1) Listen carefully to what the child is saying before you reprimand.
Listen with interest to the child. If he says it, ask him back like a child, according to what he said. For example. If my son's friend said, "Yes, my son's friend is very good, Do you love your son?" And so on. From the words of the child, what kind of friend is a friend? Bullying child? If your child is going to school, is he happy at school? Or have fun in preschool? You can guess what the child's environment is like from the child's words. From the child's words, you can notice what happened in the child's day. You can teach what you should teach.
2) Be patient.
Be patient with the child. You also went through the same thing when you were a child. I have to teach you to do the little things that you don't know how to do. When I was a child, I was poor. It's been a Fri time, I'm getting angry...don't complain about not finishing it. Such denial reduces the child's confidence in his ability to do so.
3) Tell the truth. Don't lie.
What people do you disappoint in your daily life? Note the manners of those people. Teach your child not to be that person. I think there are people who lie easily. If so, don't lie to your child yourself. Choose words that he can understand as much as possible and tell him the truth. There is nothing you should understand because you are a child. Explain the truth about his age and what he should know. If you don't pay attention to yourself because you are a child, if you lie easily, surely your child will become like you.
4) Let the child keep the promise himself. That's why the child will keep his promise.
As mentioned above. As you do to the child, the child will follow your example, so you will become the way you live. Then you will be committed. For example. If you promise to send the child to the park if he finishes reading this book, make sure you keep your promise when the child finishes reading the book. Not like that, because it's a child, if you break your promise easily, saying, "Don't go today... because I have work."
The next time you promise and ask the child to do something, the child won't do it. In the child's mind, "Even if I do what mommy asks, mommy won't do what she promised me." I don't do it anymore..." will think again. If that is the case, your child will become someone who makes promises easily and breaks promises easily.
5) Allow me to ask endless questions
The child is still learning. That's why she knows so much. That's why there are so many questions. As much as possible, choose a word that is easy for him to understand and answer. As you ask more questions, he remembers all the answers you give. That's why the vocabulary is rich. He can say things that other children don't say. I will think. He will have confidence in himself. When you almost forgot, the answer you didn't expect will surprise you.
6) Give mutual respect
Be respectful of adults around children. Respect the child too. When the child helps you with something, you begin to say thank you to the child. Teach your child to appreciate others. Be an example of other respectful behavior. For example. If I wrongly blamed the child for not doing it, when I found out the truth, I hugged the child and said, "I'm sorry, son. I thought it was because my mother and son made me fat. "I'm sorry, hide it" This kind of behavior will make the child learn to say sorry to you if he makes a mistake.
7) Teach forgiveness
Those who do not understand the psychology of some children tease the child, Teach them to forgive when they make fun of you. Some parents
"Did you stick your tongue out at my son... Did he tap the head? Put it back down." I often teach. If you see someone who doesn't respect the child like that, "Pretend you don't want to know, It's better to teach them to avoid....” Even if there is a fight between children, teach them to avoid fighting as much as possible. If you can't avoid it, teach the child's parents to complain. Then learn to forgive. Tell me how much forgiveness makes you feel lighter. I've seen some parents remember and teach them to do it again when it's their turn. Don't do that. That is indirectly teaching the child to be angry and resentful. A child abuses a child's mind.
8) Give praise
If the child can do something to be successful, that's great...he's very smart...etc. It gives the child self-confidence. A child who has self-confidence tries to succeed in everything. Even when faced with failure, he becomes the kind of child who can bounce back.
9) Hugs often.
Hugs often. Even if you don't care about your child's work, give your child a gentle hug and love before going to bed.
10) Play together Exercise together.
Play like a child for an hour or so. It is not necessary to exercise. For example. If they go to the market, mothers and children walk together. Walking home from school is also an exercise. It creates more warmth between you and the baby. It also makes the child feel more secure.
Depending on the children's age and lifestyle, there may be changes accordingly. The main thing is the warmth in the child's mind, trust To feel safe. It is intended to be self-confident children.