A secret way to help kids self-discipline
1) Teach them to come immediately when called. When parents call their children, many children do no...
1) Teach them to come immediately when called.
When parents call their children, many children do not come immediately. "What's the matter, mother..." they ask first. To teach self-control, teach the child to come immediately when the parent calls the child's name. It helps the child learn self-control. Because the child has to control himself to stop what he is doing when he hears the parent's call.
2) Teach to correct what is wrong.
Many children have the wrong response. For example, angry, Responding in a bad way. When parents point out these mistakes, teach them to correct them immediately. It helps them to self-discipline because they have to control themselves to keep making mistakes. "My mother ordered me. If he learns to control himself again with the thought of "I can't do this", he will be able to discipline himself when the time is right.
3) Teach the need for self-control in many social interactions.
Explain to children why self-control in social interactions is important. When they are angry in the environment they deal with, the negative consequences that can happen to those who act in anger. The good things that happen when you control your anger. The good things that happen when you control the violence. Ask them to learn about the negative effects that can happen when they can't control it. Prove it yourself. It gives them control over themselves. Gaining control allows you to discipline yourself.
4) Encourage self-discipline activities.
such as sports training, Doing school exercises, taking care of a neighbor's friend's pet; such as cleaning the room, Tell your child to set self-discipline in areas such as doing other activities. If there are things the child can do, encourage them. For example. "After writing two pages today, I have to use the phone," "I'll watch cartoons after doing my homework at school," etc. Then he will learn to set rules for himself.
5) Draw a chart. Put stickers and recognize what your child can do. Use a reward system.
Rewarding the child when he/she can follow certain rules, In the child's daily chart, when the child is able to follow the rules set for himself, praise him by putting small stickers.
6) Talk to your child about self-discipline at bedtime.
For children, when they go to bed, they tell stories and reprimand them. You can teach. Telling at that time may be more focused. Then teach him to go to bed alone without his parents. Praise when you can.
7) Set family rules.
Doing the right thing even when no one is watching is self-discipline. Following the rules set in the family allows you to set rules for yourself. For example, you have to eat breakfast at 7:30, I have to go to bed at exactly 8pm. And so on. Some parents make everything ready because they love their children. It makes children lose more self-control. Wise parents teach self-reliance from childhood to adulthood. Being able to set and follow your own rules is one of the most important aspects of a child's good behavior.
That's why being able to set self-discipline, Being able to follow is an initial skill a child needs to become a successful person in life.
It is translated from the link http://www.imom.com/7-secrets-to-self-disciplined-kids/#disqus_thread. #BAWA101
When parents call their children, many children do not come immediately. "What's the matter, mother..." they ask first. To teach self-control, teach the child to come immediately when the parent calls the child's name. It helps the child learn self-control. Because the child has to control himself to stop what he is doing when he hears the parent's call.
2) Teach to correct what is wrong.
Many children have the wrong response. For example, angry, Responding in a bad way. When parents point out these mistakes, teach them to correct them immediately. It helps them to self-discipline because they have to control themselves to keep making mistakes. "My mother ordered me. If he learns to control himself again with the thought of "I can't do this", he will be able to discipline himself when the time is right.
3) Teach the need for self-control in many social interactions.
Explain to children why self-control in social interactions is important. When they are angry in the environment they deal with, the negative consequences that can happen to those who act in anger. The good things that happen when you control your anger. The good things that happen when you control the violence. Ask them to learn about the negative effects that can happen when they can't control it. Prove it yourself. It gives them control over themselves. Gaining control allows you to discipline yourself.
4) Encourage self-discipline activities.
such as sports training, Doing school exercises, taking care of a neighbor's friend's pet; such as cleaning the room, Tell your child to set self-discipline in areas such as doing other activities. If there are things the child can do, encourage them. For example. "After writing two pages today, I have to use the phone," "I'll watch cartoons after doing my homework at school," etc. Then he will learn to set rules for himself.
5) Draw a chart. Put stickers and recognize what your child can do. Use a reward system.
Rewarding the child when he/she can follow certain rules, In the child's daily chart, when the child is able to follow the rules set for himself, praise him by putting small stickers.
6) Talk to your child about self-discipline at bedtime.
For children, when they go to bed, they tell stories and reprimand them. You can teach. Telling at that time may be more focused. Then teach him to go to bed alone without his parents. Praise when you can.
7) Set family rules.
Doing the right thing even when no one is watching is self-discipline. Following the rules set in the family allows you to set rules for yourself. For example, you have to eat breakfast at 7:30, I have to go to bed at exactly 8pm. And so on. Some parents make everything ready because they love their children. It makes children lose more self-control. Wise parents teach self-reliance from childhood to adulthood. Being able to set and follow your own rules is one of the most important aspects of a child's good behavior.
That's why being able to set self-discipline, Being able to follow is an initial skill a child needs to become a successful person in life.
It is translated from the link http://www.imom.com/7-secrets-to-self-disciplined-kids/#disqus_thread. #BAWA101