I haven't met myself yet, but what is going on in the other person's mind? Thinking about what to feel and feeling and understanding is not something that can be taught in any school, but it is an ethic that must be understood and felt by fellow human beings.
In other words, the heart and understanding of the other side. I heard a monk preach. What is better in EQ and IQ in any organization? Bong Bong said, "What can be more successful?" In general, IQ is intelligence. They think that intelligence can lead to success anywhere. Because a person who is superior in intelligence will be inferior to others, You are easy, easy to remember It is true that you can only be better than others. But when you are not able to think and feel with your heart, a person who is superior in intellect is likely to become a fanatic.
"Hi, I can Everything can happen if you do it yourself. "There is no one who is worthy of me" and I can no longer cover my heart with pride. At that time, when you want to pay more attention to yourself, "If it's good for you, I no longer feel the burden of oppressing others with the attitude of "Whatever others do." Then, when intelligent people do not use their hearts in a balanced way, the human society will have more egoistic and selfish people.
It is said that many lion baskets and figures were captured and added to the sermon. The person who put it in can safely bring the basket home without closing the lid. Because when one of the figures tries to climb over the basket, the other one steps on the first one and tries to climb over again. For that, the first crab falls back down, and the third crab climbs on the second crab once again. fall back The fourth crab climbed on top of the third crab and trampled them one by one. Knowing that, he preached by example that he did not even need to close the lid of the basket. Like that.
If there are more people with very good IQ and no EQ at all, the society will fall one by one among crab-like people and will not progress. That's why he preached that if the human society is to improve, there will be more people who can feel and understand each other from the heart and have good EQ.
In fact, in retrospect, it is very true. whether in the workplace either in the family Whether in a student body or anywhere else, you've never felt uncomfortable dealing with people who don't have a high EQ for humanity. That's why, every time I get a lot of diplomas, Even if the person is rich and wealthy, that person is not wise. It is not humane. Being empathetic to other people, even though I haven't experienced it myself, being able to sympathize and think inside the other person is humanity. It is only an Ethic born from shared feelings from the heart. No course can teach that. No degree will help. How high your IQ is, how educated you are, Only by being able to empathize with and understand every human being can we improve the human society and the world. I shared the little thought that I learned while sharing that I will be successful in everything.