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Things that parents will regret about their children
"The future of a child, whether it is good or not, depends on the parent's upbringing. If the parent...
"The future of a child, whether it is good or not, depends on the parent's upbringing. If the parent's upbringing is right, the children will become good people, and if the parent's upbringing is wrong, the children will grow up to be bad children. Then, it will not be possible to reform the child as a parent from the time they grow up. Bad habits have already taken root, just as the foundation was laid in childhood. That is why parents regret about their children Here are some things you might regret.
1) Encouraging abusive behavior towards others
Some parents respond to abusive behavior toward others by saying "it's not just behaving yourself..." They don't fix it with the thought. Even if another family member doesn't tell the child, "Tell me again carefully..." "Throw it back..." "Don't take it, you know..." are not known in childhood, but when you reach adulthood, it can worsen to the point of a serious fight. Many parents forget that point. If there is something in the mind of the parents, the love of their child and the fear of getting hurt, and forcing their child to do it again, on the other hand, is indirectly teaching the child to behave rudely.
Some parents think that forcing others to behave like that is forcing others to behave like that, and parents will not behave like that again. However, children tend to take their parents' words and behavior as role models. That's why I teach you to be rude from a young age. Please fix it. Teaching others to be respectful will help your child to respect your parents as well.
2) Not teaching to value knowledge
Some parents said, "Because I'm young, I don't understand what education is. "I don't understand anything," they think. That's why we teach children to value education from an early age. How important is it to be wise? What is knowledge? The problem is that the child starts having problems from preschool. It is normal for every child to cry at the beginning of preschool because it is the time when they start to be separated from their parents, but until they are old enough to go to school, they may become afraid of going to school by staying with their parents. Having to go to school again, he asked, "Why do you have to study these things?" Why do I go to this big school every day and pass these exams? Rather than going to school because I respect the value of education, when I go to school because I can't avoid my parents, I can't have children who excel academically. Education in the classroom is also necessary, external knowledge education; You need to be willing to read books that increase your knowledge. Only parents can instill the foundation of all of these into their children's minds. If the parents don't lay such a foundation, the children will suffer in the future, and the parents will also have to worry about the future for their children at the end of their lives.
3) Did not learn how to spend money properly
The actions of some parents who have little knowledge are the things that annoy their children. He can't bear everything and fulfills everything he wants immediately. That bad habit can ruin a child's whole life. The child can no longer understand how hard it is to find money, because whatever the child wants is fulfilled immediately without worry. I tend to think that if I want, I can ask my parents to get it at any time. Then, whether parents are comfortable or not, you can become someone who only knows what you want. While still at the age of parents, It doesn't matter when you are still strong, but when your parents don't have the strength to find it, how do you find money when you are young? I will regret not teaching you how to use it properly. That's why no matter how comfortable the parents' finances are, Let loose. Teach them to find money honestly. We should be taught that money earned honestly is worth more and how to use it properly. If you have taught that good behavior since childhood, even if the time is right, the parents will not have to worry about their children.
5) I was not taught to have good morals
How much good morals are worth, Because of how urgent it is to obey, children should be taught to obey from childhood. It should be taught deeply so that children understand that the value of a person is good morals. Some parents mistakenly think that this is something they will learn as they grow up. Only if the foundation is laid from childhood, when you grow up, you will learn to distinguish between right and wrong and think about right and wrong. If you don't value your morals when you're young, you won't value your morals when you grow up You can even become a yikes. A person who does not value morals will first cause harm to his parents and family, and through that, he will be able to harm the environment. That's why parents should teach their children to value morals from an early age so that they don't regret it later.
6) He was not taught to learn to sharpen his knees regardless of his abilities
In a child's life, parents doing everything in detail with the thought that "no child knows how to do it..." is meaningless. But having parents do everything for them when they reach adulthood at the right time is the same as destroying the future of that child. A child who doesn't do anything since childhood will not understand that he can do some things by himself when he grows up. They tend to have a weak desire to rely on themselves and only want to rely on their parents. Parents are not the kind of people who will not grow old for the rest of their lives, so when the parents are unable to handle it, the child must try to survive on his own. At that time, the children who did not rely on themselves before were in trouble, and any work was difficult, to succeed The desire to flourish began to weaken. That's why a child should be made to understand his age and value from an early age. Then the child will grow up to be responsible. When a person who takes responsibility for himself comes of age, whether he has parents or not, Even if his parents are gone, he can stand on his own two feet and live his life to the best of his ability. Since he was a child, he loves his child too much and does everything, and the child does not do anything, it is like breaking the child's arms and legs. In the end, the parent will regret leaving the child with many insecurities in the sunset of life.
If I were a parent myself, I would examine some of those things myself and show you the things that are wrong so that I can correct them in time."
1) Encouraging abusive behavior towards others
Some parents respond to abusive behavior toward others by saying "it's not just behaving yourself..." They don't fix it with the thought. Even if another family member doesn't tell the child, "Tell me again carefully..." "Throw it back..." "Don't take it, you know..." are not known in childhood, but when you reach adulthood, it can worsen to the point of a serious fight. Many parents forget that point. If there is something in the mind of the parents, the love of their child and the fear of getting hurt, and forcing their child to do it again, on the other hand, is indirectly teaching the child to behave rudely.
Some parents think that forcing others to behave like that is forcing others to behave like that, and parents will not behave like that again. However, children tend to take their parents' words and behavior as role models. That's why I teach you to be rude from a young age. Please fix it. Teaching others to be respectful will help your child to respect your parents as well.
2) Not teaching to value knowledge
Some parents said, "Because I'm young, I don't understand what education is. "I don't understand anything," they think. That's why we teach children to value education from an early age. How important is it to be wise? What is knowledge? The problem is that the child starts having problems from preschool. It is normal for every child to cry at the beginning of preschool because it is the time when they start to be separated from their parents, but until they are old enough to go to school, they may become afraid of going to school by staying with their parents. Having to go to school again, he asked, "Why do you have to study these things?" Why do I go to this big school every day and pass these exams? Rather than going to school because I respect the value of education, when I go to school because I can't avoid my parents, I can't have children who excel academically. Education in the classroom is also necessary, external knowledge education; You need to be willing to read books that increase your knowledge. Only parents can instill the foundation of all of these into their children's minds. If the parents don't lay such a foundation, the children will suffer in the future, and the parents will also have to worry about the future for their children at the end of their lives.
3) Did not learn how to spend money properly
The actions of some parents who have little knowledge are the things that annoy their children. He can't bear everything and fulfills everything he wants immediately. That bad habit can ruin a child's whole life. The child can no longer understand how hard it is to find money, because whatever the child wants is fulfilled immediately without worry. I tend to think that if I want, I can ask my parents to get it at any time. Then, whether parents are comfortable or not, you can become someone who only knows what you want. While still at the age of parents, It doesn't matter when you are still strong, but when your parents don't have the strength to find it, how do you find money when you are young? I will regret not teaching you how to use it properly. That's why no matter how comfortable the parents' finances are, Let loose. Teach them to find money honestly. We should be taught that money earned honestly is worth more and how to use it properly. If you have taught that good behavior since childhood, even if the time is right, the parents will not have to worry about their children.
5) I was not taught to have good morals
How much good morals are worth, Because of how urgent it is to obey, children should be taught to obey from childhood. It should be taught deeply so that children understand that the value of a person is good morals. Some parents mistakenly think that this is something they will learn as they grow up. Only if the foundation is laid from childhood, when you grow up, you will learn to distinguish between right and wrong and think about right and wrong. If you don't value your morals when you're young, you won't value your morals when you grow up You can even become a yikes. A person who does not value morals will first cause harm to his parents and family, and through that, he will be able to harm the environment. That's why parents should teach their children to value morals from an early age so that they don't regret it later.
6) He was not taught to learn to sharpen his knees regardless of his abilities
In a child's life, parents doing everything in detail with the thought that "no child knows how to do it..." is meaningless. But having parents do everything for them when they reach adulthood at the right time is the same as destroying the future of that child. A child who doesn't do anything since childhood will not understand that he can do some things by himself when he grows up. They tend to have a weak desire to rely on themselves and only want to rely on their parents. Parents are not the kind of people who will not grow old for the rest of their lives, so when the parents are unable to handle it, the child must try to survive on his own. At that time, the children who did not rely on themselves before were in trouble, and any work was difficult, to succeed The desire to flourish began to weaken. That's why a child should be made to understand his age and value from an early age. Then the child will grow up to be responsible. When a person who takes responsibility for himself comes of age, whether he has parents or not, Even if his parents are gone, he can stand on his own two feet and live his life to the best of his ability. Since he was a child, he loves his child too much and does everything, and the child does not do anything, it is like breaking the child's arms and legs. In the end, the parent will regret leaving the child with many insecurities in the sunset of life.
If I were a parent myself, I would examine some of those things myself and show you the things that are wrong so that I can correct them in time."
