Understand the difference in values.

"Many people define value based on a small amount of money. In fact, the value is only related to th...


"Many people define value based on a small amount of money. In fact, the value is only related to the seriousness of a person's mind. For example, you bought a low-end modern phone with the money you saved for the whole month. No matter how low-end, you will really appreciate that phone. Because you bought it with your hard-earned money.
If the other person bought the latest expensive phone as a reward, would the two of you have the same values?
No matter how little money it is. The only thing that matters is the value set in the mind of the person who values ​​it. At that time, people are the same, but the depth of their feelings is different, so the way they feel is different, not related to money. Only when you look at each other with sympathy will you understand the fact that you should accept it.
For example. As someone who values ​​writing songs more than singing, I am not interested in becoming a singer. For him, writing music is the most valuable thing. That's why not all composers are singers.
In the same way....for someone who doesn't appreciate that a writer will starve, a writer will not be seen as a great and noble person. But the writer is to soften people's hearts. To learn to empathize To develop kindness, As a person who is valued as someone who writes to benefit people so that they can gain knowledge, a writer is seen as a person who is separate from ordinary people and will be respected and valued.
A housewife does not have a job. no income A housewife is seen as a free person who lives at home and takes the salary of a man for free. But the housewife is the person who takes care of the whole house. I don't get a salary, but I can't finish my work day after day. Raising children to become good people is a very responsible job. She is surrounded by family responsibilities and values ​​her existence as a person who values ​​a housewife as someone who takes on a lot of responsibility.
People may be the same, but their views may be different, so they cannot have different values. When the first person said that there was half water in the glass, "Is there only half water in the glass..." If you see that, another person may want to see, "Ha... there is still half of the water in the glass." By looking at it, different people may have different views. Since these views are different, the values ​​are also different. Having different values ​​is not a problem, but thinking that only what you value is valuable and what someone else values ​​is worthless becomes a problem.
Then I tend to make fun of something that I don't value. In addition to mocking, will condemn They will encourage others not to accept it, etc., and attack what others value. At that time, emotional pain and hatred, Physical damage started to happen in one way or another.
It is a normal process to have different values ​​because of different views. Not being able to accept different values ​​is not normal. Someone else will make fun of something that I value. will make fun of If you condemn it, will you like it? In the same way...even if you make fun of yourself, should you make fun of other people's values ​​with the kind of behavior you don't like?
That's why you may want to be something that has no value to you but is valuable to someone else. Don't make fun of me if you think it's worthless in your own eyes. Do not condemn. Everyone has their own values ​​and values ​​are determined by the heart, regardless of money.

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