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5 ways to be a kind mother
1) Keep the children from shouting. When you get angry with children, it's like throwing kindness ou...
1) Keep the children from shouting.
When you get angry with children, it's like throwing kindness out the window. I don't even know where the kindness has gone. Don't you often get upset after yelling at yourself? So it's not a good idea to restrain yourself before shouting. Try taking deep breaths every now and then. Then try to explain to the child in a cool tone.
2) Think from the children's point of view.
Kindness means thinking of the other side. That's why think from your children's point of view. Compassion instead of anger will lead to kindness. Their looks, You may think it's wrong because your feelings don't match your age, but when you were their age, you acted like them, right? Therefore, empathize with children and think from their place. Then you will get the answer to how to tell the child to understand.
3) Show affection.
kissing your baby's cheek; "My dearest..." Showing love to your child through behaviors such as saying, whispering that you love him makes you a kind mother. In addition to that, because you show such affection, you will become closer to your child. It can also boost your child's mood. It can help your child develop more self-confidence and become more confident. I am not obliged to consult you in any matter.
4. Warn in case of refusal.
In cases where you have already been warned in the first place, or in cases where you should have refused, do not necessarily refuse. "Yes, I already told you that using the phone is not allowed at all today. If my son doesn't listen to what I told him in advance, my mother will get angry. He will understand that following his orders before his mother's anger will control his mother's anger. Instead, if you do something between warning and prohibition, give the child something to remember. This is an understanding between you and your child. When he knows that he will be punished if he does what you have warned him to do, there will be no need for conflict between you and the child in the future.
5) Give me a hug.
Hugging your baby and showing affection can make you and your baby bond more. It's a way to be a kind mother. When your child is loving and close, he learns to talk to you about anything. That's why you can teach the child in detail what is right and wrong. It's a form of correction that your child will need throughout his or her life.
When you are old enough to take care of your child, you will distinguish between right and wrong. But when the child reaches adulthood, the above methods will be much more useful to strengthen the relationship between you and your child. A kind mother will have the opportunity to be kind and supportive throughout the child's life. #BAWA101
When you get angry with children, it's like throwing kindness out the window. I don't even know where the kindness has gone. Don't you often get upset after yelling at yourself? So it's not a good idea to restrain yourself before shouting. Try taking deep breaths every now and then. Then try to explain to the child in a cool tone.
2) Think from the children's point of view.
Kindness means thinking of the other side. That's why think from your children's point of view. Compassion instead of anger will lead to kindness. Their looks, You may think it's wrong because your feelings don't match your age, but when you were their age, you acted like them, right? Therefore, empathize with children and think from their place. Then you will get the answer to how to tell the child to understand.
3) Show affection.
kissing your baby's cheek; "My dearest..." Showing love to your child through behaviors such as saying, whispering that you love him makes you a kind mother. In addition to that, because you show such affection, you will become closer to your child. It can also boost your child's mood. It can help your child develop more self-confidence and become more confident. I am not obliged to consult you in any matter.
4. Warn in case of refusal.
In cases where you have already been warned in the first place, or in cases where you should have refused, do not necessarily refuse. "Yes, I already told you that using the phone is not allowed at all today. If my son doesn't listen to what I told him in advance, my mother will get angry. He will understand that following his orders before his mother's anger will control his mother's anger. Instead, if you do something between warning and prohibition, give the child something to remember. This is an understanding between you and your child. When he knows that he will be punished if he does what you have warned him to do, there will be no need for conflict between you and the child in the future.
5) Give me a hug.
Hugging your baby and showing affection can make you and your baby bond more. It's a way to be a kind mother. When your child is loving and close, he learns to talk to you about anything. That's why you can teach the child in detail what is right and wrong. It's a form of correction that your child will need throughout his or her life.
When you are old enough to take care of your child, you will distinguish between right and wrong. But when the child reaches adulthood, the above methods will be much more useful to strengthen the relationship between you and your child. A kind mother will have the opportunity to be kind and supportive throughout the child's life. #BAWA101
