Don't look at people within the framework you set.

"When we were young, we used to think like children, ``I don't even know this,'' and ``I don't under...


"When we were young, we used to think like children, ``I don't even know this,'' and ``I don't understand the meaning of this.''
Even if there are elderly people around the age of your grandfather at home, they buy something these days, and when asked what the price is, it is often obvious that I am not joking when I tell them the current price. Adults usually reply, "Hey...it's expensive. Back in your day, you only had to pay 50 for the bus fare." "Rice, "How is the oil?" I have heard such words. It's a kind of unknowingly measuring yourself against the frames of your own mind and other people.

As an obvious example, many people have a desire for money. People who don't have a lot of money tend to rely on spontaneity. Not only that, but they also think that their lives will be very enjoyable. That's because we look at it from the frame we set. In fact, there are many worries that you don't know about even those who are very rich. We don't see it anymore, we see it from the frame that we set, "If only we had a lot of money, we would have a decent and happy life." That's why you'll read the news that a very wealthy tycoon can't sleep every night because of business losses.

Similarly, why do some of Korea's famous singers commit suicide? In the eyes of many people, they are very beautiful, very cute, very successful people who are loved by many people. When you are successful in the public eye, you will be very happy in life, and you will have a very happy life with lots of loved ones. It's a very happy life when viewed in our frame. But there is a part of their life that we don't know. That's why there are people who commit suicide after being successful. When you see a waiter at a restaurant, what you think is what you see in your frame. But behind this little boy, you never know the part you can't see. When he saw the girls living as night owls, he said, "Hey...girls are still young, Teaching should be a good career.” You're thinking out of the box you see.

You cannot see what is behind their lives. According to the life situation, Is it because of money? As a hobby or because it is necessary, We don't know why. That's why we can't see everyone in the same frame that we see. As Mark Twain said, “Every man is like the moon. They have a dark side that they don't show to anyone," Mathatri said, "If you judge people you have no time to love them." Only follow people, If you criticize, you won't even have time to love them. In other words, you can't judge others based on what you see. As Martha Teresa said, if you look at everyone with kindness, you won't want to criticize. The person who reacts violently to you should also say, "Oh, what happened to him?" I don't know what feelings are going on." When you think about it, the first thing that will calm you down is you. When you think to the person who treated you in a superior way, "Oh... there must be a reason why he always behaves like that in his life," your mind will be clear. If they hurt you too much, consider that person to be a poisonous person and avoid them before they hurt you badly. It would be better for us to focus on what we can do instead of criticizing and criticizing other people as we see them.
If you have a lot of money, Being popular and successful is not a good life. I am now comfortable not looking at another person with the frame I set. I'm really saying... It's impossible to force another person into the frame you set. Everyone is living their life according to their circumstances. All you can do is try yourself to get into the frame you set. For example. If you feel sorry for the little waiter, try not to let that happen to your own child. Instead of having a lot of money and not being able to sleep all night because of a lot of debt, try to spend enough of what you have and make a life where you can fall asleep as soon as you lay your head down. When you see a person who has made many mistakes in life due to lack of education and cannot correct them, instead of frowning and blaming them, say, "Ah! Oh...I don't know what their background situation is like." Think and help as much as you can. Correct yourself so that it doesn't happen to you.

Then I put people in the frame I set and look at them. Criticizing is a waste of time. Just try to fit yourself into the frame you set. Everyone's background in life is different, so be kind to everyone you meet. help me, Live and behave within the framework set only for yourself. I encourage you that only the boundaries you set for yourself are important to be positive."

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