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At what age should you get married?
"Besides that, getting married means breaking away from the control and management of your parents a...
"Besides that, getting married means breaking away from the control and management of your parents and starting a new life on your own. As your second life, it is also important to choose and think carefully. Your first life is under the control of your parents who always love you, so there is not much heat, and your mistakes will not be a big problem. But in your second life, no one will correct your mistakes, not your ability to think It's not possible to specify when and at what age to get married, but here are some things you can think about in general.
1) The time when income can be defined as more than enough
When you get married, you no longer have to spend alone, and other expenses increase as a couple. For example, If you buy a house, If you are renting without buying, the cost of renting a house. expenses travel expenses Support costs for both parents; food, The cost of marriage furniture, etc. has increased a lot. Both of them need to have a combined income to pay for those expenses. If the income alone is enough to spend alone, it is still not covered. It is more than enough to cover the costs of establishing a joint life only if it is at a level that can be accumulated. That's why it is convenient to establish a joint life when the income can be determined to be more than sufficient.
2) The time when you can define love
Love is when you are a teenager, you think of love as the falling leaves. When I reached my thirties, I began to think that love was no longer related to heartbreak. If every heart beat was love, can I say that when I was 60 years old, I would still be feeling the love of my 20-year-old girlfriend? In fact, after marriage, love is no longer a passion. Two strangers will establish a life, They will be together until they are over 60, When you think about the idea of living together in the same house, you should consider whether you will be able to live together until old age without complaining about the person who will be with you for many years. Those two people will go together without complaining to each other, We can't get bored of each other. mutual peace rather than romantic love; mutual comfort; encouragement, Facing all the difficulties If you are sure that you can do many things without complaining and that you will never break that decision, then you can roughly define that you know what love is. (In this place, flirting is thought of as love and adultery is also a kind of adultery, so rather than flirting or not dancing, we need to be sure that we will be able to spend the rest of our lives together) Don't betray each other and point out each other's mistakes. We also need to correct mistakes together. Marriage starts with love, but after marriage, it goes deeper than love. That's why you can think about getting married when you think you know how to love.
3) Time for mutual responsibility
When two people establish a life, his responsibility, You cannot separate your responsibilities. The responsibility of one needs to be taken by another. Even though the two people are together, they can't separate their work from each other. In addition to that, one will point out one's mistake, One will repair, We will take responsibility for each other's mistakes, We will correct mistakes together. We will try together to make more truths, I will try to bring more happiness, We will not be a burden to each other. They will forgive the mistakes that can be forgiven. If you can have the spirit of mutual support, you can generally say that you have been able to work with the person you are aiming for.
4) The time when it is considered mature and stable
You have to build a life together with two strangers, so you can't be childish about everything. Since we are living alone, I can forgive him for being too childish with love, but when his sons and daughters are given their respective responsibilities at home, he will growl like a child. If you are angry, no one can solve it patiently. As time goes by, it should feel like a hassle. Because of this, both sides have become mature and stable. I have been able to solve every problem with a cool head. can take personal responsibility; I can think about anything, When you are able to distinguish between right and wrong, you can roughly determine that you can get married. The reason for the need to be mature and stable is that when you have children, only mature, stable and thoughtful parents will be able to raise their children to be the best human beings. In the art of marriage in life, two people establish a life, as well as the generation of children We still need to be able to raise him to be a good man. Even if it does not benefit the environment, This is because it depends on good mothers and fathers to be good, non-toxic people.
That's why I don't listen to the words of the ward saying, "don't think about it....it will work itself out when the time is right" and think that you can really plan properly and take responsibility for yourself. A time of maturity and stability Sufficient money to be able to raise the children of your own generation. enough intelligence, Time to think about everything from the ability to think about right and wrong. After examining the above points to make sure you understand yourself, I urge you to think about getting married in general."
1) The time when income can be defined as more than enough
When you get married, you no longer have to spend alone, and other expenses increase as a couple. For example, If you buy a house, If you are renting without buying, the cost of renting a house. expenses travel expenses Support costs for both parents; food, The cost of marriage furniture, etc. has increased a lot. Both of them need to have a combined income to pay for those expenses. If the income alone is enough to spend alone, it is still not covered. It is more than enough to cover the costs of establishing a joint life only if it is at a level that can be accumulated. That's why it is convenient to establish a joint life when the income can be determined to be more than sufficient.
2) The time when you can define love
Love is when you are a teenager, you think of love as the falling leaves. When I reached my thirties, I began to think that love was no longer related to heartbreak. If every heart beat was love, can I say that when I was 60 years old, I would still be feeling the love of my 20-year-old girlfriend? In fact, after marriage, love is no longer a passion. Two strangers will establish a life, They will be together until they are over 60, When you think about the idea of living together in the same house, you should consider whether you will be able to live together until old age without complaining about the person who will be with you for many years. Those two people will go together without complaining to each other, We can't get bored of each other. mutual peace rather than romantic love; mutual comfort; encouragement, Facing all the difficulties If you are sure that you can do many things without complaining and that you will never break that decision, then you can roughly define that you know what love is. (In this place, flirting is thought of as love and adultery is also a kind of adultery, so rather than flirting or not dancing, we need to be sure that we will be able to spend the rest of our lives together) Don't betray each other and point out each other's mistakes. We also need to correct mistakes together. Marriage starts with love, but after marriage, it goes deeper than love. That's why you can think about getting married when you think you know how to love.
3) Time for mutual responsibility
When two people establish a life, his responsibility, You cannot separate your responsibilities. The responsibility of one needs to be taken by another. Even though the two people are together, they can't separate their work from each other. In addition to that, one will point out one's mistake, One will repair, We will take responsibility for each other's mistakes, We will correct mistakes together. We will try together to make more truths, I will try to bring more happiness, We will not be a burden to each other. They will forgive the mistakes that can be forgiven. If you can have the spirit of mutual support, you can generally say that you have been able to work with the person you are aiming for.
4) The time when it is considered mature and stable
You have to build a life together with two strangers, so you can't be childish about everything. Since we are living alone, I can forgive him for being too childish with love, but when his sons and daughters are given their respective responsibilities at home, he will growl like a child. If you are angry, no one can solve it patiently. As time goes by, it should feel like a hassle. Because of this, both sides have become mature and stable. I have been able to solve every problem with a cool head. can take personal responsibility; I can think about anything, When you are able to distinguish between right and wrong, you can roughly determine that you can get married. The reason for the need to be mature and stable is that when you have children, only mature, stable and thoughtful parents will be able to raise their children to be the best human beings. In the art of marriage in life, two people establish a life, as well as the generation of children We still need to be able to raise him to be a good man. Even if it does not benefit the environment, This is because it depends on good mothers and fathers to be good, non-toxic people.
That's why I don't listen to the words of the ward saying, "don't think about it....it will work itself out when the time is right" and think that you can really plan properly and take responsibility for yourself. A time of maturity and stability Sufficient money to be able to raise the children of your own generation. enough intelligence, Time to think about everything from the ability to think about right and wrong. After examining the above points to make sure you understand yourself, I urge you to think about getting married in general."
