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Choose and love.
When you read the title, you might think of something. Love is about who you can love and what kind of people you can't love. Even though you don't know it, in a moment you already love the person you want to love. You may limit the person you love with boundaries, but when you actually fall in love, love blinds you to the standards you set for yourself.
Yes….that is, you can accept the saying that love has no eyes. Life as a couple is not about spending your entire life together and facing all the problems and difficulties. It is a situation where you evaluate each other before you spend your whole life together. Can you solve the difficulties in your life together? Can you walk the path of life with the same mind by your side for the rest of your life? Can you try to have fun together in a life where there are many things to cry about? Can you face the ups and downs but endure the downs by your side? However, when choosing a partner for your whole life, there are many things to consider and prepare for. It is said that “love begins with the eyes.” You may fall in love with a beautiful person first. Although a beautiful appearance is attractive, in real life it is like the saying “If you dream of beauty, you will starve for dinner.” There are other things to consider in real life than beautiful appearance. There are still things to consider after marriage, so it is beneficial for both parties to think about what to consider before choosing a partner before marriage.
Sometimes, even if you really love the person you have, you have to think again about whether that person is someone you can be with in the long term. Even if you are a couple and think that everything is going well, you will still face problems when you face real life together. That is why you should think about yourself in your relationship. At that stage, if you think that you can't be together for the rest of your life, breaking up will be less painful for both of you. It also helps you avoid the risk of hurting others through no fault of your own.
That is why you cannot expect your partner to change his bad habits out of love for you after marriage. Albert Einstein said. “Men marry women who think they can never change, and women marry men hoping that they will change.” When that doesn't happen, both parties become disappointed. Men want to grow up with a woman who loves and supports them as they want to be. They don't want a woman who tries to mold them and change them. If you look at couples who have broken up, women want men to be the way they want them to be, and men gradually get tired of women who try to change them. That's why you should prioritize the person who fits into the frame you have set for yourself before you get married, the one you choose as your lover. Even if you are a very good lover, you may be bothered by other factors such as whether he or she is compatible with you or not.
One thing is for sure, he or she will not change the things you don't like because he or she loves you. That's why love has no eyes, so it's true that you can fall in love with someone who doesn't fit into the frame. But as long as you are in a relationship, you should prioritize the person who fits into the frame you have set for yourself. As the years go by, if you have to break up because your parents find out about your relationship and you don't agree with it, you will already have a mutual bond, so both of you will be hurt and hurt. Because the environment already knows about it, it may not be suitable according to these ideas.
Therefore, before becoming a lover, you should think in advance whether it would be suitable if you got married or not, and then accept it as a lover. Although there is no eye in love, dating is a stage of learning about your spouse, and since you will be together for the rest of your life, I urge you to choose to love and avoid "biting the long-term" and avoid "biting the long-term". #BAWA101
Sometimes, even if you really love the person you have, you have to think again about whether that person is someone you can be with in the long term. Even if you are a couple and think that everything is going well, you will still face problems when you face real life together. That is why you should think about yourself in your relationship. At that stage, if you think that you can't be together for the rest of your life, breaking up will be less painful for both of you. It also helps you avoid the risk of hurting others through no fault of your own.
That is why you cannot expect your partner to change his bad habits out of love for you after marriage. Albert Einstein said. “Men marry women who think they can never change, and women marry men hoping that they will change.” When that doesn't happen, both parties become disappointed. Men want to grow up with a woman who loves and supports them as they want to be. They don't want a woman who tries to mold them and change them. If you look at couples who have broken up, women want men to be the way they want them to be, and men gradually get tired of women who try to change them. That's why you should prioritize the person who fits into the frame you have set for yourself before you get married, the one you choose as your lover. Even if you are a very good lover, you may be bothered by other factors such as whether he or she is compatible with you or not.
One thing is for sure, he or she will not change the things you don't like because he or she loves you. That's why love has no eyes, so it's true that you can fall in love with someone who doesn't fit into the frame. But as long as you are in a relationship, you should prioritize the person who fits into the frame you have set for yourself. As the years go by, if you have to break up because your parents find out about your relationship and you don't agree with it, you will already have a mutual bond, so both of you will be hurt and hurt. Because the environment already knows about it, it may not be suitable according to these ideas.
Therefore, before becoming a lover, you should think in advance whether it would be suitable if you got married or not, and then accept it as a lover. Although there is no eye in love, dating is a stage of learning about your spouse, and since you will be together for the rest of your life, I urge you to choose to love and avoid "biting the long-term" and avoid "biting the long-term". #BAWA101
