People you shouldn't hang out with for whatever reason

1) A person who is very fond of gossiping

You will see gossipers everywhere you go. They will give you a sense of intimacy by whispering to you and your friends. Don't be sad.

He will not be reluctant to talk about other people with you and you will not be reluctant to talk about bad things to others.

If you accept and talk to him, he will come to you from time to time. If other people find that you are not talking to a teacher like that, others will think that you are a pushy person and it will damage your reputation.

By insisting like that, your valuable time will be wasted. Among the people who really shouldn't be in a relationship, the ones who insist are at the top.

2) People who use lobbying and manipulation

Those who use lobbying and manipulation are not sincere friends and will use you for what they want. If you hang out with people like that for a long time, they will mold you to follow their desires and you will become the only one who has to fill them full time. your feelings They will not care about ideas and needs.

Those who use manipulation are those who don't care about the suffering of those around them in order to fulfill their needs, and have the attitude that no one dies.

As an example, I would like to tell you about a friend who is in a toxic relationship. His girlfriend is very controlling and defeatist. Every time the boy wants to break up, he tries to keep her from leaving. Sometimes Ma Seo pretends to be unwell, so a good-minded boy starts taking care of her as soon as she leaves.

You will need to learn how to get away from such dishonest and manipulative people without making friends.

3) A person who criticizes and blames

There will be a line of people who will criticize you and talk about how well you are doing.

People who criticize badly like that will not empathize with your situation and events, but will only look down on what you did and what you didn't do. If you listen to people like that, you will be very depressed. You will not be able to teach them. If something happens because of dealing with them, you will be the only one to be blamed.

Your efforts will not be appreciated or even recognized by those who find fault with your efforts, so you will feel that everything has been wasted.

It's the kind of people you should really avoid.

4) People who talk extra

He magnifies small sins, He is the one who makes impossible promises. If you bring people around who talk like that, even if it's a small problem that can be solved, the world won't be able to talk about it.

5) People who express their feelings openly

Expressing one's feelings is a very valuable step in building any relationship, but sometimes, some people do the trick. The people who do that are only suffering from the bad situation they are facing and are not the ones who can solve it.

It is likely that when he becomes friends with those women, he becomes infected with the habit of only feeling sorry for them. Living without solving the problems that are happening is not living a healthy life. You offer advice on how to solve the problem, but they will reject your suggestions with excuses like "I'll try it out" or "It's totally impossible" and they won't cut ties with people who upset them or look for a new job that will help them financially.

If you accept the people mentioned above in your life, you will also be stuck in a rut of living a life full of misery and distraction, so you need to make up your mind and cut these people out of your life.

When you have this precious short life, let me encourage you to push away people who will hinder your goals.

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Inspired and translated from www.lifehack.org
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