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Before getting married, what factors should you consider if he is the right person for you?
1) body Nut, Is he a violent person? In the olden days, you would study your boyfriend's parents. Be...
1) body Nut, Is he a violent person?
In the olden days, you would study your boyfriend's parents. Because I married because I love her, but I can't avoid it, but I have to be involved, isn't it her community? That's why his family and community do what they do. kind of thinking We also study what kind of behavior there is. Actually, I think that philosophy is correct. He is him. Don't think that his community is just his community. Whether you want to be involved or not, you have to be involved, so his family members have the same thoughts as me. Is it better to be a part of my family and his family because they share the same views? I have seen some girls. I love my lover and get married with my eyes closed. His family's philosophy is one of a kind, and if anything, there is no one on his side anymore. No matter how different his philosophy is (there will be people who are different), he has lived in this community all his life. This kind of thinking will come. I thought his face was a village, but when he became the philosophy of his family and community, what would I do? Some even experience domestic violence. When you look back at the parents' community of such people, you can still see that they tend to physically abuse their spouses. (I don't mean all of them) It's true that some of them come from physically abusive families, but I've seen people who are disgusted by that behavior and try to control it so that it doesn't happen again. I can't say for sure, but roughly, you should study your boyfriend's family.
2) Is he a liar?
Are you a person who lies about trivial things? If that's the case, if you've been lied to a few times, you can't trust it anymore. Even after marrying you, he will lie at the beginning. It's nothing to him, but I'm always lying to myself, so I have doubts in my mind, get angry It must be stressful.
3) kind, An empath?
Don't think that you are kind when you meet your lover. I just want to see love life. His good deeds, Bad behavior is still unknown. He may be pretending to impress you for as long as he has met you. Just being kind to you has not yet decided to be kind. Are you kind to others? Are you empathetic? Learn what. Kind to others, A compassionate person will also be kind to you. I will sympathize. That's how to help others, If you are busy with housework after marriage, you may want to help yourself. Being patient with yourself Kind of sympathize with yourself.
4) Is he a man of words and deeds?
Some say it's good. What will I buy? What do you do? They also make promises. In fact, beware of those who can't make it a reality just because it's right. Even in dating life, if he can't keep his promises to you, rest assured that he won't keep his promises even after marrying you. Don't blindly trust such people just out of love. If he really loves you and will go through life with you, whatever you say, Your thinking will adjust to his thinking. Your words will be taken seriously. You don't even need to tell me what should be fixed, and it will fix itself. (I don't mean to be forced to comply with a child without meaning. I mean not to fix or compromise on what should be changed for you and his life, or not to make promises)
5) Are you a like-minded person? Is he adjustable?
Two different people have to live together for the rest of their lives, so they need to have similar ideas. Even if they are different, we should learn to adjust each other. Usually, women tend to choose someone whose philosophy they respect. Only if we can adjust our thoughts and his thoughts, we can spend our whole lives together through consultation. Because it is the life of a girlfriend, if you want to accept it and accept it, when you go through real life, there will be differences of opinion and disdain, disrespect There can be a lot of resentment. After that, it can no longer be repaired.
6) Are you jealous more than you need to be?
Some say that they tend to be short-tempered in dating life, saying, "Because you love me..." As they accept, Even happy. If you become too short-tempered, it will not be easy to be happy in your marriage. If I sit, because I am sitting, It can even be said that it is a kind of mental illness to think that even if you are alone at home without seeing the whole world, you think that you are perverting with your own shadow. Before getting married, you should study whether you are of such a race or not. It is best to stay away from him. If I get married, I will get nothing but regret.
7) Are you a person of good character and good conduct?
This is also an important point. Love yourself. Even if your life is prosperous, you will not be happy because of the kind of people who are greedy for money and other things. In the same way, someone who has bad morals shows love to me in front of me, Back behind me, other women, If you don't want to mess with other men, your life will be on fire.
The above points describe what should happen in relation to a person's behavior. In addition to the above points, the person who will become my marriage partner also wants to have other points. Whether it's good or bad is up to you, so I'll write it down so you can think about it. #BAWA101
In the olden days, you would study your boyfriend's parents. Because I married because I love her, but I can't avoid it, but I have to be involved, isn't it her community? That's why his family and community do what they do. kind of thinking We also study what kind of behavior there is. Actually, I think that philosophy is correct. He is him. Don't think that his community is just his community. Whether you want to be involved or not, you have to be involved, so his family members have the same thoughts as me. Is it better to be a part of my family and his family because they share the same views? I have seen some girls. I love my lover and get married with my eyes closed. His family's philosophy is one of a kind, and if anything, there is no one on his side anymore. No matter how different his philosophy is (there will be people who are different), he has lived in this community all his life. This kind of thinking will come. I thought his face was a village, but when he became the philosophy of his family and community, what would I do? Some even experience domestic violence. When you look back at the parents' community of such people, you can still see that they tend to physically abuse their spouses. (I don't mean all of them) It's true that some of them come from physically abusive families, but I've seen people who are disgusted by that behavior and try to control it so that it doesn't happen again. I can't say for sure, but roughly, you should study your boyfriend's family.
2) Is he a liar?
Are you a person who lies about trivial things? If that's the case, if you've been lied to a few times, you can't trust it anymore. Even after marrying you, he will lie at the beginning. It's nothing to him, but I'm always lying to myself, so I have doubts in my mind, get angry It must be stressful.
3) kind, An empath?
Don't think that you are kind when you meet your lover. I just want to see love life. His good deeds, Bad behavior is still unknown. He may be pretending to impress you for as long as he has met you. Just being kind to you has not yet decided to be kind. Are you kind to others? Are you empathetic? Learn what. Kind to others, A compassionate person will also be kind to you. I will sympathize. That's how to help others, If you are busy with housework after marriage, you may want to help yourself. Being patient with yourself Kind of sympathize with yourself.
4) Is he a man of words and deeds?
Some say it's good. What will I buy? What do you do? They also make promises. In fact, beware of those who can't make it a reality just because it's right. Even in dating life, if he can't keep his promises to you, rest assured that he won't keep his promises even after marrying you. Don't blindly trust such people just out of love. If he really loves you and will go through life with you, whatever you say, Your thinking will adjust to his thinking. Your words will be taken seriously. You don't even need to tell me what should be fixed, and it will fix itself. (I don't mean to be forced to comply with a child without meaning. I mean not to fix or compromise on what should be changed for you and his life, or not to make promises)
5) Are you a like-minded person? Is he adjustable?
Two different people have to live together for the rest of their lives, so they need to have similar ideas. Even if they are different, we should learn to adjust each other. Usually, women tend to choose someone whose philosophy they respect. Only if we can adjust our thoughts and his thoughts, we can spend our whole lives together through consultation. Because it is the life of a girlfriend, if you want to accept it and accept it, when you go through real life, there will be differences of opinion and disdain, disrespect There can be a lot of resentment. After that, it can no longer be repaired.
6) Are you jealous more than you need to be?
Some say that they tend to be short-tempered in dating life, saying, "Because you love me..." As they accept, Even happy. If you become too short-tempered, it will not be easy to be happy in your marriage. If I sit, because I am sitting, It can even be said that it is a kind of mental illness to think that even if you are alone at home without seeing the whole world, you think that you are perverting with your own shadow. Before getting married, you should study whether you are of such a race or not. It is best to stay away from him. If I get married, I will get nothing but regret.
7) Are you a person of good character and good conduct?
This is also an important point. Love yourself. Even if your life is prosperous, you will not be happy because of the kind of people who are greedy for money and other things. In the same way, someone who has bad morals shows love to me in front of me, Back behind me, other women, If you don't want to mess with other men, your life will be on fire.
The above points describe what should happen in relation to a person's behavior. In addition to the above points, the person who will become my marriage partner also wants to have other points. Whether it's good or bad is up to you, so I'll write it down so you can think about it. #BAWA101
