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Reasons for dysfunctional parent-child relationships
"1) Use of power Many parents say, "I'm a parent...listen to me, I've seen them do it. As a parent l...
"1) Use of power
Many parents say, "I'm a parent...listen to me, I've seen them do it. As a parent like that, the child has no right to solve anything. When there is no explanation, the child should discuss with the parents. I don't even think about consulting. Children can become people who can do what they want to do with the mind that they will not be able to adjust what they say to their parents. That's why even though I'm a parent, my child's words, You should first listen to your children's wishes. Which should be It is only a parent who can advise them not to let it go too far, so that their children will not go down the wrong path. (You should be absolutely serious about your own moral sins, social ethics, and alcohol and drugs must be prohibited.)
2) Too much control
Some parents control their children too much. Children are not given the opportunity to shape their own minds and themselves... I have to go to medical school,” There are parents who don't even discuss what their children want to be. It is the same as not allowing children to shape what they want to be, and also killing their children's desire to try.
3) Not studying the era
Genetic disparity is a common problem between parents and children. A parent measures everything with a traditional ruler and says, "How was it when we were like that?" The child won't listen because he laughs. You should understand the age your children are in. When you know as much as you should, you don't need to control your child too much.
4) Blindly following
Some parents don't study the times anymore and don't try to understand their children's situation. We often do it blindly and say, "I can't catch up...". He blindly trusts his child and even proudly says, "He knows...I don't know anything." The kind of parents who listen to their children and tell them what their children do. If the child is full of thinking power then it can be convenient, but if the child has little power of reasoning, then it will be thoughtless. In fact, it shouldn't be like that. You should study the child's situation and take care of it from the sidelines.
5) Not understanding emotions
It must be understood that parents and children want to be reciprocal. Many face to face parents insist on what they want to be and don't listen to what their children want to be. In fact, children are often satisfied if they listen to what they want to be. After carefully listening to what the child wants to be, the parents should open up and discuss their situation and tell them whether it is possible or not. But in order for this situation to happen, parents must practice to have an emotional attachment with their child from childhood."
Many parents say, "I'm a parent...listen to me, I've seen them do it. As a parent like that, the child has no right to solve anything. When there is no explanation, the child should discuss with the parents. I don't even think about consulting. Children can become people who can do what they want to do with the mind that they will not be able to adjust what they say to their parents. That's why even though I'm a parent, my child's words, You should first listen to your children's wishes. Which should be It is only a parent who can advise them not to let it go too far, so that their children will not go down the wrong path. (You should be absolutely serious about your own moral sins, social ethics, and alcohol and drugs must be prohibited.)
2) Too much control
Some parents control their children too much. Children are not given the opportunity to shape their own minds and themselves... I have to go to medical school,” There are parents who don't even discuss what their children want to be. It is the same as not allowing children to shape what they want to be, and also killing their children's desire to try.
3) Not studying the era
Genetic disparity is a common problem between parents and children. A parent measures everything with a traditional ruler and says, "How was it when we were like that?" The child won't listen because he laughs. You should understand the age your children are in. When you know as much as you should, you don't need to control your child too much.
4) Blindly following
Some parents don't study the times anymore and don't try to understand their children's situation. We often do it blindly and say, "I can't catch up...". He blindly trusts his child and even proudly says, "He knows...I don't know anything." The kind of parents who listen to their children and tell them what their children do. If the child is full of thinking power then it can be convenient, but if the child has little power of reasoning, then it will be thoughtless. In fact, it shouldn't be like that. You should study the child's situation and take care of it from the sidelines.
5) Not understanding emotions
It must be understood that parents and children want to be reciprocal. Many face to face parents insist on what they want to be and don't listen to what their children want to be. In fact, children are often satisfied if they listen to what they want to be. After carefully listening to what the child wants to be, the parents should open up and discuss their situation and tell them whether it is possible or not. But in order for this situation to happen, parents must practice to have an emotional attachment with their child from childhood."
