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Ways you should try to stop conflict between you and your parents
"1) Don't yell back. Young people are eager. First, I need to patiently explain to my parents what I...
"1) Don't yell back.
Young people are eager. First, I need to patiently explain to my parents what I want. For that, you have to understand that there is a generation gap between you and your parents, so you have to stretch your mind longer than you need to. As soon as you think things don't happen, the first thing you do is yell at your parents. So be careful not to yell back at you. Remember that yelling or doing something counterproductive will ruin your discussion before it even starts. Take deep breaths. I changed my focus, so I stopped talking.
2) Be friendly and warm.
This is about family style. In some families, I have seen parents who, if they are not warm from the beginning, ask urgently how they can take care of their children. Such problems are caused by family members not being warm. Since becoming a family, parents and children are like friends. like a friend We need to be close so that we can talk like friends. In this case, even if your parents are negative about the issue you want to discuss, you should consider the main point of how to make them listen. For that, it is necessary to interact warmly.
3) Consider your parents' thoughts.
That being said, your parents will have reasons why, just as you think about it on your side. You ask that. Try to take care of yourself so that they don't worry. Also think that they want you to be good. Or maybe it wasn't the experience of their time. You need to understand and accept the generation gap between you. The main thing is that if they are confident and satisfied with you, they should encourage you to accept them as well.
4) Be sure of your goal.
If you're sure it's what you want, vouch for them. Remind yourself not to be what you want them to be and to really try to make it your way. Make your parents happy about your goals and show them that you are trying to achieve them yourself.
5) Beat them sometimes.
Always say what you want to say whenever there is a debate. If you do what you want to do, you and your parents will not only be estranged, but will only cause more pain. That's why you follow the rules they say in their framework and you can follow them. Reciprocal. Try what you can about your goal. Avoid worrying about them. That means your parents won't be too strict with you. Otherwise, if you oppose everything they say, they will try to be more strict with you.
6) Do not doubt.
Suspicion between parents and children is very bad. It's best to balance what you want to be with what they want to be. Express your opinions openly.
7) Forgive each other.
It's just that there are so many arguments between parents and children. But mutual forgiveness calms you down. If your parents burn, you will be the only one affected.
8) Don't be one-sided.
You always wanted to win, or you wanted to. You don't talk to your parents because you want to adjust or not. It is one sided to stop doing things. It's bad. In fact, we have to try to create a situation where the squirrels also catch the bees. You should adjust what you want to be and what they want.
Because of this, since family life has become a joke, parents should treat their children warmly and build a relationship between parents and children so that instead of a relationship between a child and a parent, it becomes a relationship between young children and friends. Especially friends together. Friends are the easiest way to know all about your child. Children should not depend on their parents in any way. He will talk to his parents about his 00 issues without having to be afraid. In addition to building a close and warm relationship with their children, parents themselves should also understand and accept the generation gap between their children and their parents. The children do not react rudely and adjust to their parents, accept as much as you can accept what they want to be You should be as accepting as your parents can be of what you want to be."
Young people are eager. First, I need to patiently explain to my parents what I want. For that, you have to understand that there is a generation gap between you and your parents, so you have to stretch your mind longer than you need to. As soon as you think things don't happen, the first thing you do is yell at your parents. So be careful not to yell back at you. Remember that yelling or doing something counterproductive will ruin your discussion before it even starts. Take deep breaths. I changed my focus, so I stopped talking.
2) Be friendly and warm.
This is about family style. In some families, I have seen parents who, if they are not warm from the beginning, ask urgently how they can take care of their children. Such problems are caused by family members not being warm. Since becoming a family, parents and children are like friends. like a friend We need to be close so that we can talk like friends. In this case, even if your parents are negative about the issue you want to discuss, you should consider the main point of how to make them listen. For that, it is necessary to interact warmly.
3) Consider your parents' thoughts.
That being said, your parents will have reasons why, just as you think about it on your side. You ask that. Try to take care of yourself so that they don't worry. Also think that they want you to be good. Or maybe it wasn't the experience of their time. You need to understand and accept the generation gap between you. The main thing is that if they are confident and satisfied with you, they should encourage you to accept them as well.
4) Be sure of your goal.
If you're sure it's what you want, vouch for them. Remind yourself not to be what you want them to be and to really try to make it your way. Make your parents happy about your goals and show them that you are trying to achieve them yourself.
5) Beat them sometimes.
Always say what you want to say whenever there is a debate. If you do what you want to do, you and your parents will not only be estranged, but will only cause more pain. That's why you follow the rules they say in their framework and you can follow them. Reciprocal. Try what you can about your goal. Avoid worrying about them. That means your parents won't be too strict with you. Otherwise, if you oppose everything they say, they will try to be more strict with you.
6) Do not doubt.
Suspicion between parents and children is very bad. It's best to balance what you want to be with what they want to be. Express your opinions openly.
7) Forgive each other.
It's just that there are so many arguments between parents and children. But mutual forgiveness calms you down. If your parents burn, you will be the only one affected.
8) Don't be one-sided.
You always wanted to win, or you wanted to. You don't talk to your parents because you want to adjust or not. It is one sided to stop doing things. It's bad. In fact, we have to try to create a situation where the squirrels also catch the bees. You should adjust what you want to be and what they want.
Because of this, since family life has become a joke, parents should treat their children warmly and build a relationship between parents and children so that instead of a relationship between a child and a parent, it becomes a relationship between young children and friends. Especially friends together. Friends are the easiest way to know all about your child. Children should not depend on their parents in any way. He will talk to his parents about his 00 issues without having to be afraid. In addition to building a close and warm relationship with their children, parents themselves should also understand and accept the generation gap between their children and their parents. The children do not react rudely and adjust to their parents, accept as much as you can accept what they want to be You should be as accepting as your parents can be of what you want to be."
