"There are times when I sometimes fight with my own mind, so it's common for me to be uncomfortable with others. But when I'm in a relationship with someone who treats me with the wrong attitude, I feel hurt. It's true that I feel pain, irritation, anger, misery, grief, etc.
If we are stuck in our feelings, we can't see some things. It's human....emotions are real, so you can feel them. I can't forget the parts of self-reflection while feeling the emotions. Review the people around you; You will review yourself and so on.
Then to reflect on myself, "What am I doing wrong..." "What is my fault...are these problems caused by me?" What have I done?'' I have to make myself see my own mistakes instead of thinking that I have no mistakes at all. Then you will be able to see your mistake and think about correcting it yourself.

When reviewing the people around me, I think, "The one who gave me problems..." "Is he really nice to you..." "A person who treats himself with pretense?" "A person who is poison to himself, I'm trying to forgive myself, but sometimes I'm lying to myself." I need to learn to see the truth.
Human beings have more or less egos. If there are a lot of people there who are like poison, who always harm you without knowing it, then you will be able to avoid them before they can harm you even worse. "Removing people from your life that are toxic to your life is only about having self-respect." If you look at it for yourself and don't cause other people to suffer, then you've got it. It's not like that, but it's only because of you that it's a problem. because of my behavior If it's because of your own behavior, you have to start thinking about improving yourself. You can't just know your own mistakes, It is possible to become a person who really tries hard.
Learn from your mistakes, think back consider Remember the lesson. Lessons learned from mistakes are good experiences for your life.
In the same way, if the people around you are like poison, you should avoid them, and you should learn from those people's mistakes while watching them from the sidelines.

Like Sam Levenson said, “You must learn from the mistakes of others. You can’t possibly live long enough to make them all yourself.” I have to learn from other people's mistakes and learn from them. Otherwise, I don't think my own life will last that long. If you follow every mistake and learn from it, mistakes will not end even when you die. For that reason, avoid people who are around you in various ways. Watch from a distance and learn from mistakes. Be careful not to make a mistake. For example. If you see family leaders around you who are addicted to alcohol and run amok at home, instead of frowning, drinking alcohol will cause this kind of thing to happen and cause more negative consequences......think and take a lesson. If you see people losing their business while playing two or three lotteries, try to learn that gambling is not permanent.

If you see your children suffering in a marriage that is struggling, try to learn that you must think about it so that your children do not feel the same way. If you see a person who is peddling a disability, try to respect and imitate the person who is tired but honestly looking for food. etc. You can learn a lot of lessons for your life with different people around you. take lessons Avoid what you really should avoid, If you really do what you should do and live, the people who give you problems, I can't sit and be angry anymore for people who hurt me. You will see people around you who are much worse than you, and you will be able to think about what you can do. "Smart people learn from their mistakes. Wise people learn from other people's mistakes. Learn from other people's mistakes. Don't live in your feelings while being upset because of the wrong people around you. Avoid toxic people around you. I encourage you to learn from them and not make mistakes in life."