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Examine the reasons why you are no longer happy at work.
Who is the culprit of unhappiness at work? There can be many reasons why you are unhappy at work. Th...
Who is the culprit of unhappiness at work?
There can be many reasons why you are unhappy at work. That reason needs to be carefully reviewed. Are you miserable every day because your boss oppresses you so much and favors you? Or are you upset because your partner is teaching you different things? Or, when your boss asked you to increase your working hours unfairly, he told you that you would pay more overtime, but in reality you did not get a single increase in your salary? Or because your boss yells at you so much that you feel like you're useless? Or
Is your ability a problem, for example? Are you a poor English translator? Or maybe you just think that accounting is boring and boring, because you're doing accounting work, etc. There could be many reasons.
Divide into two reasons.
When the cause is identified, it can be roughly divided into two categories. One is the part you can control and the other is the part you cannot control. The first type is the part that you can control. It means that you can change the situation yourself. For example. You are an accountant; I also attended an accounting course. Because the list is always incorrect, I'm miserable because I'm always wrong, and I'm fed up with this job. This is a problem that will cool down, especially as you increase your learning skills in the workplace. As an accountant, it's annoying that the accounts are always incorrect, but if you put more effort into studying and asking seniors in the workplace, you will improve your skills. If you want to quit this job because your English is bad, you want to quit because of your skills. Your skills are what you can raise. The main thing is that you really want to be. Because I can't improve my English in this job, if I change to another job, every time I work in my life, I'll have to run around everything related to English. If I leave this job because I can't make the list, can I say that I won't have to face this kind of difficulty again in other jobs? It's not possible. The answer is to raise your skills. It can be convenient in your workplace. That's why if the problem is mainly caused by you, you don't have to quit your job. Just self-correct and learn, and the problem will be solved. In order to improve your skills, you have to face difficulties, Wanting to escape from these difficulties and wanting to quit this job is stressful. If you solve this kind of problem by quitting your job, you will be running away from the challenges that will come with another job. If that's the case, you won't be able to stay in any job. Only time passes and you will not increase in skill. That's why if you have to challenge yourself, try to overcome it. It's hard, but if you can do the hard, it will work out. I will increase my ability in one way or another.
A problem that cannot be controlled
Another type is a problem that cannot be solved by itself. For example. The boss told you to pay overtime. Even though you make sure to do the work, you don't make promises to yourself. I don't give a reason, If you are using his authority, you cannot solve this problem. If this is the case, for those who don't keep their promises, they will be able to keep their promises even more. Like that. The most powerful boss in your workplace, no matter how well you do. I see you negatively, If you are faced with various problems, you should solve them within the framework that you can solve, and if you are outside the framework that you cannot solve, then you cannot do anything. That's the kind of problem you can't control. Similarly. A senior or co-worker who works with you is harassing you in various ways. If you're destructive to whatever work you do, it's like a ledge. You can solve within the bounds you can solve, but if you go outside the bounds, you can't solve it. There you will stress every day, If you become so miserable that you are even afraid to go to work, you should not abuse yourself anymore. The only thing to do is to quickly leave such a bad environment. Because of that environment, you feel like a powerless person. I often think like a fool. Your confidence also decreases. The ability to complete work often decreases.
That's why if you stress yourself out over things you can't control, it won't do you any good in the long run. Immersing yourself in such work for a long time will also dull your life skills. That's why I urge you to make a clear decision.
There can be many reasons why you are unhappy at work. That reason needs to be carefully reviewed. Are you miserable every day because your boss oppresses you so much and favors you? Or are you upset because your partner is teaching you different things? Or, when your boss asked you to increase your working hours unfairly, he told you that you would pay more overtime, but in reality you did not get a single increase in your salary? Or because your boss yells at you so much that you feel like you're useless? Or
Is your ability a problem, for example? Are you a poor English translator? Or maybe you just think that accounting is boring and boring, because you're doing accounting work, etc. There could be many reasons.
Divide into two reasons.
When the cause is identified, it can be roughly divided into two categories. One is the part you can control and the other is the part you cannot control. The first type is the part that you can control. It means that you can change the situation yourself. For example. You are an accountant; I also attended an accounting course. Because the list is always incorrect, I'm miserable because I'm always wrong, and I'm fed up with this job. This is a problem that will cool down, especially as you increase your learning skills in the workplace. As an accountant, it's annoying that the accounts are always incorrect, but if you put more effort into studying and asking seniors in the workplace, you will improve your skills. If you want to quit this job because your English is bad, you want to quit because of your skills. Your skills are what you can raise. The main thing is that you really want to be. Because I can't improve my English in this job, if I change to another job, every time I work in my life, I'll have to run around everything related to English. If I leave this job because I can't make the list, can I say that I won't have to face this kind of difficulty again in other jobs? It's not possible. The answer is to raise your skills. It can be convenient in your workplace. That's why if the problem is mainly caused by you, you don't have to quit your job. Just self-correct and learn, and the problem will be solved. In order to improve your skills, you have to face difficulties, Wanting to escape from these difficulties and wanting to quit this job is stressful. If you solve this kind of problem by quitting your job, you will be running away from the challenges that will come with another job. If that's the case, you won't be able to stay in any job. Only time passes and you will not increase in skill. That's why if you have to challenge yourself, try to overcome it. It's hard, but if you can do the hard, it will work out. I will increase my ability in one way or another.
A problem that cannot be controlled
Another type is a problem that cannot be solved by itself. For example. The boss told you to pay overtime. Even though you make sure to do the work, you don't make promises to yourself. I don't give a reason, If you are using his authority, you cannot solve this problem. If this is the case, for those who don't keep their promises, they will be able to keep their promises even more. Like that. The most powerful boss in your workplace, no matter how well you do. I see you negatively, If you are faced with various problems, you should solve them within the framework that you can solve, and if you are outside the framework that you cannot solve, then you cannot do anything. That's the kind of problem you can't control. Similarly. A senior or co-worker who works with you is harassing you in various ways. If you're destructive to whatever work you do, it's like a ledge. You can solve within the bounds you can solve, but if you go outside the bounds, you can't solve it. There you will stress every day, If you become so miserable that you are even afraid to go to work, you should not abuse yourself anymore. The only thing to do is to quickly leave such a bad environment. Because of that environment, you feel like a powerless person. I often think like a fool. Your confidence also decreases. The ability to complete work often decreases.
That's why if you stress yourself out over things you can't control, it won't do you any good in the long run. Immersing yourself in such work for a long time will also dull your life skills. That's why I urge you to make a clear decision.
