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What can happen in the lives of children who are damaged by over controlling parents?
"Because a child is still a child, parents who empathize and think from the child's place, saying, `...
"Because a child is still a child, parents who empathize and think from the child's place, saying, ``If only we were children, or if I were a child, I would think this way and play this way,'' do not allow them to do any kind of control. However, some parents come from a life of controlled children, so they become controlling parents without even realizing it. The loss of the child's rights can cause pain in the child's mind.
1) Fear of making mistakes.
usually their parents The guardians made them sit down. Overbearing parents tend to do what they want them to do, and blame children for even the smallest of natural mistakes, so children of over-controlling parents are often afraid of doing something new and doing something wrong. That's why we are afraid of making even a small mistake. Even if the child does it naturally, he hides it so that the parents don't get fat. It can even happen when you lie.
2) They become children who do not tolerate even a little mistake.
In other words, for fear of making a mistake, There is nothing wrong with being afraid of being blamed badly by parents. Obsessed with the desire to be perfect in everything. When you become perfectionistic, you can't make even the smallest mistakes. It's becoming a nation that only wants things to be right.
3) Learn to control others again.
From a young age, children become like the behavior of the guardians they see, so before they even know themselves, they tend to control others.
4) Learning to depend on others.
Parents who are not too faultless and controlling tend to deal with every possible situation their child goes wrong on their own. At that time, the child is afraid of making a mistake and becomes dependent on the parent. It is a habit that is common in Burmese families. If you don't do something, it will go wrong. Mother will do it. For example. If you ask me to carry the plate, it will break if I don't carry it. I'll just carry the mother, If you don't get on the chair, you will fall from time to time. My mother will put me on the seat and so on. In this way, the child becomes dependent on others.
5) Anxiety and fear are always overwhelming.
Even if children naturally want to do it, they are always afraid because they are always afraid. A baby can't be happy without any distractions.
6) Become a self-harming person.
Parents are always angry whenever they make a mistake, so they are emotionally affected, and parents are poor people, They are often told that they are stupid, that they don't even exist, so they feel like they are useless and don't even value themselves, which can cause them to be hurt."
1) Fear of making mistakes.
usually their parents The guardians made them sit down. Overbearing parents tend to do what they want them to do, and blame children for even the smallest of natural mistakes, so children of over-controlling parents are often afraid of doing something new and doing something wrong. That's why we are afraid of making even a small mistake. Even if the child does it naturally, he hides it so that the parents don't get fat. It can even happen when you lie.
2) They become children who do not tolerate even a little mistake.
In other words, for fear of making a mistake, There is nothing wrong with being afraid of being blamed badly by parents. Obsessed with the desire to be perfect in everything. When you become perfectionistic, you can't make even the smallest mistakes. It's becoming a nation that only wants things to be right.
3) Learn to control others again.
From a young age, children become like the behavior of the guardians they see, so before they even know themselves, they tend to control others.
4) Learning to depend on others.
Parents who are not too faultless and controlling tend to deal with every possible situation their child goes wrong on their own. At that time, the child is afraid of making a mistake and becomes dependent on the parent. It is a habit that is common in Burmese families. If you don't do something, it will go wrong. Mother will do it. For example. If you ask me to carry the plate, it will break if I don't carry it. I'll just carry the mother, If you don't get on the chair, you will fall from time to time. My mother will put me on the seat and so on. In this way, the child becomes dependent on others.
5) Anxiety and fear are always overwhelming.
Even if children naturally want to do it, they are always afraid because they are always afraid. A baby can't be happy without any distractions.
6) Become a self-harming person.
Parents are always angry whenever they make a mistake, so they are emotionally affected, and parents are poor people, They are often told that they are stupid, that they don't even exist, so they feel like they are useless and don't even value themselves, which can cause them to be hurt."
