It's easy to develop compassion for people, but it's hard to develop malice. Compassion is easy to develop. It's hard to develop a selfish mind. You have encountered such people.
Some people are willing to give out of pity, This is a normal attitude. Sometimes, as usual, when the person I am giving to is out of pity for various reasons, when he is better than me, "Oh... because of his past luck, he is looking for luck every day and night." It's a pleasure to go from an uncomfortable place to a comfortable one." But rarely. Some of them said, "This situation came about because I gave before." never lived Being able to eat things that I have never eaten before is high in life. There are no free levels. No compassion, There are people who tend to change color towards jealousy. Some of them, when they become more jealous than that, they will say bad things about others from hiding. I will talk about things when I was low, what to do, criticize attack, I will do damage to that person's benefit. That feeling is very scary.
That's why if you have to deal with such jealous and bad-spirited people
1) Do not take heat.
their jealousy The mind first burns them and then infects them. That's why they burn at their own pace. Don't get overheated. When you face him, first you will be burned by his heat. So keep this in mind. His heat... I will not take it. It will be lighter for you.
2) Smile.
Did you know the power of smiling? After being jealous of you, they burn you with all kinds of heat and they want to see you hurt. In such a situation, show the most beautiful smile that makes sense. That's the burn for them. It's happiness for you. When you smile, whatever you say clears your mind. Your clarity of mind is good for you.
3) Let it go.
I will tell you falsehoods, I will do your damage, You will be attacked in various ways. Do what you like. Let him go at his own pace. It will stop when it runs out of speed. The more he attacks...the more you react, the better he will attack you even more. The more intense the fight is, isn't it? No matter how much they attack....the way you are calm is not the way they want you to be. They are the tricks you have. confused, They want to harm you in some way by losing their usual work. That's why nothing happened. Don't really feel it. say what you want to say Do what you want to do It will be like a mist in the air at the right time. Their jealous temper will make them react back so you don't have to react. So let it go.
4) Don't lose your position because of them.
I will be angry because of gossip, confused, job loss, If you don't dare to go in front of people, you will lose. They are waiting for that situation, aren't they? Then you don't have to feel anything and be anything for something that isn't you. Just set it as a casual job that people with a bad temper do. Don't lose your position because of them. keep eating keep going Captain stay the same. In the workplace, according to the workplace. Do what you should.
5) Try harder.
Don't focus on someone who is jealous. I will be very attentive. Then, the things that will improve my life, especially the courses that I will have to attend, languages, To get a higher job position, Focus on improving your hobbies and things like that. Such a shift in focus is more comfortable for you. And it will improve even more. My mind will be calm and my concentration will be even better. It's very pitiful for them to spend their time sitting and looking at you and trying to destroy you. As you advance, they will burn more and more with their blows on you, wasting time. worthless It must not progress. That's why I am more valuable than them. Make use of your time.
Now....I think I have the best weapons to deal with those who are annoying. May all be successful and overcome.
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