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Should we try to please everyone?
"Actually, that's not good. Trying to please others is only good to a certain extent. If you don't d...
"Actually, that's not good. Trying to please others is only good to a certain extent. If you don't do that, you will be your own mind in your life, and you will be treated as their worker.
Whether you have stopped your work or not. "Help..." I'm helping you with that word. The person you help will finish his work. But for you, the work has to be stopped or postponed, so your work is not finished when it should be. There is one more thing
Many people ask me to help them from time to time. If I did it every time they asked me to do it, when I didn't do it, I would say, "Oh, they do it every time." Now, he must be really weak. Even you may not be able to help them. (Not all of them, but most of the time)
In addition to that, it's okay for everyone to help themselves because it's convenient for them, but when it's not convenient for them to help themselves, there's no way they can afford it, sorry... There may be something to say when you wake up.
(In other countries, this is not something that is considered very seriously. Because it is not rude to say no to something that you cannot do for some reason. Here, if you say that you are awake, you cannot do it yet....If you say no, you may even get angry with the person who said no.
I don't mean to say that you shouldn't help others. It is also a situation where you want to help the other person. Your interests are not affected, your work time amount of money Helping the environment is nothing if you can't hurt yourself. (It's good to have helpful habits)
But your work, time money Not only does it affect the environment, It is not good for me to help others because I have hurt myself and I can't refuse to please others. On the other hand, if the other person is able to recognize their own harm, it is still good. I'm not interested in getting what he wants and how it hurts me. I don't recognize it, I don't know how to thank you. In addition to that, I don't even thank you for helping me at my workplace or while working. If you're the type of person who says, "It's important...do it right now," it's not good for you at all. (I think you have encountered people like that too) People like that are very egotistical. Even if you are willing to help, you may be forced to ask for help many more times. You also have your own personal life, so you have to make time for yourself. Then it may happen that I can't do it. In that case, explain why you can't do it and refuse. That's not rude. (Because I've always done it...don't worry about not doing it now. This is not selfish. It's not selfish. If you destroy your work, destroy your time, and only please others, you won't have time for yourself for the rest of your life. You won't be able to focus on anything to improve your life. Many successful people in life have made plans for themselves to improve their lives, so you don't even have time to try to please others. Are others satisfied with you? You shouldn't be in the dark in those thoughts.
(Deliberately making people angry or angry is one thing. Now, it's not something you do because you want to do it deliberately, but you should reject it because it's completely inconvenient for you. Everyone has to work on their own time. You don't need to try. If you understand, it's OK, If you don't understand, you will feel different things in your mind. But it doesn't matter. This is not selfishness; You helped when you could; You have to refuse just because it's an inconvenient situation. That's why, if it's something that will hurt you, refuse it calmly and boldly. Trying to please others is a habit of unsuccessful people. You are the one who will be successful, so refuse where you should refuse. That is fair. You don't have to feel like a big sin.
So, from today, I want to try to please everyone What can be bought? If you can't do it, you don't have to do it. I will do what I can, There's no need to stress in the event that you can't do it. I wrote this article to tell you that you don't have to try to please everyone. As for myself, I asked others for help, but they refused because it was really difficult for them, but don't get angry. Everyone has their own situation. You will have to understand.
Let's all have a balanced and prosperous life. #BAWA101"
Whether you have stopped your work or not. "Help..." I'm helping you with that word. The person you help will finish his work. But for you, the work has to be stopped or postponed, so your work is not finished when it should be. There is one more thing
Many people ask me to help them from time to time. If I did it every time they asked me to do it, when I didn't do it, I would say, "Oh, they do it every time." Now, he must be really weak. Even you may not be able to help them. (Not all of them, but most of the time)
In addition to that, it's okay for everyone to help themselves because it's convenient for them, but when it's not convenient for them to help themselves, there's no way they can afford it, sorry... There may be something to say when you wake up.
(In other countries, this is not something that is considered very seriously. Because it is not rude to say no to something that you cannot do for some reason. Here, if you say that you are awake, you cannot do it yet....If you say no, you may even get angry with the person who said no.
I don't mean to say that you shouldn't help others. It is also a situation where you want to help the other person. Your interests are not affected, your work time amount of money Helping the environment is nothing if you can't hurt yourself. (It's good to have helpful habits)
But your work, time money Not only does it affect the environment, It is not good for me to help others because I have hurt myself and I can't refuse to please others. On the other hand, if the other person is able to recognize their own harm, it is still good. I'm not interested in getting what he wants and how it hurts me. I don't recognize it, I don't know how to thank you. In addition to that, I don't even thank you for helping me at my workplace or while working. If you're the type of person who says, "It's important...do it right now," it's not good for you at all. (I think you have encountered people like that too) People like that are very egotistical. Even if you are willing to help, you may be forced to ask for help many more times. You also have your own personal life, so you have to make time for yourself. Then it may happen that I can't do it. In that case, explain why you can't do it and refuse. That's not rude. (Because I've always done it...don't worry about not doing it now. This is not selfish. It's not selfish. If you destroy your work, destroy your time, and only please others, you won't have time for yourself for the rest of your life. You won't be able to focus on anything to improve your life. Many successful people in life have made plans for themselves to improve their lives, so you don't even have time to try to please others. Are others satisfied with you? You shouldn't be in the dark in those thoughts.
(Deliberately making people angry or angry is one thing. Now, it's not something you do because you want to do it deliberately, but you should reject it because it's completely inconvenient for you. Everyone has to work on their own time. You don't need to try. If you understand, it's OK, If you don't understand, you will feel different things in your mind. But it doesn't matter. This is not selfishness; You helped when you could; You have to refuse just because it's an inconvenient situation. That's why, if it's something that will hurt you, refuse it calmly and boldly. Trying to please others is a habit of unsuccessful people. You are the one who will be successful, so refuse where you should refuse. That is fair. You don't have to feel like a big sin.
So, from today, I want to try to please everyone What can be bought? If you can't do it, you don't have to do it. I will do what I can, There's no need to stress in the event that you can't do it. I wrote this article to tell you that you don't have to try to please everyone. As for myself, I asked others for help, but they refused because it was really difficult for them, but don't get angry. Everyone has their own situation. You will have to understand.
Let's all have a balanced and prosperous life. #BAWA101"
