"I have personally encountered people like that. It's true that everyone is not without mistakes, but it's too hard to live with people who are too one-sided and have to be honest. No one can live long-term with people who look for mistakes anywhere and blame them. It doesn't mean that they have to accept every mistake they make, but they need to learn to accept some mistakes that happen unintentionally. I think that people who only see the other person's mistakes and blame them for nothing Let him do his best. He is the kind of person who recognizes the good side of everything he does, and sees the faults in everything he does and blames them.

He can be said to be a pessimist because he only sees the bad wherever he is. For example. Even while looking at the scenery from the window, the person who sees it is saying, "It's so sad that it's raining," and "The rain has just calmed down." "Plants also get water," he said. Depending on where the thought goes, the result will be different. A person who sees it as a disappointment will immediately feel resentment in his heart, so his confidence is destroyed. When I saw that it was peaceful, I felt calm again. That's the concept.
Sometimes in human life, if you see mistakes and blame yourself, it will cause bad feelings in your own mind. On the other hand, I don't feel good anymore. That's why some mistakes that happen unintentionally need to be accepted and try not to make the same mistake again. In addition to that, it is not good for both parties to point out the mistakes and blame them repeatedly. It only creates bad feelings in the mind of the person who is always finding fault, and the mind of the other person, who is always being found guilty, gets stuck in the mind and makes it worse again. If you only find everyone's worst faults and correct them, there won't even be people in the world to associate with.

Therefore, as long as you only see and blame the person's mistake, no one will be with you in the long run. In some workplaces, the reason why people are stagnant is because of people who tend to find fault and blame. There are some people who are always lonely because of the habit of finding fault with everyone who comes near them. You can't force everyone to be what you want them to be. That's why having the ability to negotiate and have a broad perspective is a human stretch.

That's why people need to be less critical and see things that can be positive. This kind of thinking from the side of the other person makes me feel at peace. It can also increase optimism and make the social environment more comfortable.
Let's all stay away from bigoted, one-sided wrongdoers."