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What do you teach to improve your child's EQ?
1) Understand the child's emotions. A child learns a lot depending on the understanding of the paren...
1) Understand the child's emotions.
A child learns a lot depending on the understanding of the parents who raise him. You can teach a lot. The main thing is the parents. In order for parents to teach their children EQ, parents themselves need to understand their children's emotions. What is happening to the child? How do you feel? How did you feel when you were young? You should sympathize with the child, such as how you felt in your childhood. Only then will you be able to teach the child without beating him. It is also easier to teach the child because he understands the child's mindset.
2) Teach the child to control his emotions.
If you want your child to learn to control their emotions, parents themselves should show them control of their emotions. For example. If the child does something I don't like, I quickly beat the child without explaining anything. Instead of screaming, he took a deep breath and said, “Son...how did you do that? If mom's work matters are affected, mom will be angry, Now, before mom gets angry, I told you, Next time, if I want to touch my mother's things, ask my mother first and ask for her permission. If the child picks up something, angry, If you start crying like that, "If you scream like that about what your son wants, mom won't want to do it at all." If my son explains well, mom can do it, I will explain again, "Yes?" and teach him to control his emotions.
3) Teach how to solve problems.
The same goes for problem solving. By teaching them how to say something they don't like, they also teach them to think about what would be the best way to deal with a problem. "If someone does something you don't like, instead of yelling, don't do it." I don't like my son," You should be taught that you can't tell well.
4) Teach while reading.
When reading books, a person shows kindness to another person, When it comes to helping people like that, it's a good job to help people who are in trouble. If a person who causes trouble to another person is included in the book, he will ask, "Would you like it if you come and do such a thing?" If those people don't like it, don't do it. If you make such people suffer, you are called a bad boy. Only then, when the parents took care of the child again, "Mother is a clever son, "I'm not a bad person" and it becomes easy to re-educate the child.
5) Listen to what the child wants to say.
In addition, when the child is sad, When a child is having a problem, the parent should be patient and ask "why" without asking the child about the benefit. Listen to the child's feelings about why they are doing it. Sometimes, when you listen to the child's point of view, you can see the child's mind, which makes it easier to solve problems. Give the child time and ask him about everything he has been up to for the day. After that, whenever something happens, he will learn to confide in his parents knowing that he will listen carefully. If the child is wrong, "Mom, I understand my son's feelings, But next time, do this instead of this," the parent can correct the child's mistake. When the child is able to make the right decision, he says, "That's a good solution, Give encouragement and praise. Then the child will become the parent's conversational partner.
6) Teach others to understand their feelings.
Ask the child to think about what would happen if he felt the other person's feelings himself. For example, If they are laughing at another child's fall, ask, "Does your child like it when others laugh when he slips like that?" If he says, "My son's friend doesn't give him bread when he wants to eat bread," will he like it?" etc. Ask them to think. "Okay...so what do you want to do instead of laughing when your child is slipping?" Tell me what you want. Teach others to imagine how they feel. "You want your son to be strong, don't you? That's the way it is. He just wants it to be thick. Similarly, if you don't like it, you don't have to do it if others don't like it.
A child learns a lot depending on the understanding of the parents who raise him. You can teach a lot. The main thing is the parents. In order for parents to teach their children EQ, parents themselves need to understand their children's emotions. What is happening to the child? How do you feel? How did you feel when you were young? You should sympathize with the child, such as how you felt in your childhood. Only then will you be able to teach the child without beating him. It is also easier to teach the child because he understands the child's mindset.
2) Teach the child to control his emotions.
If you want your child to learn to control their emotions, parents themselves should show them control of their emotions. For example. If the child does something I don't like, I quickly beat the child without explaining anything. Instead of screaming, he took a deep breath and said, “Son...how did you do that? If mom's work matters are affected, mom will be angry, Now, before mom gets angry, I told you, Next time, if I want to touch my mother's things, ask my mother first and ask for her permission. If the child picks up something, angry, If you start crying like that, "If you scream like that about what your son wants, mom won't want to do it at all." If my son explains well, mom can do it, I will explain again, "Yes?" and teach him to control his emotions.
3) Teach how to solve problems.
The same goes for problem solving. By teaching them how to say something they don't like, they also teach them to think about what would be the best way to deal with a problem. "If someone does something you don't like, instead of yelling, don't do it." I don't like my son," You should be taught that you can't tell well.
4) Teach while reading.
When reading books, a person shows kindness to another person, When it comes to helping people like that, it's a good job to help people who are in trouble. If a person who causes trouble to another person is included in the book, he will ask, "Would you like it if you come and do such a thing?" If those people don't like it, don't do it. If you make such people suffer, you are called a bad boy. Only then, when the parents took care of the child again, "Mother is a clever son, "I'm not a bad person" and it becomes easy to re-educate the child.
5) Listen to what the child wants to say.
In addition, when the child is sad, When a child is having a problem, the parent should be patient and ask "why" without asking the child about the benefit. Listen to the child's feelings about why they are doing it. Sometimes, when you listen to the child's point of view, you can see the child's mind, which makes it easier to solve problems. Give the child time and ask him about everything he has been up to for the day. After that, whenever something happens, he will learn to confide in his parents knowing that he will listen carefully. If the child is wrong, "Mom, I understand my son's feelings, But next time, do this instead of this," the parent can correct the child's mistake. When the child is able to make the right decision, he says, "That's a good solution, Give encouragement and praise. Then the child will become the parent's conversational partner.
6) Teach others to understand their feelings.
Ask the child to think about what would happen if he felt the other person's feelings himself. For example, If they are laughing at another child's fall, ask, "Does your child like it when others laugh when he slips like that?" If he says, "My son's friend doesn't give him bread when he wants to eat bread," will he like it?" etc. Ask them to think. "Okay...so what do you want to do instead of laughing when your child is slipping?" Tell me what you want. Teach others to imagine how they feel. "You want your son to be strong, don't you? That's the way it is. He just wants it to be thick. Similarly, if you don't like it, you don't have to do it if others don't like it.
