Things that make it obvious that you are already using it
One is love, One is generous, I helped without expecting anything, but when I really needed help, I...
1) If you are in trouble, it usually comes.
The main thing is that they are uncomfortable and not interested. They don't want to know. They just want to solve their own problems. They don't care what you do because they've solved their problem. In other words, even if you explain your problem that you can't solve their problem, they won't be interested in helping you.
2) It is seen only to take a chance.
When they contact you, it's always money, material I am only interested in getting help from you. I have absolutely no interest in helping you back.
3) They are selfish people.
They are usually just selfish people. What opportunities can I get from you? I'm just interested in what can be requested.
4) He has absolutely no interest in your feelings.
He is completely uninterested in your situation and your feelings. Even if you complain that you're upset, they don't mind at all. It will be finished with "Oh.... Well...". It's just about wanting to get it from you, without really caring about it.
5) I won't help you if you don't need it.
It's obvious... When they don't need you anymore, they don't hug you at all. Not paying attention. I will only ask you if I need it.
6) There is no reward.
There is absolutely no helping you back or understanding your feelings even if they can't help you physically. If there is only hope from you, There is no reward to be given to you.
If you are surrounded by people who behave like that, be careful. They only want to use you for their rights. It doesn't matter in the conventional case, but your other name, If it gets to the point of damaging your reputation, it will cost you a lot, so be careful with that person.