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9 habits of people in your life that do not benefit you
1) They are not good listeners. What I want to say is that they only confide in you when they are up...
1) They are not good listeners.
What I want to say is that they only confide in you when they are upset, and if you confide in them when you are upset, they are not the ones who listen and comfort you. You won't even get to finish the confession. They are the ones who only put forward what they feel about themselves. It will not be a good companion for you. Those who think that their feelings are only feelings. No matter how you feel….because they are not the ones who even know.
2) They are insensitive.
What others are doing, they are doing it on their own. They are the ones who think that they are doing harm to them. They are full of their thoughts and their pain. Who will do it again, They are the ones who are always in pain to know how it went. Everyone has feelings and hurts, but they tend to be more extreme. That's why their frustration, anger, shouting They use harassing behavior to cover up their cowardice.
3) People who blame other people's problems and feelings.
Another trait in people who don't benefit you is a lack of empathy for other people's problems and feelings. I did not create, Or, in the case of problems that are beyond my control, there are often situations that cannot be said to be the fault of the person concerned. Not those who understand that situation. Instead of encouraging and helping others, they blame others for their sins.
4) People who lie easily.
They are the ones who lie easily even in small matters that are nothing. That is why it is not difficult to lie in other big matters. And they talk about their lives. They don't want others to know their true image. For example, How poor they are, Their family issues are not convenient. In addition, they worry that others will know their true feelings. That's why they always lie and are always insecure. What that tells you is that you can never fully trust them.
5) They are also very proud people.
It was all we could do, Whether I succeeded, Acknowledging what you have really tried and achieved, Sharing with others is something almost everyone does. But those who don't benefit your life are not like that. Instead of recognizing the kind of things that have been created and achieved by themselves, it is as if they have what they really don't have. They boast that they can do what they really can't do. They tend to compare themselves with other people a lot, and every time they make a comparison, they tend to brag about themselves. How good is their work? How good is their boyfriend? The skills they have are the best. That's why they always don't show the truth, pretend and brag, so you can't trust their words, and they're not the ones who will benefit your life.
6) People who make others miserable.
Like the point above....they tend to show the environment that they are too good and too successful than others, so those around them may become discouraged. Some people don't care, but those who are always exposed to them can be bothered by them. In addition to that, in order to show that they are superior, they will first point out other people's sins, so that those who are related to them will suffer. angry It may be inappropriate. That's why they are not the ones who will do anything for you except to annoy you.
7) They are also procrastinators.
In our life, there are times when we procrastinate. But for them, procrastination is tasteful. Those who know how to do it. In other words, procrastination is like a habit. Because of this procrastination, nothing will happen in their life. They are those who do not want to take full responsibility in their lives. But their needs, If they want to be who they are, they don't look at others and do things for themselves. In that situation, they don't waste time and tend to rush.
8) People who like to gossip about others behind their backs.
People who like to gossip about others.
They spend most of their lives gossiping. You have such a friend, friends If you have a friend, that person is not the kind of person who will benefit you and will tell others about your bad behavior. Not the kind of person who will benefit you.
9) They are too controlling and exploitative of others.
For no reason Often controlling others. According to psychologists, they crave attention and need someone to listen. commanding others to cover up their insecurities; They tend to use it as needed. Others say, "It's better to do this..." "Do this... "Don't do this" etc., are very dominant and do not oblige to force them to do what they want. They are the ones who don't have to use the people around them for them. That's why those people will not benefit your life in any way.
If you have friends who have the above behaviors, they will not benefit you and will not even like your interests to develop. It can even hurt you again. If you have such a friend, you should be cautious. You should gradually remove them from your life. #BAWA101
What I want to say is that they only confide in you when they are upset, and if you confide in them when you are upset, they are not the ones who listen and comfort you. You won't even get to finish the confession. They are the ones who only put forward what they feel about themselves. It will not be a good companion for you. Those who think that their feelings are only feelings. No matter how you feel….because they are not the ones who even know.
2) They are insensitive.
What others are doing, they are doing it on their own. They are the ones who think that they are doing harm to them. They are full of their thoughts and their pain. Who will do it again, They are the ones who are always in pain to know how it went. Everyone has feelings and hurts, but they tend to be more extreme. That's why their frustration, anger, shouting They use harassing behavior to cover up their cowardice.
3) People who blame other people's problems and feelings.
Another trait in people who don't benefit you is a lack of empathy for other people's problems and feelings. I did not create, Or, in the case of problems that are beyond my control, there are often situations that cannot be said to be the fault of the person concerned. Not those who understand that situation. Instead of encouraging and helping others, they blame others for their sins.
4) People who lie easily.
They are the ones who lie easily even in small matters that are nothing. That is why it is not difficult to lie in other big matters. And they talk about their lives. They don't want others to know their true image. For example, How poor they are, Their family issues are not convenient. In addition, they worry that others will know their true feelings. That's why they always lie and are always insecure. What that tells you is that you can never fully trust them.
5) They are also very proud people.
It was all we could do, Whether I succeeded, Acknowledging what you have really tried and achieved, Sharing with others is something almost everyone does. But those who don't benefit your life are not like that. Instead of recognizing the kind of things that have been created and achieved by themselves, it is as if they have what they really don't have. They boast that they can do what they really can't do. They tend to compare themselves with other people a lot, and every time they make a comparison, they tend to brag about themselves. How good is their work? How good is their boyfriend? The skills they have are the best. That's why they always don't show the truth, pretend and brag, so you can't trust their words, and they're not the ones who will benefit your life.
6) People who make others miserable.
Like the point above....they tend to show the environment that they are too good and too successful than others, so those around them may become discouraged. Some people don't care, but those who are always exposed to them can be bothered by them. In addition to that, in order to show that they are superior, they will first point out other people's sins, so that those who are related to them will suffer. angry It may be inappropriate. That's why they are not the ones who will do anything for you except to annoy you.
7) They are also procrastinators.
In our life, there are times when we procrastinate. But for them, procrastination is tasteful. Those who know how to do it. In other words, procrastination is like a habit. Because of this procrastination, nothing will happen in their life. They are those who do not want to take full responsibility in their lives. But their needs, If they want to be who they are, they don't look at others and do things for themselves. In that situation, they don't waste time and tend to rush.
8) People who like to gossip about others behind their backs.
People who like to gossip about others.
They spend most of their lives gossiping. You have such a friend, friends If you have a friend, that person is not the kind of person who will benefit you and will tell others about your bad behavior. Not the kind of person who will benefit you.
9) They are too controlling and exploitative of others.
For no reason Often controlling others. According to psychologists, they crave attention and need someone to listen. commanding others to cover up their insecurities; They tend to use it as needed. Others say, "It's better to do this..." "Do this... "Don't do this" etc., are very dominant and do not oblige to force them to do what they want. They are the ones who don't have to use the people around them for them. That's why those people will not benefit your life in any way.
If you have friends who have the above behaviors, they will not benefit you and will not even like your interests to develop. It can even hurt you again. If you have such a friend, you should be cautious. You should gradually remove them from your life. #BAWA101
