Let's say you're holding hands with someone who lets you go because you don't want to hold your hand. What do you think should happen? He will always be on the lookout for disappointment in me. I will always have to follow him. So that she will complain. You will always feel insecure about what to do if you leave. While he is patient like that, to what extent will he be able to stay by your side for a long time? Not sure at all. Because he doesn't want to be around you himself, he can't bring you around in any way. He will only think about the way he will leave you at the right time. That's why he's not happy around you. You can't be happy because you're worried about when you'll leave him.
So it's still fun because the two of you are still together? That's why you don't hang on to someone who doesn't want to be around you for any reason. That's what's hot for you. You are not free. He did not escape.

If so, you will not be happy when that person lets go of your hand. Because people tend to see bad things more. They think. Then I tend to focus more on the person who was bad to me. At that time, I often remember all the things related to the person who was bad to me. The more I think about it, the more I remember it, and the more I miss it, the more I start thinking about it.
The only way to do it is to notice in your mind that you are thinking about that person when you don't know it. Remind yourself that you don't think about bad people. Whenever you come back to it, remind yourself of that and replace it with something else.

Do you think he is already happy in a place where he doesn't want to be around you? Is that why you are still grieving for him? He is happy and you forget about him and be happy. As long as I don't start all over again about him.
Don't expect me to stay with you, I'm tired. You still need to love yourself.....you have been forgetting for a long time, haven't you?
That's why forget the person who doesn't deserve your love and live happily as you love yourself. You deserve your love.