Reasons why you can't get out of pain
1) Hoping for improvement The reason I always feel the pain again is because I hope that my loved on...
1) Hoping for improvement
The reason I always feel the pain again is because I hope that my loved one will fix it one day or another. That's why it's best not to hope for someone who doesn't try to forgive. It's best to let go instead of waiting for someone to forgive and not fix them.
2) Being given a chance from time to time
It is somewhat similar to the point above. When you wake up and believe sometimes, give it a chance, it hurts again when things don't go your way. Once you hope it doesn't happen, you get hurt again and again. That's why you should give limited opportunities. When it doesn't happen in the end, only letting go and forgetting that person can cut your pain.
3) Being emotionally dependent
Being emotionally dependent is like thinking that no one is there for you, and that if this person is no longer related to you, no one will do anything for you. The thought of what would happen without him... and the feeling of pain caused by that person, I cling to the painful day. In fact, it's just an opinion. In fact, only when you let go of the person who hurt you will your life become lighter. I need to plan my life without that person in advance. Thinking that you can't move forward with your life without that person means that you are emotionally dependent on that person.
4) Being physically dependent
Another type is food or money. Either materially or because of the thought of being dependent on that person. I'm putting up with all the pain I'm feeling because of that person, thinking that if he's there, I'll be able to eat and live comfortably.
5) Thinking that it is impossible to let go
This is also the above mental, It could be due to 2 physical factors. I know that I am in pain because of that person, but I can't let go of that person. It's because of the certainty that it's impossible to let go. That's why I keep holding on to the pain. That's why I can't get away from the pain. I can't let go of the pain. Can't stop.
If you want to escape from someone who hurts you, rely on yourself. Instead of being hurt by others, focus on something that interests you. Focus on improving your skills. Make your mind calm. Resolve and letting go is the only way out of your pain.
The reason I always feel the pain again is because I hope that my loved one will fix it one day or another. That's why it's best not to hope for someone who doesn't try to forgive. It's best to let go instead of waiting for someone to forgive and not fix them.
2) Being given a chance from time to time
It is somewhat similar to the point above. When you wake up and believe sometimes, give it a chance, it hurts again when things don't go your way. Once you hope it doesn't happen, you get hurt again and again. That's why you should give limited opportunities. When it doesn't happen in the end, only letting go and forgetting that person can cut your pain.
3) Being emotionally dependent
Being emotionally dependent is like thinking that no one is there for you, and that if this person is no longer related to you, no one will do anything for you. The thought of what would happen without him... and the feeling of pain caused by that person, I cling to the painful day. In fact, it's just an opinion. In fact, only when you let go of the person who hurt you will your life become lighter. I need to plan my life without that person in advance. Thinking that you can't move forward with your life without that person means that you are emotionally dependent on that person.
4) Being physically dependent
Another type is food or money. Either materially or because of the thought of being dependent on that person. I'm putting up with all the pain I'm feeling because of that person, thinking that if he's there, I'll be able to eat and live comfortably.
5) Thinking that it is impossible to let go
This is also the above mental, It could be due to 2 physical factors. I know that I am in pain because of that person, but I can't let go of that person. It's because of the certainty that it's impossible to let go. That's why I keep holding on to the pain. That's why I can't get away from the pain. I can't let go of the pain. Can't stop.
If you want to escape from someone who hurts you, rely on yourself. Instead of being hurt by others, focus on something that interests you. Focus on improving your skills. Make your mind calm. Resolve and letting go is the only way out of your pain.