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How do you surround yourself with positive people?
"1) Review the behavior of the people around you. Some people are wrong about themselves and behave...
"1) Review the behavior of the people around you.
Some people are wrong about themselves and behave negatively towards themselves. But they want to be the best and want to be happy. It is only a desire and they do not reform themselves. If that is the case, such people will never be able to improve and change for the better. In addition, if such people are around you and you are involved in relationships, you will be familiar with some of their ideas. At that time, it often influences you unknowingly.
That's why if you want to surround yourself with positive people, you should know and understand the behavior of the people around you. Who around you has a negative attitude? A person with bad behavior helpful Distinguish between good and bad, egoistic people, etc.
2) Stay separate in relationships.
When you associate with a person, you should associate like adding a drop or two of oil to a cup of water. When oil is added to water, the water and oil are together in a cup, but the water kills and kills. Oil can be seen. Like that. Be kind to a person. But where is that person's behavior so good that we should imitate it and where is it so bad? Or where is it weak? When you see that weak point, reflect on yourself and see if you have that kind of weakness. If there is, try to fix it. When that bad weakness is tempted to happen to you, try to avoid it discreetly. When you can't avoid it, think about the consequences.
As for the people you should associate with, learn what you will learn from them. First of all, it's a good thing when you look at each other separately. You will be able to see the bad spot. Rather than knowing and understanding a person's behavior to condemn and criticize a person, you should learn a lesson from yourself when you know that person's behavior. Learn what you should learn again, You can avoid what you should avoid.
3) Be clear where you need to be clear.
Most Burmese people tend to get sick. In fact, where it should be hurt is social. Where you should not hesitate, you should flatly reject. The people around me are the ones who see everything as a sin... It's impossible because I'm not involved with him. What if that person is your boss or parent? For example. What would you do if an important workplace asked you to cancel an appointment and you were forced to do other work? You'll almost certainly have to delete a lot more of your work when you're done. The good of those around you When you understand the evil, if you should reject it clearly, then reject it. Then put him out of focus. He will find himself another person to abuse and blame you for his behavior. The main thing is that when you understand the people around you, you will study their goodness. Be careful not to do his bad things. I will take the lesson. that's all. When you clear up the person who is toxic to you, you will be able to spend more time with the person who is positive for you.
4) Give time to someone who deserves time.
Give time to someone who should give time to you. The kind of person who gives you strength for yourself, The kind of person who makes you improve your personality, Give time to people who are optimistic. Delete the time you give to people who think bad and give time to people who can benefit you. Understand what you can learn from them and learn for yourself. Any skill or skill that you need from them or something that should be discussed.
5) Remove pessimistic people and gradually cultivate a positive environment.
What I want to say is to avoid the bad people one by one. In place of those people, giving time to those who have a positive attitude, my day, a month Become full-time in a year. Let yourself gradually enter that environment. Weed out the pessimistic people little by little, and when you don't have time for them at all, spend the extra time with the positive ones.
People with negative thoughts do whatever they see around them. They will only waste time blaming and criticizing, which will only cause bad feelings for those associated with them. That's why you can leave that person behind and create a positive environment for yourself, so that positivity can influence your mind and your life."
Some people are wrong about themselves and behave negatively towards themselves. But they want to be the best and want to be happy. It is only a desire and they do not reform themselves. If that is the case, such people will never be able to improve and change for the better. In addition, if such people are around you and you are involved in relationships, you will be familiar with some of their ideas. At that time, it often influences you unknowingly.
That's why if you want to surround yourself with positive people, you should know and understand the behavior of the people around you. Who around you has a negative attitude? A person with bad behavior helpful Distinguish between good and bad, egoistic people, etc.
2) Stay separate in relationships.
When you associate with a person, you should associate like adding a drop or two of oil to a cup of water. When oil is added to water, the water and oil are together in a cup, but the water kills and kills. Oil can be seen. Like that. Be kind to a person. But where is that person's behavior so good that we should imitate it and where is it so bad? Or where is it weak? When you see that weak point, reflect on yourself and see if you have that kind of weakness. If there is, try to fix it. When that bad weakness is tempted to happen to you, try to avoid it discreetly. When you can't avoid it, think about the consequences.
As for the people you should associate with, learn what you will learn from them. First of all, it's a good thing when you look at each other separately. You will be able to see the bad spot. Rather than knowing and understanding a person's behavior to condemn and criticize a person, you should learn a lesson from yourself when you know that person's behavior. Learn what you should learn again, You can avoid what you should avoid.
3) Be clear where you need to be clear.
Most Burmese people tend to get sick. In fact, where it should be hurt is social. Where you should not hesitate, you should flatly reject. The people around me are the ones who see everything as a sin... It's impossible because I'm not involved with him. What if that person is your boss or parent? For example. What would you do if an important workplace asked you to cancel an appointment and you were forced to do other work? You'll almost certainly have to delete a lot more of your work when you're done. The good of those around you When you understand the evil, if you should reject it clearly, then reject it. Then put him out of focus. He will find himself another person to abuse and blame you for his behavior. The main thing is that when you understand the people around you, you will study their goodness. Be careful not to do his bad things. I will take the lesson. that's all. When you clear up the person who is toxic to you, you will be able to spend more time with the person who is positive for you.
4) Give time to someone who deserves time.
Give time to someone who should give time to you. The kind of person who gives you strength for yourself, The kind of person who makes you improve your personality, Give time to people who are optimistic. Delete the time you give to people who think bad and give time to people who can benefit you. Understand what you can learn from them and learn for yourself. Any skill or skill that you need from them or something that should be discussed.
5) Remove pessimistic people and gradually cultivate a positive environment.
What I want to say is to avoid the bad people one by one. In place of those people, giving time to those who have a positive attitude, my day, a month Become full-time in a year. Let yourself gradually enter that environment. Weed out the pessimistic people little by little, and when you don't have time for them at all, spend the extra time with the positive ones.
People with negative thoughts do whatever they see around them. They will only waste time blaming and criticizing, which will only cause bad feelings for those associated with them. That's why you can leave that person behind and create a positive environment for yourself, so that positivity can influence your mind and your life."
