"At that time, I will be irritable, angry, hurt, and no matter how good I am, I may even hate the person who is bad to me. "He is not bad to me, I can't be bad to him...what else?"

For those who are less intelligent, they can even react to revenge by thinking about whether good things should be done in return. In fact, it is a kind of personality. We are the same people, but we can't be different. I have a good heart, but it's rare that someone will understand your heart. It is impossible to expect the same response, let alone the same understanding. Then I will no longer be kind to everyone.
Now, like the title of the article, "Who is good or not is the main thing to be good" why... Because it is the first thing that affects you, whether it's speech or not. For example. The moment you curse back at the person who cursed you in anger, your mind is disturbed by anger. As if you can't be refreshed anymore, You want to physically attack the person who cursed you in anger. Desire to win again Again, the urge to react angrily. Then your mind starts to get affected. Your mind is attacked first by your angry mind. That's why no matter how the other person reacts, It's up to you to make a good response. If you react badly, it's on you.

That's why you should take something that is good for you. It's up to you to decide whether to take the bad thing. No matter how bad the other person is, you can't take it. It's common, so how can everyone benefit? But when I think that I am going to react badly, I need to be careful and hold back as much as possible. I'll treat you like it's right... If he smiles, I'll smile. It is an immature thought that if you are alone, you will be without a body. If you don't have a body because you are lonely, your mind will be disturbed. If someone makes you feel bad about someone mocking you, smile back without mocking them. It will ease the tension in your mind. That is, what you give, you get back.
Like Wayne Dyer's quote, “How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.” How people treat you is their business. How you respond is up to you. Suppose someone is slandering you....When you hear it, you get angry and go to fight him, then you will be a bad person. If a person yells at you in anger and curses you back, you will be on the same level as him. Marcus Aurelius said, "Our life is what our thoughts make it." Your life is shaped by your thoughts. Their lives will be shaped by their thoughts. If you want to live a happy life, don't think about adding unpleasantness to your life. Think small. trouble you If you think about the people who are bothering you, you will be troubled by them. angry It will definitely be annoying. So try not to let your thoughts enter into your thoughts. Don't let bad people be bad to you. No matter how they felt that feeling, You don't feel. If you don't feel If you don't take If you don't put thought into your life, you won't have to suffer.

Finally, what they are bad at is that they disturb their focus in the first place. If you don't take it, it won't disturb your focus anymore. It happens to you that you reflect well. In the end, you will be satisfied with your good response. That's why in your mind, think that how bad others are is only their business and the main thing is for you to be good. You will be very happy, I encourage you."