"Depending on your decision, each person's experience of pain can be different, and each person's life can be different.
I think everyone has experienced something like that in their lives. In fact, you can learn a lesson for life from that incident. (If you learn everything in life, it's just a lesson)
Everyone has an uncomfortable relationship in life. Marriage friends, I have to face a lot of jobs that I don't like. However, depending on how we take such experiences and how we process them, people are divided into happy and unhappy people. I'm like a robot to myself, working in a job I'm not happy with. "I'm so angry..." Are you just whining? So who can move from that place of misery? You can do it yourself. Just sitting and moaning will make this sadness go away. For example. If I try to escape from the workplace where I am very angry, I will be free from my anger. Then I will start thinking about changing from the job that I hate to another job. When I think about another similar job, I will have to think about why I would be upset about this job. Do you mind this kind of work at all? Are you not interested? Is it because of Pa's son and his work colleagues? (Sometimes, because other people earn good money, I attend courses related to that job, get certificates, and then enter the workplace, and I'm going to fail. I'm not interested in that job and it's a very confusing job for me.) Do you have a similar case? etc. The person concerned needs to know himself. When you know the cause of the problem, you can solve it yourself. If you want to escape from this mire, escape. (I can't just sit and complain if I don't really do anything, nothing will happen. Life will go on like this)
For example. You can't keep a girlfriend who is completely bad for you. I'm still dating him because I can't stop following him, but I know why that lover is not bad for me at all. But what happens if you can't stop completely? "It's so annoying to be with him..." I can't help but cry. I can make up my mind to break up with a lover who can't move forward with my life. (If you love too much and still can't stop, that's what you think of you) Is it a year to feel? Two years? Feel it. If you wear bad shoes all your life and feel pain every time you wear them, throw away the pain for a year to eat well for the rest of your life. It's worth it. If you don't believe it, be strong and try it. Your life is lighter than ever. You will be able to focus on issues that will improve even more than now. When you are dominated by the desire to do good to someone who is bad for you, your life is dull because you spend time alone with him. Must be heavy. When you are determined not to get him, and slowly get out of your mind, your life will be lighter than you think. It takes a while. Nothing is impossible.
The same goes for your bad friends. "Without them, my life would be more boring..." If you're thinking that, it's actually just your thinking. Really cut them down. Focus on something else. Either something that improves your life...or something you enjoy. Not long. At a certain point, you will no longer automatically think about them and they will gradually disappear. (Except for the occasional coincidence. That's not a big deal either. If it's better than being bad all your life, it won't hurt to remember one thing. It'll go away.)
Some say... "You can't cut it off because you have a strong bond. Every time I think about cutting it off, I feel pain..." and so on. It's actually the opinions you think about you. The more you follow your heart, the more your life will deteriorate for them, is it worth it? If you think it's worth it, it's your opinion. It's not worth it. There is one thing that you will know when you actually do it. When you look past your difficult lover....you will find that when the time comes, you will be alone. When you cross the ocean of life, the person who will join you will not row hard from the front. If someone is going to disturb your paddling in various ways, is it possible that you are paddling on the sea with that person? You can't get to where you want to be. As for you, you can still die at sea. Then, the person who will not move forward with me in any way, Be a lover Be friends, Be it a job, Whether it's the environment...it's your responsibility to get rid of those who are bad for you. Where you should be clear, you should boldly feel the pain and be clear. That will make it easier to move on with your life. If you can't be clear like that, it's like wearing bad shoes all your life. Every ride must be painful. It hurts too much If you think you're going to leave it again, you should be clear now before you get to a situation where you can't go back. At some point, your life will improve. It will be easier to move on. What is your current opinion that it is not meat? Write that thought down in your diary and 1 year after you change it. Read it again after 2 years. You will know what the difference will be.
That's why I think I can't give up now, I think I can't be clear, I think I can't change, Get them all out of your life right now. New days of your life will return. #Bawa101"