When you were young, you knew how much it feels to rely on someone. Your parents are very conservative, so when my mother was dependent on my father's work, when my father was not there, I was disconnected from the outside world for many years, and I started to face many difficulties in trying to find everything again. At such a time, if your relatives know, there is no problem. They may be able to help each other, but even though they are relatives, even though they are relatives, when they face people who will help drowning people, they are forced to understand deeply the meaning of the world.

Being a woman here, I don't want to talk about gender stereotypes because I'm a man. I want to say that people who always rely on others are like those who breathe through someone else's nostrils. If you're comfortable relying on someone else's shadow for your own survival, you're going to get sunburned when there's no one to provide that shade. At that time, it often feels like more trouble for someone who can't get hot from the start. Because the white elephant is sucking sugar cane, when the white elephant is gone, you will be hungry. That's why I look at my dependents with a shadow. I have to live with anxiety and fear that the mountain will disappear.

In other words, because you rely on others without your own efforts, you are looking at the shadow of others' faces. Since it is someone else's mind and my body, I can't help myself whenever my mind goes. Because I have to look at other people's faces, I am afraid that others will not like me. Besides that, the worst part is that there is no guarantee for the future. Because your own talent does not live in the shadow you get, depending on the lack of satisfaction from others, you have to put your future in the hands of your own shadow. save light, It seems that there is no heat, but because you put your entire destiny in the hands of others, you feel powerless and can become useless.
When you try to stand on your own without hiding in the shadow of others, it may seem tiring, but there are many advantages. not hurt It's like a saying. When you are hurt and tired and have to try yourself
I came to know the needs and tried to improve myself. The more you try, the more your ability will improve, so your self-confidence will increase. You can make your own plans for your future. Because you don't have to rely on anyone, you don't have to look down on anyone, you don't have to live with anyone's mind, you can be free to do whatever you want. Being able to stand on your own feet at the right time depends on you.

Only those who have lived know how much it means to be free and live on your own. For that, the more you face the difficulties, the more confidence you have. The more you try, the more you become capable. The happier you are with your life. In other words, you are your own master because you hide in your own shadow.
Therefore, don't think that you will rely on someone because you are tired of standing by yourself. Relying on others makes your whole future uncertain. Being self-reliant and independent is a real skill, and it gives me real happiness and confidence, so I feel like I have a meaningful existence in life.