"1) Don't give up.
No matter what pessimists say, you have to create your own life. Don't pay attention to what the pessimists say. Don't feel. Sometimes, it is customary for some people to criticize even though they have never been in a similar situation. You have to survive, so it's best to not give up on your life and think about how to survive. Those who condemn cannot always condemn. for myself Nothing is more important to you than how you stand your life for your children. Focus is important.
2) Prepare the spirit.
Who would have thought that this would happen in my life? There are a lot of things in life that are taken without wanting. What if life doesn't turn out the way you want it to? Stand up to make the life you want to be a good one. Prepare your mind like that. 7 days of people's praise Understand the 7 days of blasphemy. It will be over in time. Show that your life doesn't just come down to being a single mom. Fix yourself to harden your spirit.
3) Don't dwell on the past.
I feel sad when I see other people's families being happy. But, as always, I have not sat down and cried to the point where the current times and what should be done in the future are affected. When you are crying, are those who hurt you crying? Let your tears be for your children. You must be twice as strong because you are the only one of your children. Then I thought about what I should do. get up immediately Thinking about the past and doing nothing in the present, sitting and crying, who will it affect? It's time consuming. Don't forget that you need to be 2 times stronger than others. Try again until you forget all your sorrows. Use your time well. Until there is no time to be sad. Leave the past in the past. Make good use of the present time.
4) Study a vocational education.
Your children's future is in your hands. Learn some skills to stand you up. Sewing machine. Make sure you learn and stand up for your life. Focus on improving your life. Don't pay attention to the opinions of the environment. Make sure you learn enough to become proficient enough to support yourself. If you start repairing yourself, nothing is too late.
5) Read.
Read regularly to give your child emotional security. Read for yourself. Read on to teach your child not to do this. Read so that you can inherit your children's lives. Read in your free time to be the best parent you can be to your child. You don't have to be weak because you don't have money. A parent who reads can raise a well-educated child. A parent who has no money but can raise a child to read is more valuable than a parent who has plenty of money and cannot raise their child. Even if you don't have much money, you can still be a valuable parent.
6) Don't think you are weak.
Everyone has invisible abilities. There is a difference between using and not using. Just because you're a single mom doesn't mean you're inferior. You are a person who has the courage to face your life in a situation where you are not able to. Then prepare to use your power to the fullest. Learn what you should learn. Read and remember what you should read. You need to have 2 wisdom for your child. You need to be stronger than others. Because of this, you can use your power more aggressively. You are not poor.
It's worth writing if you get a little strength after reading the letters. Let's empathize with the lives of single moms who have to deal with the life that everyone doesn't want. #BAWA101"