Who is talking about how bad things are behind their backs? Because no one thinks of me... Who is competing with themselves? Who is attacking you? As a normal person, when I feel the various harms caused by others, such as those who come and attack me, I will be hurt. I will get angry.
When you encounter such situations, reflect on yourself. How many times has this person hurt themselves? I feel for him and myself, what is the suffering already? What should I do? Sometimes, when we feel hurt by others, our valuable things, especially time...go to waste. It's because I'm angry that I'm sharing more. Because of that, it can affect thousands of lives on your side. The other person has already hurt you and forgotten. Only you can feel it. Sometimes we only think about those who hurt us and forget about those who love us. Those who wish you well at that time, those who love you Think back to those who are always by your side. For example. Think back to how your parents wanted you to excel when you were hurt and upset by others. If you are being bullied by others, think back to those who have helped you. Life is too short. If you have to live to be 60 on average, calculate from your current age. How much time do you have left to live on average? Do you suffer because of other people who are nothing in that moment? Free time? Absolutely not worth it. Don't forget that there are people in life who don't love you and there are people who love you. If you still have children, rebuild yourself while you still have time to live the best life for your children. If your parents are still there, take time to care for them so they can live happily before they die. If you still have friends who love you, make time to be happy with the friends who love you. Give yourself time to improve your skills while you still have the time of your life. Use your time to improve your skills. Make time for your hobbies. Don't let useless things enter your head. For those who make you cry because they don't love you, crying is ruining your time to be happy.
Being angry with those who hurt us is like wasting your life on them. Instead, live only for those who love you. Make more time for those who love you. Spend time only with people who understand you. Focus on improving your life. Like the saying "life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you respond to it". Everything that happens is 10 percent. The only thing that matters is how you react to it. If you get angry with someone who accuses you of wrongdoing, your illness will increase at that moment. time will run out Anger will cause bad mood. In the same way...the person who makes you sad will also rot in the moment of pain and sadness, Sadness will prevail, It will be a bad mood. And so on. Think about the consequences before reacting to something or something that is not for you. before doing before acting Before you react, think that only those you love are worth living for. Don't waste your time with those who hurt you. It's not the red brick that will be god, so it will feel more or less. But in the end, think about the people who love you instead of people who don't love you or hurt you. Think that you don't have enough time to spend your whole life with those who love you because there are still many people who love you. When faced with people who hurt me in various ways, I made a decision to live my life only for the people who love me and live for me.