"1) Think carefully.
Are you sure that nothing but love between you and him can't be reconciled? When you walk for life, it is almost certain that you cannot move forward with only love in your hand. Love is resentment towards him, Disappointment disrespect When misperceptions get mixed up, they become like mist blown by the wind. That's why you need to think carefully and make a bold decision.
2) Make a clear decision.
Whether it's the girl's side, It's best to make a sure decision because you have to be together for the rest of your life. Holding on to a little love and thinking of combining two lives with him is foolishness. Combine with imagination, Can it be pleasant? Can ideas be adjusted? If not, continuing to work together is a waste of time for both of us. It can be more overwhelming. That's why it's best to make a clear decision if that's not possible. I've seen a lot of marriages that don't work out after getting married because they stay together until they know it's impossible. That's why you should observe your dating life. It is best to make a bold decision.
3) It can be a hindrance to life.
He needs to choose a good path for his life, just as he needs to choose a good path for his own life. Knowing that you can't move forward, and hanging around hurts him as well as yourself. What you should try for your life, You may feel too lazy to do what you should have planned. I love him for the rest of my days, but every time we discuss how to move forward, I feel like I'm fighting a battle.
4) Many adverse effects.
Think about the negative consequences that will happen when you work with him. Think ahead and decide right away not to let your life sink. A broken heart is something that fades away in time... It's time to break up and it's over, right? Think it's because it's still warm now. Heartbreak will heal in time. If you don't progress as much as you should in life, you will delay your life. Nothing can heal. Think about it from time to time.
5) Regret after marriage is bad.
Let's say we close our eyes to everything because of love and get married. It can only be pleasant for a while.
For example, His family doesn't match your personality at all. When you get married, you have to be involved with someone's family that you can't accept anyway. I can say that he will be safe, but in time, his family's words, When interference comes, you need to focus on yourself. At that time, you can't put it down, You may experience situations where you cannot vomit. In the world, not loving someone you shouldn't love is very important for life. For example. Your boyfriend loves you. He doesn't want to achieve anything in his life. After you get married, what do you do if you feel like you don't want to give him a try? Don't think that you will fix him. No one can go in and fix it if they don't want to fix it themselves. That's why it's better for you to decide quickly so that you don't regret getting married. I think that this bad situation will be fixed if I have children. It makes it worse. When you have children, it is impossible to have a perfect marriage if you spend your whole life with someone who is disappointed in you because of your child's face. If a dysfunctional marriage leads to a family breakdown, only the children will suffer.
Different people are different, and the other side effects are also different. Of course there are many negative effects. That's why it's the best thing for your life to get rid of someone who can't be a future for your life. #BAWA101"