"For example. Suppose you have a friend who borrows money because he desperately needs money. When he asks you to borrow money because he has no debt, you lend him money out of pity and pity, but he doesn't pay you back on time, and if he pretends to live like a rich man in front of everyone with his behavior, clothes, accessories, and decorations, it will happen to you. In fact, he has a lot of debt to pay, but if he eats and dresses, he wears only good brands There are really bald people. How do you learn from such people? It's true that something will happen to you, but you can learn from that person If it's your turn, you can learn from the people above that you should "dress well with what you have, live honestly and be happy with what you have."
If you don't get drunk, it's great for your family, but when you see a head of a household who beats his wife when he gets drunk, if you become the head of a household one day in your life, you can learn a lesson by thinking that you will try not to drink. The pain of orphans, If you see the small faces of the little ones, don't let your own children become orphans. Don't be petty, try to be a good parent and learn from it.

Think about the pain you felt when your parents' marriage didn't work out, and think that you will live so that your children don't feel the same pain in turn, can you practice it? Can't you see how your children feel because of an adulterous parent and learn that you will watch over your children to prevent them from doing the same?
In fact, there are people around you who can do good for you. There may be people who cause negative effects. But changing the way you see what these people have to offer can benefit you in a positive way. In other words, think of the people around you as giving you life lessons. You will get something good out of the bad.

Sometimes there are many things in life that we cannot change. For example. Your parents' divorce cannot change you. You cannot choose to be born to parents who are rich and can support you a lot. etc. There are many things that you cannot choose. But changing your perspective on things you can't control like the one above is the way to turn your bad into good. What can we accomplish because we are suffering only from the negative? It's like the saying "You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending." If we can't change it back to the beginning, we can start from where we are now and change it to the end as we want. Everyone you meet in your life wants to give you good things. Someone who will hurt you on purpose. Someone who accidentally hurts you, Someone who expects you to help them back because they helped you. The kind you helped You will experience a lot of people who helped you without expecting anything in return. Then, as I said above, remember that "I am taking lessons from people for life lessons". Be warned. Then you will have endurance. “Everything happens for a reason. That reason causes change. Sometimes it hurts, sometimes it's hard. But in the end, it's all for the best.” Recite the text. Everything happens for a reason. That reason can also change you. Sometimes it must hurt, Sometimes it will be difficult; But in the end, it's all for the best.

The main thing is to teach those who are good to you to "learn to be good to others like them" and those who are bad to you to "learn not to be bad to others like them." That's why your life is good for you or not. If you understand that whatever happens to you, bad or bad, everyone will teach you a lesson."