what he wants to do, and reacts with negative thoughts, the child does not dare to express everything that is on his mind. For that reason, the child's actions, manners, About the practices, the child is startled and does not dare to speak again. Parents must be careful not to tell lies because they will be scolded when they make a mistake. If the child makes a mistake, you must look the child in the eye and explain in a gentle voice what is wrong and what could happen. When the child stops making the same mistake and can do the right thing, the parent should note and praise the child. This encourages the child to repeat the good behavior. When you remember more good deeds, good deeds will increase. A child who is praised a lot will also increase his self-confidence.
2) Ask him to take responsibility for what he can.
As mentioned above, to build self-confidence, ask the child to do some age-appropriate tasks so that he thinks he can do it himself. If you can do it on those activities, please praise it. If you make a mistake, explain it carefully. When you get it right, be happy to praise it. Then the child will think that he can do it, and the parents will correct him if he makes a mistake, so he will tell the mistake openly.
3) words of love Show behavior every day.
Another fundamental factor in a child's strong will is the parents. Love of guardians. I love you... It's not love when you don't let your child cry. Treating the child kindly, Showing love to the child telling of love, Playing with children Behaviors such as explaining the child's mistakes not by scolding or beating them, but by making sure they understand, also help to strengthen the child's spirit. Love fully means the behavior above. When the baby cries, do what the baby likes, Ignoring the child the rest of the time is not loving the child. A child who is constantly criticized and blamed is anxious and fearful. That's why in his mind, what he did, he thought that he would be fat as an adult. dynamic, Without joy, even in public, the child often looks scared. That is the cause of the child's weakness. The main thing is that no one loves him in the child's mind. Because the thought of what he does will be blamed and yelled at, his mind is dominated by fear, and he tends to lose sight of the joy and excitement of a child.
4) Learn to accept defeat and try to win again.
When you play with your child, at first, you beat the child to make him happy. Give an example of accepting the loss with satisfaction. Let the child experience loss at times. Embrace and comfort the child who doesn't want to accept the loss they face while playing. In playing together, there is a turn you can take. Tell me that there may be a losing turn. Please tell me that similar events can happen in life. If you face a loss, it doesn't matter, the child should accept the loss and be happy for the person who wins. From your losses, explain why you lost and how you can try to win back. Only then will you learn to understand and accept the wins and losses in life, and if you face a loss, you will know that you can try again and win again.
5) Don't scold every time you make a mistake. Explain your reasons.
Like number one. When you do something wrong, you are scolded. Still screaming, Spanking does not deter the child from doing the wrong thing again. Parents will have to understand that. If you think, "I'm afraid that I'll get hit, then I won't dare to make the same mistake again" is wrong. I am afraid of being beaten in the sense of a child. But until the child knows the reason why this mistake is wrong, the child will repeat the same mistake without the parents knowing. If the matchstick is played with and struck, the child who is interested in the flame that comes out from scratching the hole will be curious about why this flame came out from the parents. Because of the child's desire to explore. There, parents can't tell the child about the benefit and tell them, "Don't touch this...". The parent said, "This is called a match." A match means that if you scratch it, a flame comes out. The flame is hot, When you touch your son's flesh It becomes hot and sore, If it touches other things, it can burn. Then I told him not to touch my son because he is prone to pain.......Do you understand what I am saying?'' That's the only way he won't touch it next time, and he won't touch it again because he knows the danger in front of his parents. That's why a child who makes a mistake is exploring something they don't know, and explaining the mistake is the right answer. Scary and dry, hot, Yelling or hitting can stifle a child's curiosity and force the child to be quiet behind the scenes. Learning to lie can also happen. In addition to that, when the child is often scolded, the child may become fat and become a worse and poorer child. It can also become a fearful and fear-dominated child.
6) Give me a chance to correct the truth.
In addition to preventing the child from getting angry when they make a mistake, a warning should also be given that the child will not be corrected in the next barking. For example. I'll forgive you for what I did because I was born once. Now that mom has explained, do you understand? If you don't understand, I will explain again. If you understand, you won't have to do it again next time. I'll see if I do it again or not. You should have told the child in advance that if you do it again with my son, I will punish my son. Only then, when the child starts to make the same mistake, if the parent does not do it again, praise the child for correcting it. The child will also be motivated to do more good behavior. If the mistake is repeated, effective punishment, not beatings, eg. I can't eat a food that I used to like today... It's a punishment. Punish in such a way. That will prevent you from making the same mistakes next time.
7) Give time to talk with the child.
To listen to the inner voice of the child during the day. Take the time to talk to your child to find out what his day is like. When you talk to a child, you should adjust your understanding according to the child's age. For example. "My son's friend eats a lot of candy, mom..." If the child says, "Oh....yes....he must be because he likes it." Don't you like it, too?" Say it like you would a child's peers. Instead of saying, "Hey...did I tell you that he eats a lot of sugar, and you can't eat it?" "It's free to tell my mother, You never know what's going on inside her when she's like, "Mommy's going to make me fat." Talking to such a child like a friend of the same age as a child will be beneficial until the child becomes an adult. You can also get a glimpse of the child's day and learn about the child's state of mind. Apart from that, if you tell your parents, you can guide the child who is open to the right path. A child who is accepted by his parents will also increase his self-confidence.
A child who grows in self-confidence also becomes more resilient to the effects of life's ups and downs. Instead of wanting to do something when you are depressed, if you tell your parents, when you open up, you can tell your parents and ask for advice, so even if you are upset, it will only be temporary.
