Common mistakes in raising children
"For that reason, if you are going to be a parent, you should learn how to raise a child in the best...
"For that reason, if you are going to be a parent, you should learn how to raise a child in the best possible way. Here are the wrong ways to raise a child.
1) Ignoring the child
Ignoring the child means cuddling and talking to the child. Talking to parents about everything that happened during the day, Treating the child like an adult, Doing housework together with the child, I think it should be said that the child is treated like an adult family member. Many adults in Myanmar say that the child does not understand anything, and the child is still a child. Adults tend to discriminate between adults and adults. They tend to keep the child away. Excluding such a child makes the child small, Makes you weak.
2) yelling and screaming with the worst words; Beating
When interacting with the child, it is not positive, but harsh words and anger. Screaming Beating the child if you don't think about it will make the child afraid. In addition to that, the child no longer has the courage to do anything and becomes reluctant and timid.
3) Over protection Spontaneity
When you love a child, you desire all the physical aspects of the child. It is wrong to think that money can solve everything. Instead of having to explain the child's mistake thoroughly, protecting the child with the words that he doesn't know because he's a child makes the child become a person who thinks. Buying everything the child wants, Fulfilling physical needs
, Pursuing without crying will not give the child peace of mind, but it will make the child think that if he annoys the parents, he can get everything, and the strictness of the parents, They become children who cannot understand discomfort. They become children who cannot stand without the help of their parents.
4) Lack of trust in the child
Belittling a child for what they can't do makes the child lack self-confidence. You should be allowed to do something that you think a child can do. Praise the child for the good things he does. Explain the benefits so that children can understand when they do bad things. Allow the child to decide anything without giving anything to the child. Not allowing the child to create anything on his own makes the child small and lacks self-confidence.
5) Dictatorship
A dictatorial behavior that requires only orders will make the child become a robot. The child may feel as if he is missing himself. Something that makes him less able to make decisions on his own without parental decision. Rather than being able to distinguish between right and wrong, it makes people think they have to do what their parents tell them to do. It's like killing a child's ability to think. Asking the child to do something and understanding the difference between good and bad from what he has done himself helps the child to understand right and wrong. Increases confidence.
6) Parents making mistakes in their own behavior
Parents are the closest environment for a child. When a child sees the behavior habits of the parent and becomes accustomed to it, it becomes the behavior of the parent. That's why it's important for parents to be good role models for their children. If you want your child to have good behavior, parents should show good behavior in front of the child. We must live with good behavior."
1) Ignoring the child
Ignoring the child means cuddling and talking to the child. Talking to parents about everything that happened during the day, Treating the child like an adult, Doing housework together with the child, I think it should be said that the child is treated like an adult family member. Many adults in Myanmar say that the child does not understand anything, and the child is still a child. Adults tend to discriminate between adults and adults. They tend to keep the child away. Excluding such a child makes the child small, Makes you weak.
2) yelling and screaming with the worst words; Beating
When interacting with the child, it is not positive, but harsh words and anger. Screaming Beating the child if you don't think about it will make the child afraid. In addition to that, the child no longer has the courage to do anything and becomes reluctant and timid.
3) Over protection Spontaneity
When you love a child, you desire all the physical aspects of the child. It is wrong to think that money can solve everything. Instead of having to explain the child's mistake thoroughly, protecting the child with the words that he doesn't know because he's a child makes the child become a person who thinks. Buying everything the child wants, Fulfilling physical needs
, Pursuing without crying will not give the child peace of mind, but it will make the child think that if he annoys the parents, he can get everything, and the strictness of the parents, They become children who cannot understand discomfort. They become children who cannot stand without the help of their parents.
4) Lack of trust in the child
Belittling a child for what they can't do makes the child lack self-confidence. You should be allowed to do something that you think a child can do. Praise the child for the good things he does. Explain the benefits so that children can understand when they do bad things. Allow the child to decide anything without giving anything to the child. Not allowing the child to create anything on his own makes the child small and lacks self-confidence.
5) Dictatorship
A dictatorial behavior that requires only orders will make the child become a robot. The child may feel as if he is missing himself. Something that makes him less able to make decisions on his own without parental decision. Rather than being able to distinguish between right and wrong, it makes people think they have to do what their parents tell them to do. It's like killing a child's ability to think. Asking the child to do something and understanding the difference between good and bad from what he has done himself helps the child to understand right and wrong. Increases confidence.
6) Parents making mistakes in their own behavior
Parents are the closest environment for a child. When a child sees the behavior habits of the parent and becomes accustomed to it, it becomes the behavior of the parent. That's why it's important for parents to be good role models for their children. If you want your child to have good behavior, parents should show good behavior in front of the child. We must live with good behavior."