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Don't yell at the kids. To make him listen without getting fat
"1) Focus on what you want them to do rather than what you have to stop them from doing." This text...
"1) Focus on what you want them to do rather than what you have to stop them from doing."
This text is very true for your child. When you say, "Don't run," you're just imagining running in your child's head. "Walk..." When you say that, it will make them imagine walking in their heads.
2) Give praise.
Even a little praise can have many benefits. The child likes to be praised. You'll see how much a compliment goes before or after you do something. For example, "Mom knows a child who listens too much. I was so proud to listen to him say that. That's why my son will be the best." Saying something like that and praising him for his love is more work than yelling at him. That's one way to get your cat to listen to you without yelling is to praise your cat.
3) Set a time. Let them know that.
you phone computer 30 minutes to watch. If that's the case, since you're going to start using it, "Yes... If you use the phone, you only have to play for 30 minutes." When the time is full, it must be saved. If you agree, I'll play with you" and told him in advance. If the time is full and they don't want to save the phone after saying, "You have full time.... I only need five more minutes. If you don't save it for the full time, you won't receive it again. "I know" set it. That's it, the next time, the phone, If you use the computer full time, You don't have to yell at the child because you know that if you don't keep it, the child will listen.
4) Put down the phone.
Everyone knows you should put the phone down. But it is difficult to do. You use Facebook, When your child wants your attention because they can't just check email, they may start to misbehave. They want your attention. That's why I screamed and cried. They can throw toys away. That's why, instead of being on the phone all the time, be careful to give time to your child. That way, you and your child will be able to adjust. Before he became a habit of screaming and rioting, If you make time to take special care of him, you will be able to ask him back when you really don't have the time because of work. For example. "After playing together with my son, I have some office work to do. I have to understand that. Yes? "Mom's going to work quickly and play with my son again."
5) Rather than asking questions, let them know what to do.
"I have to pick up the toys again" is more effective than "don't you pick up the toys?" Rather than "what will you eat dinner with?" It is more effective to ask questions such as "Would you like to eat it with beans?" What I want to say is, rather than what to do for the child, the kind of words that advise you to do this, If there is a choice, you should tell him what he should choose and let him choose from it. If you ask what to eat for dinner, the child will say what he wants to eat, whether it's healthy or not. When I asked him to choose between potatoes or beans for dinner, it was just a matter of choosing which of the 2 was healthy for him. Let me choose that. That's implicitly asking for an answer that he can choose your decision and what you want.
6) Don't get upset over small issues.
Children's natural play, Restless Accept that it is natural to be curious. Don't be angry at small things and think that you can't control them. A game where nothing is possible. If it's a small matter, don't hinder the children and give them freedom. Children are still learning everything, so they want to know, exploring, curious, I will be bored with all the creations and so on. You can't always squat like a doll.
If that's the case, don't listen to the conversation between you and your child. You won't get anything just by yelling.
Translated from the link https://beautyinthemess.com/get-your-kids-to-listen/#_a5y_p=4587496. #BAWA101
This text is very true for your child. When you say, "Don't run," you're just imagining running in your child's head. "Walk..." When you say that, it will make them imagine walking in their heads.
2) Give praise.
Even a little praise can have many benefits. The child likes to be praised. You'll see how much a compliment goes before or after you do something. For example, "Mom knows a child who listens too much. I was so proud to listen to him say that. That's why my son will be the best." Saying something like that and praising him for his love is more work than yelling at him. That's one way to get your cat to listen to you without yelling is to praise your cat.
3) Set a time. Let them know that.
you phone computer 30 minutes to watch. If that's the case, since you're going to start using it, "Yes... If you use the phone, you only have to play for 30 minutes." When the time is full, it must be saved. If you agree, I'll play with you" and told him in advance. If the time is full and they don't want to save the phone after saying, "You have full time.... I only need five more minutes. If you don't save it for the full time, you won't receive it again. "I know" set it. That's it, the next time, the phone, If you use the computer full time, You don't have to yell at the child because you know that if you don't keep it, the child will listen.
4) Put down the phone.
Everyone knows you should put the phone down. But it is difficult to do. You use Facebook, When your child wants your attention because they can't just check email, they may start to misbehave. They want your attention. That's why I screamed and cried. They can throw toys away. That's why, instead of being on the phone all the time, be careful to give time to your child. That way, you and your child will be able to adjust. Before he became a habit of screaming and rioting, If you make time to take special care of him, you will be able to ask him back when you really don't have the time because of work. For example. "After playing together with my son, I have some office work to do. I have to understand that. Yes? "Mom's going to work quickly and play with my son again."
5) Rather than asking questions, let them know what to do.
"I have to pick up the toys again" is more effective than "don't you pick up the toys?" Rather than "what will you eat dinner with?" It is more effective to ask questions such as "Would you like to eat it with beans?" What I want to say is, rather than what to do for the child, the kind of words that advise you to do this, If there is a choice, you should tell him what he should choose and let him choose from it. If you ask what to eat for dinner, the child will say what he wants to eat, whether it's healthy or not. When I asked him to choose between potatoes or beans for dinner, it was just a matter of choosing which of the 2 was healthy for him. Let me choose that. That's implicitly asking for an answer that he can choose your decision and what you want.
6) Don't get upset over small issues.
Children's natural play, Restless Accept that it is natural to be curious. Don't be angry at small things and think that you can't control them. A game where nothing is possible. If it's a small matter, don't hinder the children and give them freedom. Children are still learning everything, so they want to know, exploring, curious, I will be bored with all the creations and so on. You can't always squat like a doll.
If that's the case, don't listen to the conversation between you and your child. You won't get anything just by yelling.
Translated from the link https://beautyinthemess.com/get-your-kids-to-listen/#_a5y_p=4587496. #BAWA101
