1. Feel free to share your feelings openly. If you want to cry, cry. I cried to clear my mind. If you want to scream, scream. Your behavior annoys others, If no damage is done. Meet your closest friends. They meet at night and talk. Don't leave too much. Don't pretend I'm fine. Once you feel what you need to feel, you will be able to overcome the brokenness.
2. At first, you might think it's unfair that he got a new girlfriend before you. While I'm still suffering, he may be unhappy that he has forgotten me. But don't forget that the breakup is over. You and he have become free people. How can you expect them to remember you even after they've lost touch with each other? Some can easily forget, while others can't forget for a long time. Each person is different. You need to know this.
3. Finding a new boyfriend is not a competition. One thing that happens is that when 2 lovers break up, who can quickly forget, Who is already happy? Isn't feeling a competitive thing? Ask yourself again. It can't be said that while having a new boyfriend is fun for your ex, it's the same for you. Everyone has different ways to be happy. Focusing on work can make you happy. Don't compete. Just find a way that will make you happy.
4. Try to calm down and think about why the two of you didn't get along. What did you get angry with when you were with him? What was the problem? If you think on the bright side, now you don't have to worry about that mess anymore. Imagine that someone else is upset in your place. You are already calm and peaceful.
5. Don't compare yourself to your ex's new boyfriend. Since you broke up, the relationship between you and your ex is over. Even more irrelevant to his new lover. There is no need to try to be better than him. As I said above, do it for your own happiness. The less you know about your ex's new boyfriend, the better. Otherwise, there will only be more hatred. This is not good for anyone.
6. It's a good idea not to go to places where you and he have been together before. If you can lose your mind, it's kind of. And avoid places where you think your ex-boyfriend might go together. This is not giving up. Think about it. What would be the difference if we met by chance? If you are still in love, you will be more heartbroken. Then it may be more difficult to forget.
7. Don't visit your ex's Facebook profile. What is he doing now? You don't want to know who he is and where he goes. It has nothing to do with you anymore, so it's good to be irrelevant. If you search online, you will be frustrated. If you think you can't control it, it's best not to use social media for a period of time. When you can lose your heart, your ex-boyfriend will not be able to get married, and you won't be able to feel anything in your heart.
8. Focus on your own life. Are there things you didn't make time for when you were with him? For example, friends Make time for families. Focus on work. Now you have enough time to resume the hobbies that you have been putting off due to lack of time. The best thing about being single is that you get to shape your own life. Put this to good use. What did you do to improve your life? I can do what I couldn't do.
I hope this post will be of some help to those who have broken up with their lover. Please share this post with your heartbroken friends.
Translated from Source: “8 sure ways to deal with an ex seeing someone new,” lovepanky.com