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What should you do with a child who is addicted to games?
1) Set rules. The main thing is to discipline and give the phone. Some parents are middle school stu...
1) Set rules.
The main thing is to discipline and give the phone. Some parents are middle school students, while others are using them because they don't want their children to be let down. In fact, premature delivery of the phone can lead to many other problems. That's why I only got a phone after high school. But if this is the case, then you should set a rule such as how many hours you can use after work at home or when tutoring is done, not using the phone at school. Rather than being asked to use the phone immediately, since I am a student, Ask them to do their homework, etc., and then ask them to use the phone when they should have received the text. Set a time limit and use it during that time. When the time is up, the parent retrieves it immediately.
2) Keep the phone password.
Keep the phone with a password that only parents know. That is when there are no parents, Even when the parent can't see, the child won't be able to use the phone. Even if I put my phone down, I can't do anything when I'm not there. You don't have to heat up to play games when you're not aware. Don't let the child know about the password. When it's time to use it, open it. Make a weekly or bi-weekly appointment.
3) Have them read.
Many of these parents rarely even read themselves. (There are people who do read). Before children can choose books from a young age, Parents can tell the child the books that should be read in the form of a story. When the children of parents who are told like this become adults, they will have a desire to read when they see books themselves, so there is no need to be afraid of not reading. According to the study in our environment, a child who is good at reading is less interested in the game. A child who has become addicted to games may not be able to be drawn back to reading at all if the game habits are not removed early. That's why I will ask the child who is addicted to the game to read, not stop the game immediately. After reading and discussing the content of the book, I will play the game again for an hour... and then I will gradually cut the game. If you are playing too many games, ask your child to read a good book. Discuss the book the child reads with the child. What do you think of the character in this book or what do you think after reading this story? What do you feel after reading this story?
4) Make compromises.
As mentioned above, if it's schoolwork, ask them to do the schoolwork side of things like, "I'll play a game for an hour depending on what chapter and lesson I get." If you ask them to read the text as well, when you become a habit of reading, the game time will gradually decrease. That's why if you can read and discuss, you can play a game for an hour. Asking them to read and discuss, and having the child read the school book and check the school book themselves. Otherwise, the parents themselves are strict enough to not really get the compromised lesson because they may be pretending to do schoolwork just for the sake of playing games. When asked to read and discuss, the parents themselves should not be in a superficial discussion. That will soon get you into the habit of replaying the game. Parents take the book that they are asked to read seriously and discuss it in terms that the child can understand. To avoid pretending to want to play games and pretend to read superficially, it is discussed with the parents themselves.
5) Lead the parent to do outdoor physical activity.
such as vacation Or have them do physical activity in a park or pool or outdoor environment, such as during free time. Asking the child to "go...exercise" is not effective. If asked to do so, the child will often go to a friend who plays games with him and play games. You yourself should lead by saying, "Come on, let's go for a walk in Kanpao this Sunday morning." Get yourself involved. Make the child happy. Then the child will want to follow you if you call him like that again. Bring the child's friends along to play in the park, Let them kick the ball.
6) Ask for small household chores.
Another problem is that young people have problems with school and home. Once home and tutoring time is over, parents don't pay much attention to their children. When the tutoring time is over, please let the parents go home early. When I get home, I ask him to do homework, and the rest of the free time, for example, watching TV, It's okay to watch a movie, but when there's nothing to do, young men often find a way to go out. For example. going to a friend's house Like going to the game store. Don't give a game-addicted child that kind of free time. When a gamer gets free time, he is only focused on playing the game. That's why watching movies watching TV Have the child take care of the small matters of the house urgently after finishing the reading. Ask for your child's advice. For example. Asking to carry a broom, Asking for a new bed sheet, I was forced to put the cover back on, asked to clean the dust, Do things like onion peels.
7) Punish severely.
If the child does not follow the rules you set, warn them in advance that you will be severely punished. Punish severely if you do not follow the deadline. It will be remembered so as not to break the rules in the future. When you release it once, you steal the game again and again. If you keep using the phone secretly, the rule you set will be free. Your child's game addiction won't go away.
In addition to the above points, parents of children who are addicted to games are especially vulnerable. Mainly because of the weakness of the parents. The parents are unable to support the child. Being busy with my work and not being able to hold my baby, I don't think about whether I should give it or not, and I don't give a damn about having a phone with my peers. Parents themselves do not understand the benefits of reading; The parents themselves do not read. Because of this, children go from using the phone for entertainment during their free time to being used again. That's why children's addiction to games has a lot to do with parents. If your child is already playing games too much, I advise you to be careful and try the above points.
The main thing is to discipline and give the phone. Some parents are middle school students, while others are using them because they don't want their children to be let down. In fact, premature delivery of the phone can lead to many other problems. That's why I only got a phone after high school. But if this is the case, then you should set a rule such as how many hours you can use after work at home or when tutoring is done, not using the phone at school. Rather than being asked to use the phone immediately, since I am a student, Ask them to do their homework, etc., and then ask them to use the phone when they should have received the text. Set a time limit and use it during that time. When the time is up, the parent retrieves it immediately.
2) Keep the phone password.
Keep the phone with a password that only parents know. That is when there are no parents, Even when the parent can't see, the child won't be able to use the phone. Even if I put my phone down, I can't do anything when I'm not there. You don't have to heat up to play games when you're not aware. Don't let the child know about the password. When it's time to use it, open it. Make a weekly or bi-weekly appointment.
3) Have them read.
Many of these parents rarely even read themselves. (There are people who do read). Before children can choose books from a young age, Parents can tell the child the books that should be read in the form of a story. When the children of parents who are told like this become adults, they will have a desire to read when they see books themselves, so there is no need to be afraid of not reading. According to the study in our environment, a child who is good at reading is less interested in the game. A child who has become addicted to games may not be able to be drawn back to reading at all if the game habits are not removed early. That's why I will ask the child who is addicted to the game to read, not stop the game immediately. After reading and discussing the content of the book, I will play the game again for an hour... and then I will gradually cut the game. If you are playing too many games, ask your child to read a good book. Discuss the book the child reads with the child. What do you think of the character in this book or what do you think after reading this story? What do you feel after reading this story?
4) Make compromises.
As mentioned above, if it's schoolwork, ask them to do the schoolwork side of things like, "I'll play a game for an hour depending on what chapter and lesson I get." If you ask them to read the text as well, when you become a habit of reading, the game time will gradually decrease. That's why if you can read and discuss, you can play a game for an hour. Asking them to read and discuss, and having the child read the school book and check the school book themselves. Otherwise, the parents themselves are strict enough to not really get the compromised lesson because they may be pretending to do schoolwork just for the sake of playing games. When asked to read and discuss, the parents themselves should not be in a superficial discussion. That will soon get you into the habit of replaying the game. Parents take the book that they are asked to read seriously and discuss it in terms that the child can understand. To avoid pretending to want to play games and pretend to read superficially, it is discussed with the parents themselves.
5) Lead the parent to do outdoor physical activity.
such as vacation Or have them do physical activity in a park or pool or outdoor environment, such as during free time. Asking the child to "go...exercise" is not effective. If asked to do so, the child will often go to a friend who plays games with him and play games. You yourself should lead by saying, "Come on, let's go for a walk in Kanpao this Sunday morning." Get yourself involved. Make the child happy. Then the child will want to follow you if you call him like that again. Bring the child's friends along to play in the park, Let them kick the ball.
6) Ask for small household chores.
Another problem is that young people have problems with school and home. Once home and tutoring time is over, parents don't pay much attention to their children. When the tutoring time is over, please let the parents go home early. When I get home, I ask him to do homework, and the rest of the free time, for example, watching TV, It's okay to watch a movie, but when there's nothing to do, young men often find a way to go out. For example. going to a friend's house Like going to the game store. Don't give a game-addicted child that kind of free time. When a gamer gets free time, he is only focused on playing the game. That's why watching movies watching TV Have the child take care of the small matters of the house urgently after finishing the reading. Ask for your child's advice. For example. Asking to carry a broom, Asking for a new bed sheet, I was forced to put the cover back on, asked to clean the dust, Do things like onion peels.
7) Punish severely.
If the child does not follow the rules you set, warn them in advance that you will be severely punished. Punish severely if you do not follow the deadline. It will be remembered so as not to break the rules in the future. When you release it once, you steal the game again and again. If you keep using the phone secretly, the rule you set will be free. Your child's game addiction won't go away.
In addition to the above points, parents of children who are addicted to games are especially vulnerable. Mainly because of the weakness of the parents. The parents are unable to support the child. Being busy with my work and not being able to hold my baby, I don't think about whether I should give it or not, and I don't give a damn about having a phone with my peers. Parents themselves do not understand the benefits of reading; The parents themselves do not read. Because of this, children go from using the phone for entertainment during their free time to being used again. That's why children's addiction to games has a lot to do with parents. If your child is already playing games too much, I advise you to be careful and try the above points.
