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Things you shouldn't put in your head
"1) The satisfaction of others You can't always please everyone. If you are trying to please everyon...
"1) The satisfaction of others
You can't always please everyone. If you are trying to please everyone, you should do what you should do. I will not be able to get to the end of the things that have to be done. You will gradually lose your own satisfaction while following other people's satisfaction. The satisfaction of others will never end. That's why you should put it in your head only as much as you should be satisfied according to the relevant. If you always put it into your head to try to please others, you will never be able to do what you want to do.
2) The impression of others
This also includes what cannot be done by force. Because when you live the way you are, others will want to impress you. You will still want to think. Make others like you. It is impossible because it is forced to impress. Everyone lives in their own mind, so it's not a problem if others don't think of you. Let them think what they want to think. The main thing is that what you are doing is not causing harm to others.
3) Opinions of others
You can be yourself, but others will look at your outward appearance and define you for themselves. You cannot change their mind. That's why you don't need to feel what they think of you. Everyone can have what they see and what they decide. That's why you shouldn't think about what other people think of me in your head. Once that thought enters your head, you will lose some of your confidence. It makes you insecure. Like I said above...if you're doing the right thing, you're done. If it doesn't hurt others, there is no problem.
4) Other people's understanding of some part of you
No one knows what it is like to be a person better than yourself. If you are a writer and write until 3:00 a.m., if you are someone who wakes up at 11:00 p.m., people around you who don't know you will call you "a person who wakes up at noon and has no job." You shouldn't get it in your head. Because they don't know that the work you're doing is writing in silence. People have different ways of living, so there will be differences of opinion. You don't need to get upset whenever there is a difference of opinion. Almost everyone will understand about you. So don't get it into your head that other people don't understand about you.
5) Other people's understanding of your goals
Everyone wants to have goals. But when people have goals, you may not understand what they set goals for. In the same way, others will understand what you want to understand about the goals you set. You can't understand a person who makes charity a goal. As you may be thinking, why would you want to help others without earning a dime? Others will not be able to understand what you want to achieve. So don't expect others to understand your goals. If you put it in your head that you don't understand why, you will only be distracted.
Do the readers distinguish what they put in their heads and what they don't put in their heads? Sometimes, in the cases we do, we do not harm others, If it doesn't hurt others, then other people's opinions don't really matter. That's why if what you want to do is true and has meaning, you should not worry about other people's opinions and do what you want to do without worrying about it."
You can't always please everyone. If you are trying to please everyone, you should do what you should do. I will not be able to get to the end of the things that have to be done. You will gradually lose your own satisfaction while following other people's satisfaction. The satisfaction of others will never end. That's why you should put it in your head only as much as you should be satisfied according to the relevant. If you always put it into your head to try to please others, you will never be able to do what you want to do.
2) The impression of others
This also includes what cannot be done by force. Because when you live the way you are, others will want to impress you. You will still want to think. Make others like you. It is impossible because it is forced to impress. Everyone lives in their own mind, so it's not a problem if others don't think of you. Let them think what they want to think. The main thing is that what you are doing is not causing harm to others.
3) Opinions of others
You can be yourself, but others will look at your outward appearance and define you for themselves. You cannot change their mind. That's why you don't need to feel what they think of you. Everyone can have what they see and what they decide. That's why you shouldn't think about what other people think of me in your head. Once that thought enters your head, you will lose some of your confidence. It makes you insecure. Like I said above...if you're doing the right thing, you're done. If it doesn't hurt others, there is no problem.
4) Other people's understanding of some part of you
No one knows what it is like to be a person better than yourself. If you are a writer and write until 3:00 a.m., if you are someone who wakes up at 11:00 p.m., people around you who don't know you will call you "a person who wakes up at noon and has no job." You shouldn't get it in your head. Because they don't know that the work you're doing is writing in silence. People have different ways of living, so there will be differences of opinion. You don't need to get upset whenever there is a difference of opinion. Almost everyone will understand about you. So don't get it into your head that other people don't understand about you.
5) Other people's understanding of your goals
Everyone wants to have goals. But when people have goals, you may not understand what they set goals for. In the same way, others will understand what you want to understand about the goals you set. You can't understand a person who makes charity a goal. As you may be thinking, why would you want to help others without earning a dime? Others will not be able to understand what you want to achieve. So don't expect others to understand your goals. If you put it in your head that you don't understand why, you will only be distracted.
Do the readers distinguish what they put in their heads and what they don't put in their heads? Sometimes, in the cases we do, we do not harm others, If it doesn't hurt others, then other people's opinions don't really matter. That's why if what you want to do is true and has meaning, you should not worry about other people's opinions and do what you want to do without worrying about it."
